This will be a bit different blog post for me because I am going to discuss sexual chemistry and the most memorable sexual chemistry I ever felt with a man. I think sexual chemistry is huge either with a partner or even a phone sex operator if the chemistry is there than there is no obstacle to having amazing explosive sex.
I think for me I knew he and I would have intense sex from the moment I looked into his eyes for the first time……….the very first time his hands entwined with mine I felt that spark I felt that sexual chemistry and I knew that we would be explosive together. The first time our lips touched it was as if they were meant to always be together………we kissed for hours fully clothed just getting lost in the moment in that time there was no outside world there was no problems there was nothing but the two of us and our connection.
As our first sexual encounter progressed I was all too aware of the sensations every sound every touch how I had never felt so on fire as I did at that moment………that for all the amazing sex I had had in my life rough to kinky and other wise nothing beat this intense fulfilling gentle touch. His hands were like magic to me exploring my body with his lips following close behind…. I had other lovers do the very same thing but never did I feel such a total sexual charge as I did with him.
He would talk as he touched a new part of my body describing my nipple growing harder at his finger tip or lick of his tongue how my body trembled when he discovered the line where my ass meets my leg and how caressing it such a seemingly generic spot on my body made me tingle…his fingers and mouth exploring every inch of my body slipping his finger inside and being amazed at how my pussy pulled it in deeper making me cum so hard with just his finger finding my g-spot faster than any man ever had and exploiting it using it to bring me to orgasm over and over until I was trembling and telling him to stop moving just don’t move I said……………..to which he didn’t but left his finger deep inside and before I even realized it I was beginning to grind against him bringing myself to another orgasm while the whole time he said I’m not moving……….I’m not moving baby.
The sexual chemistry I felt with him was unlike any I have ever known and when you find it you must embrace it….whether in person or on the phone embrace it………because having that sexual chemistry can make the most vanilla basic sex turn into a lifelong memory of earth shattering explosive orgasms…………to this day many years later I often think of him and tingle knowing what we shared how amazing it was and how I have been searching for that same sexual chemistry ever since…………..so yes as far as I am concerned sexual chemistry is ALL they chalk it up to be because once you found it you will never be the same!
This was only our first night together followed by many nights after that were equally explosive and amazing perhaps in the future I will share more details of my greatest sexual chemistry experience ever. If you would like to share your most memorable sexual chemistry experience please feel free to leave a comment.
Remarkable post! If it were permitted, I would be very jealous indeed. To have been able to stir such intense passion in you, he must have been a remarkable real man.
I find myself in total agreement with you about chemistry. While I can’t even pretend to be the kind of man that experiences the type of chemistry you descibe in this post………..To me our calls still have a real chemsitry. And I too will never be the same as a result 🙂
thanks Mike for the comments you can be as jealous as you like but no need to be 🙂 I agree our calls did have chemistry and it was all there creating some very hot sessions and memories for us both……….sometimes never being the same after someone so intense is no longer a daily part of your life is a good thing because I for one will forever be changed and have no regrets 🙂
There was a Woman. She and i worked for a short while together in a bar in west Texas as we were both trying to figure out where we were going in life. we were both just under 30, me fresh out of college after time in the Nave & She fresh out of a divorce. She was the first, truly, fully formed woman in my life…a gorgeous 5’10” Cherokee-Irish Goddess with long deep red hair. we’d made eye contact for a month each time i served up her drink orders but had never done more than touch fingertips, when i’d help Her load Her tray. one night, after work, the whole staff was invited to an after hours club. i hung around for maybe 90 minutes, listening to some old bluesmen, then announced i was heading out. She asked for a ride home & when we pulled up in front of Her place, i just naturally hopped out to get Her door. She took my by the hand & led me inside & just like that, we couldn’t keep our hands off of each other. we both had so much urgency, such a longing for a connection with someone else. it seemed to all come together. by the time the sun came up, we were sprawled across her bed in a tangle of limbs, glistening in sweat & smiling. we sort of hung together the rest of my time in Texas, reading the need in each other & reprising that first night often, with remarkable success. we never talked about a future. i’ve no idea why.
thank you coffee! It is amazing how sexual chemistry seems to create such a vivid memory and image in your head I bet if you closed your eyes and thought about it the memory of that encounter and those nights with her are so real you can almost touch,taste almost eve smell it……..ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh what a wonderful thing it is and hmm maybe you never discussed a future because you both knew somewhere deep inside this is all there was meant to be?
that’s precisely what it was, Ms. Constance. we were both itchy to be well done with west Texas. i hell-bent on running into my future, whatever it was & she was equally intent on running from her past.
Kissing is the apex of intmacy that segues into everything else.It’s the essence by which an encounter is defined.
It seperates romance from carnality,making love from fucking and can turn a rendezvous into a relationship.As I reflect upon the encounters burned into my memory,I’m reminded of the make out sessions we had after we had had sex,the full body kisses,the hardening of her nipples,as well as my own,the wetness of her privates streaming onto mine,providing emprical evidence that I had satisfied her.Women can say the words,make the noises,etc.,but nothing’s more physically and psychologically stimulating than actual and observable proof that a woman is turned on.Her grabbing my hair as I was giving cunnilingus,saying “I want your cock inside me”,sucking on my fingers,her blushing each time I kissed her nose,my taking advantage of her seemingly getting lost in the moment to suck on her ear and the subsequent turning of her head,a not too subtle indication that I had hit “the spot”,her legs embracing my head in a vicelike grip as I orally fixated her,that one time I traced circles with my finger around her bellybutton ring,Her and I laying side by side as I recited to her poetry from memory,the whimsical moments and laughter we shared.”What do I have to do to make you cum,baby?”She would soon answer her own question.Essentially whispering in my ear “would you do me doggy style?”,as if “fuck me up the ass” would belie the intimacy of the moment.The goodbye kiss that wasn’t supposed to be a goodbye kiss.I cried once it became apparent the aforementioned would never be revisited.I miss her and will always.But,one has had to have had in the first place in order to yearn for it again and,for that,I’m grateful.
wow ed thanks for a great post and for sharing such a hot encounter about great sexual chemistry! I agree one has to have felt it in order to yearn it!!
It wasn’t just one encounter.They were portions of a series of encounters.Too,I assume you noticed,too,that that which was mentioned wasn’t all sexual.Sex doesn’t always have to be physical,though it’s stereotyped as having to be such.Previous to us even having physical sex,she would be sitting in an upright position on the couch while I assumed an almost fetal position next to her while latching on to her waste as if she were a surrogate mother while we talked about whatever.I think women understand better that relationships are more than physical.If that’s all that the participating parties have in common,the relationship will only last so long
Yes I understand Ed my sexual chemistry man was not a one time thing either and it was not all about the sex………I could not agree more that sex is not always just physical but with him as with the woman you mention it was there in our eyes and it was felt anyone who saw us felt the chemistry it was just amazing!
When in a relationship with a woman,it’s essential she be considered:
1.A lover
2.A friend to hang out and do stuff with,not to mention with whom to just talk in general about whatever,often times about things you either can’t,or wouldn’t,tell anybody else.
3.A daughter that you check up on,sometimes ad nauseum,although you know she’s perfectly capable of taking care of herself.
I kissed her one time and didn’t let go,which elicited the rather aurally intersting question,”are you gonna let me go?”,to which I,of course, replied “no”,and I never have and never will.She determined that our backgrounds were too diverse.She came from a background that,suffice to say,few would envy,and that,I suppose,in part at least,led her into getting involved with guys she was only compatible with physically and when she realized we were compatible on so many other levels,I think it sorta scared her.
I reflect upon what I could’ve said to make her stay.I think about times we had and,as mentioned previously,cry upon realizing they’ll never happen again.But some things have to be accepted,as that’s life.We move on to other relationships,thinking that,perhaps,that will compensate for what’s been lost,but they don’t,nor will they ever.Perhaps I feel the way I do about her because she was my first and,essentially,only,meaningful relationship,but it’s gonna take someone special to so much as approach what she was,and continues to be,to me,and I’m still waitin.After all these years.
I am speechless. Fantastic post. Thank you for sharing such intimate details and in such glorious detail. You really painted a great picture. Thank you.
Well thank you gummy glad you could see that picture painted clearly for you 🙂
Wow that is the hottest blog I’ve ever read!!! As for me I felt that with a girl who was my friend first. We both knew we were hot for each other but I think neither one of us wanted to make the first move. Then one night we were swimming and as know there is nothing like a cute girl getting out of the pool all wet. I Kept staring at her and she asked me what I was looking at and I told her nothing (what an idiot I was ) At that point she knew I was into her and she made the first move and it was great!! I have yet to feel that kind of chemistry yet. Oh yeah the love making was amazing!! We put on some music (sade and made love for hours. Damm I wish I knew where she was now 🙂 Love your blogs Ms Constance
Kurt
Kurt thank you for sharing!! Glad you enjoyed that little slice into my private life and I loved hearing about the sexual chemistry you once shared…wonder why it is so hard to find that again once you have had it like me you said you have yet to feel that again……..well we can keep looking 🙂 Thanks for the comments on my blogs so happy you enjoy them!