Yes, you read that title right! As of today GummyBear has now officially been denied for one solid year! August 22, 2010 was the last time he came and I have enjoyed this orgasm denial roller coaster!!!! I am so very proud of him for making it this long and I look forward to what the future holds!!!
Long Term Denial
Yes, if anything is long term I would say that not having an orgasm for a solid year is definitely long term denial! This is not something everyone can relate to, and to be honest, I never thought I would be that into….but I must say sitting here at my desk a year later, I have to say WOW! this has opened my eyes and made me love long term orgasm denial!!!
I can say over the year that we have had our ups and downs; the euphoric nature of being controlled always seems to win over all those moments of weakness when he would beg just to cum. Many times I got emails stating he was on fire and more turned on than he has ever been in his life, and being the one controlling his denial I must say is indeed a rush! I wish I could explain that better but a rush is truly like what it is…. reading those words and knowing I was the keeper of that cock truly and for real. is a power trip unlike any I have ever known!
Chastity Added to the Control
For about half this past year he was able to stroke for me during our phone sex sessions but he was never obviously allowed to cum……then came chastity from the moment we locked that cock up it took his denial to a new level, no longer did he have the freedom to touch it when he liked, no longer did he get a full erection or wake up with morning wood, now that cock was totally mine and from the moment we locked my cock up till now I have no regrets, I have never once wavered or even thought about caving in.
He never knew when he would be allowed out of chastity for a bit of stroking during our sessions and that’s just the way I liked it, I have and will continue to have full control over that cock. Leading up to this amazing date he has not stroked in a month! After all we couldn’t have an accident when we were reaching such a huge date now could we?!
Does he get to cum?
I bet you’re all dying to know…it has been a year on orgasm denial….locked in chastity for nearly 6 months….NOW NOW will he get to cum????? *laughing* well I certainly would not say here if he is or not but know this…as much as I love to be a cock control mistress, and as much as I have enjoyed this ride and his long term denial and chastity do you think I am going to allow the fun to end?
Feel free to leave your comments about this blog and what you think I should do from here…keep him lock and denied even longer or should I let him out to cum? I am not saying your opinions will sway me I have my plans for him but by all means tell me what you think should happen.
That sounds like one fun year to me! I say if you’ve done one, may as well go for 2. 😉
Ms Claire I soooooooooooooooooooo agree if you went one 2 is not that far away hehehehehe but I think he may not like that so much one year being denied an orgasm may be enough. MAY be hehehe
When the french labeled the orgasm as “la petite mort” (the little death) I don’t think it was due to a fear or it. Instead it may have be so named because of the glimpse it gives us of the enternal…of the pure bliss of heaven.
Should he be allowed? Heavens YES!
well DCMike thank you for the comment and the french lesson….I think you made him smile with your opinion to let him cum hehehehe
Cumming is like having filet mignon and champagne and he’s been having grilled cheese and apple juice for a year?!
Gee,that’s tough!!
i can’t help thinking how generous and considerate You’ve been through all of this. its not everyone who could help gummy survive the weakness of actually begging to help him come (no pun intended) out of it with his will intact.
part of me is inclined to suggest its time. after all, the memory of what he is foregoing may be fading into the mists of time by now. in some ways, letting him release and immediately starting the countdown again, could be the cruelest thing imaginable.
the other part of me suggests that You build him up, encourage him. then let him have Ms. Alex’s favorite kind of orgasm…..the ruined kind.
coffeboy well thank you for the great comment! I am not sure he would be a fan of a Ms Alex orgasm but we shall see. After being denied a year if he gets any release I am thinking it will be a full on mind blowing orgasm IF IFFFFFFFFFFFFFF he gets one at all that is hehehehehehe
Way to go, Gummy!
Ms. Constance, if I was ever in that position, I would hope for an orgasm, but then I hope I never get to be in that postion in the first place!
But knowing Gummy, he probably wants to remain your totally devoted and totally denied confectionery!
LOL peterteasetoy you mean your not into long term orgasm denial? Ohhh darn I thought you were………I am sure he read your comment and said yes yes let me cum!!! But your right about how he feels I think he is torn he wants to cum so badly yet he doesnt want it to end….whatever shall a mistress do? hehehehe
Way to go Gummy and Constance!
If I was in Gummy’s shoes, well, not only would I want to keep them (they are nice shoes) but I’d want release. I guess though if I was in Gummy’s shoes, it wouldn’t really be up to me though …
Alice your always amusing I so enjoy your comments………first off stay out of gummy’s shoes and thank you for the way to go….I am so proud of him and of myself and you are so right if you were gummy it would not be up to you………… 🙂
Wow!!! Such wonderful and encouraging comments! It has been a long year, full of ups and downs, but the one constant throughout this incredible journey is Empress Constance. My Empress never wavered. She offered encouragement when I needed it, and determination when I needed it. Empress was a cheerleader, a Mistress, a confidant, and a true friend. I’ve been very fortunate to have taken this journey with such a wonderful companion. Thank you Empress Constance!!! Whatever the future holds, as long as Empress Constance is with me, it must be right!!!!
Awwwwwwwwww gummy I could have never made it through the year without you being one of the best chastity boys I have ever known…we certainly have grown through this year and I see a very bright future for us even if it does not involve you having and orgasm. Here is to us and our chastity and denial future!!! way to go!!
Way to go Gummy I see your still celibating in style with Ms Constance I don’t think I could have gone a year of denial myself. Whatever Ms Constance has in store for you I am sure you are going to love it. To cum or not to cum that is the question, and only Ms Constance knows the answer. Good luck Gummy.
heheh forrest yes I am the only one who knows the answer to the question “will gummy get to orgasm” I am not prepared to share it just know I am loving this orgasm denial train and I have no intention of getting off just yet…hey I said getting off hehehehehehe
Wow a whole year without cumming!! I take my hat off to gummy and to you denying him. I have to say it’s kind of hot that you do that to him. Not that I would ever do that but it’s still hot to me. As far as letting him cum, (sorry gummy) I say no. You should let it ride and see where it goes. I think that would be even hotter. Your rock Ms Constance!!
Yes one whole year with being denied orgasms!!! I am letting it ride kurt and I am sure gummy is not offended hehehehehe thanks for the comment sexy!!!
You seem to really enjoy having someone denied a year. Let him cum when you have someone to take his place. Do you have anyone else denied close to a year? Even if you do, what if they don’t make it to the full year? What if they could have made it, but 11 months in, you grant them release just so Gummy has to wait longer? Now that you’ve tasted the rush you get from having denied someone an entire year, why ever go without it again?
I do really enjoy denying a man for a year *HUGE SMILE* There is nobody who could take his place and I plan on keeping him denied indefinitely! I have no intention of going without it thats why he shall remain denied!! Man that sounds bad but I just love long term denial and how it effects him and I! Amazing this feeling no way I am giving it up
Ms. Constance, I agree with the other commentators. This is extremely hot. I am amazed that denial could legitimately last a year, but I am more amazed that there has been no touching for so long as even six months. I think I might make it a year without cumming, but I am not sure I could go a week without touching.
But I think I would like to try.
Bill I am amazed by his will power and his strength and his undying loyalty to me and wanting this not for just himself but for me as well……….you misread though he has been out of chastity in the last 6 months but for no longer than a few minutes here and there for stroking…….although he has now gone over a month without touching and has at least a week to go before being able to touch again..mmmmm denial denial denial I am a mistress who love orgasm denial!
My hat’s off to GummyBear for controlling his cock! Being denied an orgasm for 1 entire year is quite an accomplishment! He has about 4 months over me, and I hope to make it to 1 year. My complements go to Empress Constance for providing such training. In my case, I am enjoying the fantasy made into reality of living a lifestyle of being denied having orgasms. I just like that sensation of constantly being horny and having that greater sensitivity while masturbating! That there are others out there enjoying that lifestyle is encouraging to me! Thank you!
well hey gummy has done an excellent job but so have you I am sure your keyholder is very proud of what you have done. I am glad that you see there are others out there that enjoy long term orgasm denial and chastity as much as you do. Keep UP the good work!!
Way to go Gummy 🙂 That is awesome. It is amazing how far you will go for the perfect Mistress, and Ms. Constance is perfect in every way. I am currently struggling my ass off in denial…but it when you want to do it for your Mistress…it is amazing the lengths you will go to for pleasing her 🙂
Thank you matty!!! It is amazing how far he has gone and continues to go and it just goes to show you with the right woman/mistress by your side anything is possible including chastity and denail for over a year!!!
Wow! If having a boy in chastity is a status symbol, keeping him cumless for a whole year is a huge plume in your cap. I congratulate gummy for going so long but my real praise goes to Empress Constance. So few women understand the power of chastity and orgasm denial and of those who do, even fewer have the guts to carry it out.
Thank you sugar time!!!!! I am so very proud of gummy and his denial continues he will be denied an orgasm for as far into the future as I can see at this point and I could not be more thrilled about it or more thrilled with him! You give me a ton of credit for which I am grateful but gummy has done a huge thing for me and that is something I will cherish forever…………I have to say if anything this shows all my readers and those who may be thinking of calling or interested in any type of denial that I am in it for the long haul not a fly by night mistress but someone who enjoys long term denial and relationships with my clients and who sticks it out even when times are tough……….ohh thats another blog post hehehehe thanks sugar time!! Hey and welcome to my blog!!!!
What amazing devotion your submissive’s show to you, Ms.Constance. I’m sure they all bring you happiness everyday with their unwavering selflessness. Not all men are capable of putting the women in their life ahead of themselves.
sweet boy another great comment your right sometimes although we want to put that certain person first in our lives we lose sight of that but not in this case his devotion is strong and his denial continues!!!
I guess it’s a bit late to be commenting on this, but…
Wow, a year? Yikes, I can’t imagine lasting a fraction of that time. I would be climbing the walls in short order.
Congratulations to both Empress Constance and Gummy
p.s. Holy shit
p.p.s. Did I say crimony yet? CRIMONY!
Never to late to comment!!! Yes now it has been over a year and he is still going strong! I could not be happier with him and his on going chastity and orgasm denial!!