In my life I have had many very loyal and devoted phone sex clients and I treasure every one of them, Devotion does not mean you call her and call only her it simply means you are willing to do what it takes to make her happy.
Gift Giving Devotion
Do you like to spoil your Mistress with gifts? If you are one of the many wonderful gift givers it is an amazing way to show your devotion but ONLY if it is given in good spirit. I am sure you are all like what does she mean? Simply put if your way of showing devotion to your mistress is by sending her gifts than do it for that reason and that reason alone, not to get public recognition or to make your Mistress feel as though she is forever in your debt. Honestly if you give gifts with any of those 2 reasons in mind you don’t need to bother sending them.
Phone Sex Devotion
Do you show your devotion with regular calls? I am not demanding about making you call me but if how you show your devotion and appreciation is through making calls well keep them coming! Remember if you’re looking for a bond or to find a phone sex Mistress that you can trust the only way to do this is to speak to her voice to voice on some sort of regular basis either weekly, bi weekly or even monthly.
Online Devotion
Do you show your devotion through online communications? This can be done via e-mail or messenger or social media. To truly show your devotion to your Mistress in these ways it should once again be done in a way that is not demanding or hyper critical of what she does or how she does it. A great way to show online devotion is to share her with everyone, share her posts comment on them spread the word about what a wonderful Mistress you have and how devoted you are to her.
No matter what you do if you truly want to show your Phone Sex Mistress devotion make her happy, making her happy makes her feel your devotion and she will treasure you for it
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I never give gifts looking for something in return. To me that’s self serving. Now it is true that I dream of Your reaction and I may share my dream with You, but that never means that is why I give. My gifts are always to make You happy. You are correct I do Love showing my devotion to You through gifts, calls and emails. My favorite thing is to do is listen very carefully to You to find out what You need that would make You the happiest and then do my best to achieve that for You.
Just like the old saying goes “Happy Queen, Happy pet!” Or something like that.. LoL
self serving is exactly the words my sweet pet! I have been amazed by your generosity and thoughtfulness and you have that right happy queen happy pet hehehehe
I always think the person giving the gift should get enjoyment out of giving, the way the person receiving it gets joy. I advise those who want to give gifts to keep in mind that a gift does not have to be elaborate or expensive. If you find a mistress who only wants expensive and elaborate gifts (Empress Constance is definitely NOT this way), that you can’t afford or otherwise don’t want to give, then perhaps that mistress is not for you. At the end of the day, only your mistress and yourself have to be happy with gifting.
I agree in fact when I give gifts it is truly from the heart with no expectations from the receiver a simple thank you is enough….and would never dare say I did this and gave you that at a later time……..and so true think about whoyou give that gift to if they demand or expect them than that’s not cool…thanks for being such a great pet
Gifts, calls all are wonderful. Some of the most supportive ways to be devoted are unspoken ways of respect that one should show to someone that is special to them. You can’t demean, criticize, or find fault with her. Don’t abuse her with words, or sullen behavior or actions.
wes you say it so well if someone is special to you treat them special plain and simple 🙂
All I can say is I hope I have shown the kind of devotion in all the areas you mentioned and more….I think a true subbie should wake up every morning asking himself, or directly of his Goddess…..”How might I better serve you today Mistress?”
you have gone above and beyond in every way and the last line is perfection
Wow. Lots to say. Surprise. 🙂 I agree with you there are countless ways to show devotion and support. Calling whenever possible, always being on time, making sure you and the other ladies I am with know how much I appreciate the calls and the other time I get, retweeting, sharing on Facebook, blog commenting, leaving reviews, writing on EE, all that. I have done a lot of those things like others have and I try to do what I can when I can because you’re special and worth it. But I think the best way to show devotion is to do the best I can all the time to be the best I can for you. I am sure I have fallen short at times and made mistakes; I’m human after all, but I’ll always try my best and I can only hope it shows.
this was all very nicely said thank you and everyone falls short at times but how they handle it makes all the difference in the world…and that goes for both sides
When circumstances dictate that you can’t call your Mistress as regularly as you’d like to, or if you can’t afford regular gifts, then you can gift her with your time. Showing people on social media what a special person she is, or doing things for her that make her smile are some small ways to show your devotion, and it will make you feel good at the same time.
well said jem jem and yes share her thing tell everyone how awesome she is 🙂
Ms Constance ~ I can say that it means more to me and I feel more connected to those who take even a moment to connect as consistently as they can. I look forward to hearing from them as they do me. We are a part of each others days/weeks. Maybe they can’t call as often as they would like or for as long as they would like but they never miss a chance to say hello and they are thinking about me.
I think that is a wonderful thing honestly and I enjoy my daily interaction 🙂
As much as I blog on mistresses site I should be calling more on weekly/biweekly basis. As much as I want to I can’t find time to do this:( everyone in family wants me to stop over after work and by time I get home it’s to late:( there’s to much micro managing in my life to make calls:( my parents treat me like I’m 4 years old and everytime I want to call it never fails phone rings and it ruins call to mistresses:(
What a wonderful blog, Ms Constance! Obviously you have been spoiled and pampered in very special ways, not only with tangible gifts, but other gifts that touch your heart.I have been very lucky also to have amazing callers who love to show their devotion and give in good spirit. I have never felt obligated,or indebted, just a happy recipient. After all, they know who is the Mistress. I admit, I have received some hand made gifts and those hold such a special, sentimental meaning. Your callers are so devoted to you, I love that they treat so well, just as they should!
Thank you Ms Meredith Yes I have been blessed and spoiled by many and most give with the right spirit in mind and show their devotion to me and I love them for it and I know you have many loyal clients who also do the same and how sweet home made gifts are!!
This is a great blog and a great discussion, Ms Constance!
Devotion is one of those things that really bonds a sub to Mistress. And I love how you wrote about it not just being gifts, but also emails, IM’s EMails, Blog Comments, and so much more.
I love what jemmie said… The gift of time. That REALLY is so special!
And like Meredith, Some hand made gifts are treasured objects in my fetish bag!
The community feeling here is great as are the bonds and connections!
🙂 Ms. Delia
thanks Ms Delia I agree it binds us and bonds us together that devotion if shown in the spirit it is intended is so amazing
Gift giving is an immensely personal act. As relationships mature, which has been my fortune with my Mistress, selecting a special gift becomes easier. It’s not about every gift being lavish or extravagant, but appropriate for the moment. Gift giving is a little bit like physics in that each act causes a reaction — whether the reaction is a laugh or deeply touching the heart.
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with lavishing your Mistress with extravagant gifts as long as it’s within your means. I love to hear how much my Mistress enjoys and appreciates the gifts I’ve given.
The bottom line Is that intimacy builds the relationship which is the best gift to give and receive.
I am not really sure how this blog post because all about gift giving but hey I don’t mind….but yes it is a personal thing and it never needs to be an expensive gift to be meaningful and if most ladies are like me I never want you to break the bank showing your devotion
what a wonderfully well said post thank you
This is a wonderful post Empress Constance. So often I prefer the emails that gush with gratitude and awe than gifts. Thoughtful calls to check-in and to catch up are also a great way to express devotion. Which isn’t to say gifts aren’t absolutely wonderful and greatly appreciated as well but like you said, it’s the spirit in which the gift is given.
the spirit in which they show devotion is all that matters to me I love gifts but only for the right reasons I love mails and online stuff and calls but all done with the right intent behind it
It is always more enjoyable when Ms. C provides me an opportunity to beg Her to let me remained denied while gifting to show my devotion to Her! Thank You Ms. C!
edge yes I love that I also love laughing and denying you when you are begging to cum hehehehe
and twice as enjoyable when after an hour or so of torturing me, You laugh and make me beg to add one of Your devious Friends to taunt and deny me further and making me describe my “hot buttons” to Them all while answering “yes Ma’am” to all your questions and demands!!! Thank You Ms. C!!!
mmmm edge and edge and say are you ready to cum for me then say ohh there is kaylee ad her to the call hehehe I love being so wicked like that and driving you wild till you loose it!
Hi Mistress Constance, i love Your blog post and i am truly devoted to my Goddess who is part of the LDW family. i do all of those things with the right intentions i am proud to say. 🙂 Very lovely post!
thanks mischael I am sure that Your Mistress loves the way you show your devotion to her 🙂
Thank You Mistress Constance. i hope my Mistress agrees with You…it’s only about pleasing and amusing Her! 🙂
I am sure she does slave 😉