This is an interview that matty thought would not be very helpful since he is not in chastity, but for me it is not just about men in chastity…it is about how men feel about chastity whether they are in it or not.
Hello Ms. Constance. Thanks for the opportunity to do this interview. And I have to agree with DC Mike, your pictures do not do you justice.
Are you locked in a chastity device right now?
I am not locked in a chastity device at the moment, but I am practicing orgasm denial with Goddess Mandy. With the constraints of our relationship, my word and promise to Goddess Mandy are my chastity device.
Is most of your chastity play real, or fantasy?
As of now it is very real. I have only cum while on the phone with Goddess Mandy since I began practicing orgasm denial nearly 5 months ago. We have made an agreement that if I meet a woman and were planning on having sex with her that I need to contact her and ask permission, again as if I had a real chastity device on. We have even talked about purchasing a real chastity device with Goddess Mandy being the only key holder.
When you considered giving orgasm control over to someone did it excite you or frighten you?
I honestly have never ever thought about it until I began exploring EE, and it excites me very much. My whole life I have masturbated when I want as much as I want. I have had all the control. The thought of giving that sexual control to someone else is amazing. It is almost like you are being put on a sexual diet.
Do you currently have a keyholder?
Goddess Mandy is my key holder so to speak. No Ms. Constance I did not drop that on purpose to see if I could see up your skirt. Can I get some water? It is very hot in here.
How would you describe your ideal Keyholder?
My ideal key holder would be someone that knows me, cares for me and that I trust completely. I would want them to know what my limits are, gently pushing me beyond them. A great Mistress will push your limits, gradually, not exponentially. If your limits are pushed beyond your capabilities to adapt, you will fail, and eventually loose interest, and disappoint your Mistress. As deep as your desire is to please her if she always sets you up to fail with limits way beyond what you are capable of, you will begin each new process with the thought of failure in the back of your mind that you can never please your Mistress.
How many chastity devices have you purchased?
None at the moment. But when I do go to purchase one I will contact the resident specialist Gummy, on what one might be right for me.
Ever consider complete and permanent chastity with no hope of release?
I would like to think I could do that, but lets be realistic here. I know that wouldn’t work for me. If there were never any hope of release what would be my motivation? The thought of being able to orgasm keeps me going, keeps me wanting to please; it is an unbelievable motivational tool. If I never have hope of release, the battle is over, there is no power exchange, and the excitement of chastity would be over for me, As well as my will to want to serve my Mistress.
Was there a specific point in your life when you suddenly realized that chastity was the way to go and what was that event?
At this point I am still experimenting with it. I basically just discovered after joining EE and found it really exciting. So there was no specific point in my life as of yet when the light bulb came on and I realized this was my kink. But I definitely feel it can be one of the many.
What is the longest time period you have ever gone between orgasms? When you aren’t locked up, do you practice orgasm denial?
The longest time period I have gone between orgasms is 38 days. I know I am in the minor leagues while Gummy is batting cleanup for the Rangers in the big leagues. 38 days was very difficult for me. Goddess Mandy has promised that if I go 39 days there is a picture she is going to show me, but if I go 50 days, she will not just show me the picture, she will let me keep it. I am not using a chastity device as of now I am just practicing orgasm denial. I think for me, if my Mistress wanted me to, I would practice orgasm denial even when I wasn’t locked up.
When you are alone and masturbating, what percentage of the time would you say you think or fantasize about chastity?
25% maybe, though I no longer masturbate alone, it is always on the phone with Goddess Mandy. But I do think about chastity at times during the day. When I connect with Goddess Mandy at times during the week she reminds me about how many days it has been, and she also reminds me that she is not in chastity. And tells me about the times she has had sex or masturbated. That is when I really think and fantasize about chastity. I love the thought of being denied while she it not being denied. That power exchange is unbelievably exciting to me.
What did it feel like the first time be locked and realize you can no longer touch your penis whenever you wanted to?
At this time this question does not apply because I do not currently own a chastity device.
How does it feel to not know when you will be granted an orgasm?
That is a very exciting feeling. Goddess Mandy and I use that now during our phone calls. I have to beg to be granted orgasm and trust me; she does refuse me at times. I think the longer I go during orgasm denial the more intense the feeling of not knowing, to a point of almost desperation at times.
Thank you so much Ms. Constance for the interview, can I give you a hug? No your right, a hand shake works also.
If you would like to share your thoughts about chastity and do an interview please contact me at Constance@enchantrixempire.com
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