It may be a holiday week, and Santa may be right around the corner, but that won’t stop me from posting my weekly “Ask Mistress” post. I love reading all your great questions and giving you my answers, so feel free to keep them coming. To submit a question for me to answer in a future post, use my Ask Mistress tab right here on my blog.

Dear Mistress:
Why does it seem that the thing that most mistresses the happiest is when they get a male to suck a cock.love your sample audios Mistress Constance Also love your kindness and your approach to life.

I worded the question poorly.so I will do it again. Of all the fetishes it seems almost every mistress is the happiest and almost ecstatic when it happens.am I right and why is that

I wouldn’t say it is the thing that makes me most happy. What makes me most happy is someone pushing themselves and their comfort zone for me. It does not have to be cock sucking. It can be anything they are hesitant in doing. I also would like to point out that for me, unless someone hints or expresses a desire to suck cock, I don’t ask them for that or push them to do it. Thank you for the compliments, J.

A second question. Do you really dominate or is the person actually dominating themselves as it seems to me that only when the client agrees to something that the deeds take place. I love your free audios your kindness and of course your courage Thank-you mistress Constance.

I would say yes, I really dominate my phone clients, at least those seeking that type of session. Although many are doing it to themselves physically, if they didn’t have me mentally to encourage and guide, they would not do it. So it takes both me in control and them willing to follow my lead.

Dear Mistress:
I’m fascinated by how frequently woman I find attractive have sex. I find you out-of-this-universe attractive. Can you share how often you have sex so far this year . . . and how frequently you estimate you will have sex for the balance of 2015? Will you have sex on Christmas? Should I, a wittol of not quite 10 years, enter a Comment disclosing my frequency (or don’t you much care)?

I think most guys are fascinated by how often women have sex, and I have lots of sex.  Probably, on average, 4 times a week, and yes I will probably have sex on Christmas. I would love for you to share how many times you have had sex in 2015. Oh, and as for how many times yet this year, probably 4-6, J.

Dear Mistress:
What are your deepest feelings about penis size? Do you think men with small penises are naturally more submissive or is it not connected to that? Do you think there is any connection between a submissive man’s penis size and his desire to “work” for women; do chores, errands, etc? Is it a way for him to try to please her, because he is afraid he won’t sexually? Is there truth to that?

Well, for me penis size in sexual partners is super important, because I know what I like and what satisfies me. Now do I think all men with small dicks are submissive? Nope, not at all. Do I think there is a connection? Yes, there may be. Now as far as working for women because you have a small dick, I am not sure that’s accurate, because I know many men who are average and above average that are very submissive. Submissive is mental not physical, and if the physical happens to help the mental that’s a bonus. As far as men with small penises being afraid they won’t please sexually, therefore they tend to serve and such, well I encourage that. You should find a way to please your woman, especially if you don’t have a cock that can.