I have talked about this topic in the past and thought hmm let me post about it again and discuss how jealousy with me or with my other callers is just not accepted. Although I know many feel it and of course you are entitled to your feelings….but you simply cant dump that on me and here is why
This is my livelihood
As much as I love my work and my connections with many many special callers this is still the way I earn a living and pay my bills. I have yet to meet a man who can support me on his calls alone so until that day comes I will talk to as many men for as long as I like to do what needs to be done.
I can spread the love/kink
As you all know I am into lots of kinks and some of you may not enjoy certain ones so why should I deny those kinks just because you don’t like them? I have enough kink and love to go around to many and I enjoy spreading the kinky cheer and love around it is who I am as a human and how I like to live my life
Why your jealousy may hurt me
When you come to me upset I am busy on calls or talking /writing about others it fucks with my mojo. I have to stop all types of fun sexy thoughts to deal with your issue about being jealous. This hurts my calls and my mojo to even want to take calls. I am not saying you have to hold your feelings in all I am saying is try to work through your jealousy and understand that me talking to many is what is making me happy, and since most of you only want to make me happy this should be enough for you to work through your issues.
Is this blog about you
I have nobody in mind while writing this right now so if you feel it is meant towards you well that’s on you….I cant help how you may take what I say or do personally and if you know me at all you will know if I have an issue with you…I wont write a blog to tell you or hint about it I will tell you directly to you. With that said if you feel you may have dumped your jealousy of others onto me well don’t worry about it just change your future habits.
I am a people person
It will not take you long to see I am a people person and because of that I am active all over the place and I love it! But that sometimes means I am busy and cant just be one on one with you while being the people person I am…..how can you solve this? Well one guaranteed way of having me all to yourself is by calling…..or by accepting what you get when you get it ( which is a lot if you ask me) and be happy with it.
I am real
I know this blog may come off as bitchy or what have you but I am not feeling bitchy in any way just addressing an ongoing problem I have because of who I am and sharing my truth and thoughts with all of you and most of all being REAL. I treasure and cherish each and everyone of you who I have built a relationship and I hope you all feel that way.
I enjoy your blog and it is ironic that you wrote about this topic of jealousy. I appreciate it. I also appreciate the honesty. As a submissive man I have come to understand more about the dominant females I am attracted to. I have come to (or worked to) accept that I am not unimportant but sometimes a small issue for them. I do revere women and especially more dominant ones and understand that they often have priorities that are not me. Waiting, hoping and being patient is all part of it. It is not “equal” but I don’t really feel like it should be, frankly. I have a couple of times been corrected for my attitude or thinking with a dominant female though it can sting a bit I have come to appreciate it.
Mike I appreciate your thoughts on this and I know first hand how hard you have worked on it….and I am happy to see you understand that although maybe not first on my list that day you are always a part of my day in some way and that is saying a lot
Miss Constance – how do you mean that you know “first hand” how hard I have worked on it. I have but did not know you knew.
honest I thought you were a diff mike
I’m sorry this has been an issue, Empress. I hope this post helps make that problem go away by explaining where you’re coming from (though not that you should have to).
magnus thank you! OMG if I had a dollar for every time someone wanted me to explain something or questioned me I would be rich like reallllllllll rich hahahahah
ps I miss hanging with you
I’m jealous of that red cami on the photo you attached to this post!
hahahah well your gonna stay jealous unless you go buy one like it hehehehe
I’m jealous that others got to read this post before I did because I was busy yesterday at work!
Seriously though, If a person can’t understand that you have to spread your time around to many others, then that’s their own internal issue and they need to chill and look inside themselves. It’s a simple math problem for God’s sake!
lol jemmie I adore you girl and thank you for this
I’ve never called you but I think it would be fun times!! Love to top in your picture as well! As far as jealously I am, but if I see hot women’s top/shoes/dresses/leggings/yoga pants/ lipstick/lotions/perfumes I’ll buy it for myself and wear around the house. Women do have it better then guys do. If I can’t get the girl I’ll dress and become the girl in which you can keep me as.
well what are you waiting for geesh
Jealousy is the ruin of all things fun and you are always so much fun to talk to Constance!…
…although I wouldn’t mind being jealous of your bicycle seat… just saying…
amen to that and hahahaha my bike seat