It is time once again for my ask Mistress post! I always look forward to reading your questions and posting my answers to them here and I know many of you enjoy reading what I think. Please feel free to ask anything you like by submitting it right here on my blog using the Ask Ms. Constance tab. Please remember I have a list of the questions and answer them in the order that I get them, so if you have yet to see yours it will be coming.

Dear Mistress:
What do you think the world would be like if men could only cum when a woman said they could? Along the lines of mass mind control or a bizarre evolutionary quirk, but long enough ago that it was considered the normal way of things.

I think it will lead to a bunch of horny men walking around with boners and drooling at any attention a woman gives them. I think this will make men submissive and willing to please a woman. Every time he does something good he is hoping for permission to cum. The world would be probably a peaceful place and one I wouldn’t mind living in a world like this at all!!!

Dear Mistress:
When did you first know when you wanted to be a (such a great!) femdom mistress and was there something specific that triggered it?

I don’t think there was ever a moment where I said this is what I want to be. I think for me it was a natural thing and that I didn’t even know what I was doing even though I was doing it. I had many doors opened to me when I was married and I think that’s when I began to harness my Mistress side and use it to my advantage.

Dear Mistress:
How did you get so wonderful?

This is just so sweet, first of all thank you for the compliment. I suppose I need to credit that to my upbringing and the woman who raised me. She taught me to be fair yet strong. She taught me to be open minded and never to judge and it has carried on with me all my life.

Dear Mistress:
My husband and I have maintained a cuckold relationship for several years now but even after so long he will occasionally make some petty or possessive comments when I am with my lover. I have found that having my lover pull out of me and use his mouth for a moment or two stops this behavior for a while and we are able to finish.

I have talked to him about this and he apologizes and says he will do better, but he continues to do it. I have threatened to ban him from watching me during the act, but I don’t have the heart to actually do it since I know how much he enjoys it. Do you have any tips on how I can break this bad habit before it gets out of hand?

I should point out that it was my husband’s fantasy to begin with and he picked out my first few lovers. He is also aware of how small his penis is compared to my lovers so he knows that I need them.

I think the answer is in this question….take away the very thing he loves the most don’t threaten him and then never do it. Make him sit one out but make him sit with his back to you at the door way. Close enough to hear and even smell the sex you are having but not allowed to see or be a part of it. Remind him he did this to himself and that the next time he decides to be petty and possessive he will think about how terrible this punishment is and keep his smart ass remarks to himself.