Testimonial from a chastised cuckold
My cuckold and I have gone down the past of chastity and this was something new for him to experience but had read so many amazing things about being locked in chastity and denied by me that he wanted to give it a try…….well this is his thoughts on being locked in chastity with and without supervision. You will see just as he did that it is far better having a chastity mistress in control than doing it alone.
Surrendering control is powerful
Control, or more accurately the surrendering of control, is perhaps the most erotic aspect of chastity. I recently had the opportunity to discover for myself the difference between merely practicing chastity and of truly being owned when left on my own for week or so.
Since the beginning of this year I have been delving deeper into chastity under the guidance of my Mistress. Gradually, I was spending more days in chastity than out. Mistress would order me to lock up “her cock” and I unquestioningly obeyed. Of course, locking up meant I would neither have an erection, nor any climax until she permitted it. I had surrendered my sex life to her complete control.
Without My Mistress and her Control
So when Mistress left for a week, I knew I still had to obey. I locked up “on my own” and followed what I knew to be her rules. However, without Mistress personally directing my chastity schedule my adherence to her preset rules did not provide my same blissful feeling of surrender. Without her directly pulling my strings I felt adrift. Even though I was still obeying her, chastity wasn’t providing the same submissive rush when I was doing it on my own.
Fortunately, my Mistress was not away for too long. As soon as my she  returned Mistress once again seized complete control. I not only found myself back in denial and locked tight in chastity, but I was also directed to wear blue panties over my cage, blue to match soon to be “blue balls”. There is simply no substitute for the reality of hearing or receiving commands directly from a Goddess. In surrendering to a controlling, demanding Mistress’s every whim, I have found what I was born to be.
I have so many similar feelings. I also found that when Mistress is away while you remain locked, it’s just not the same. I found that the inconveniences and discomfort of the cage became magnified and so much less easy to ignore than when she was close by and participating. You just have to get through that part until she’s back actively controlling again. You can certainly feel a big difference, IMHO. 🙂
Thanks for the comment jemmie I think you and mike are on the same page when I am around it is intense fun sexy and thrilling when I am unable to be here and hands on so to speak chastity and being locked up is more of a chore and far less exciting….but hey you broke your old record and made me proud so what more could a chastity mistress ask for 🙂 except longer hehehehe
I think I’ll be finding out what more a Chastity Mistress could ask for when that new cage finally arrives. And what you ask, you shall get….if it’s longer next time, OMG, but length of lockup is totally up to you now.
Chastity is a powerful experience and one which has led me to both a more blissful acceptance of my place and a complete surrender to my Mistress. I can’t wait to be securely locked in my new metal cage soon!
cuckie I am thrilled and could not be more proud of the changes you have made and what chastity under my control has done for us you continue to impress me and I love denying my horny cuckold cock 🙂
Well I’m glad You are going to be there for me. I thought about doing on my own once before, but it is much more of a pleasure to be completely owned by You. I don’t have any doubts it will be a roller coaster ride for my emotions, but the wonderful, nearly orgasmic feelings I get when I think of You in complete control and proud of me will be well worth it. I just hope I can live up to my own hopes of being Your best chastity pet! Ready to go the distance!
of course I will be there for you as best as humanly possible…yes doing chastity alone seems to me to be a tad pointless and well unless your just testing out a device why do it? But add in a sexy mistress like myself and you will find it thrilling exciting and you will have a daily reminder of just who owns that cock between those legs
Yes I too have personal experience being in denial when a mistress isn’t there all the time, and the difference between that and my experience with you, who was there the whole time, is night and day. It’s no fun when she’s not there. You’re alone, frustrated, and wondering why am I doing this. It was such a more exciting, intense, and worthwhile experience when we went through it together, with you pushing, teasing, supporting, encouraging and having fun with me. That is the only reason I want to go through denial, to please you and have you push and control me. I look forward to the next time.:)
well I am thrilled you also got a taste of what denial with a hands on mistress is like compared to the other denial you have experienced and I have to agree it is so much more fun with a me than it is alone or with someone who is not as attentive as some need….now I know chastity and denial guys who don’t mind being on their own and that’s fine too but I much rather be there pushing and encouraging along the way 🙂
I’m so glad that your cuck finally realized the joy of giving himself over to you. Even though you’ve never locked me up, you are always with me. Whenever I’m having a moment that I think I want to masturbate without permission, I just think of how empty it would feel without you and the feelings pass. I’ve gone longer now than I’ve ever gone before (62 days) without an orgasm and only desire to please you everyday 🙂
I am so happy with you W you have shown yourself to be loyal and sweet and caring and very obedient no cummies without me such a good boy