We all have kinks when did yours develop?
You have a certain kink you enjoy do you know when that kink developed? I have spent countless hours speaking to others all over the world about their kinks, what always fascinates me is the unique and usual way they develop. Many discuss during their phone sex sessions about seeing something in their childhood or young adult life that left a sexual foot print on them. I often find it amazing how something seemingly normal had created a deep seeded sexual fantasy within them that lasts well into adult hood.
How does you kink play a role in your life
Kinks are a part of us no matter when or how they developed they are part of our hard wiring, how does your kink play a role in your life? Did you find a pair of panties in the dryer and decide to feel them against you, getting such a thrill from that first experience that you now find yourself wearing panties daily to re create that thrill? Were you spanked for misbehaving and found that it aroused you and did things to get that spanking again just to feel that intense rush? Do you now seek dominant women who will bend you over your knee and give you a spanking for being a naughty boy? Does your kink have an active part of your daily day, sometimes taking over your thoughts and distracting you from your world?
How do you explore your kink?
What ways have you explored your kink? Have you told a partner to experience it with them or do you explore your kink solo or perhaps on the phone or internet? Has sharing your kink helped develop it or modify it in any way? When we find that special someone to share our kinks with it becomes very intimate and liberating to not be judged and even though our sexual kinks may change because of that, the core of our kink I believe is always there. As we grow older and share them we tend to modify and include our partners kinks into ours developing that kink into something satisfying for all.
Phone Sex and your Kink
Now that I have gone through some major points about your kink, now I want to know how phone sex has played a role in those kinks if at all. I know many of my clients use our service because they know that they will be accepted kinks and all, it is a safe form of exploration of a kink. Finding the right Intelligent Fem Dom to explore with is the key, find someone you can relate to who can help you explore it in a way you would not normally get the chance and someone who understands your kink.
I want to hear from you
I would love for you all to take the time and comment right here on my blog about your kink, share as much or as little as you like but I would love to know just where your kink came from, how it has evolved to what it is today, and how it plays out during a kinky phone sex session with your favorite mistress.
Well, I have multiple kinks but I’ll just address one of them here. I love a good spanking, from a strong, dominant, Lady. This kink goes back to my Elementary school days. The first time in school I was paddled for “being bad” was in my fourth grade class, and the teacher, whom I had a major crush on, was named Ms. Sanders. I still remember the feeling in my chest as I was told to wait in the hallway. When she exited the room and looked at me, I felt about an inch tall and was full of shame for disappointing her. I saw the black paddle, which had small holes in it, in her hand and then she turned on her heels and went next door and got another teacher. It was my third grade teacher, Mrs. Sullivan. I didn’t really put it together in my head that Mrs. Sullivan was just a witness at the time, but later that’s what the other kids said and it made sense. At the time, I thought she was there for additional humiliation. I was already punishing myself more that I was about to be hurt by the paddle. Anyway, Ms. Sanders had me bend over and put my hands on my knees and then delivered three very hard whacks (we called them licks) to my bottom. When I realized the punishment was over, I felt a very funny feeling my pants and didn’t realize that what I was experiencing was a hard on. I thought something was wrong, but thank goodness I didn’t ask to go see the nurse or ask my teacher what it was. I was more scared about the hard-on than I was the spanking. Anyway, that’s the roots of my spanking fetish.
Thank you for sharing this gummy!!! I loved the how when she was done giving you the spanking you felt a very funny feeling in your pants and what you now know was a hard on and yes think how humiliating it would have been if you went to the nurse asking whats wrong………and geesh if the teacher found out she may have never used the paddle on your bottom again now THAT would have been terrible!!!
It’s something I’ve wondered about allot and I’m not sure if I know exactly. It could have started in elementary school with a classmate who suggested I show her mine, if she shows me hers. It could have been the junior high teacher that was always stricked with me, even when I turned on my boyish charms. I’m not completely sure where it started, but my kink is pleasing her. I know it seems kind of generic, but whatever she desires, is what I want to give her.
Thank you for sharing Wes!! I love that all you live for is pleasing women!! Your boyish charms are adorable I am surprised they didn’t work on that teacher LOL but some of us women can see through the boyish charm and recognize the naughty pervert that lives beneath 😉
Well Ms Constance you asked! Apparently at some point in my younger life, I was discovered in the attic, with 3 neighborhood boyz, wearing my mothers high heels and spanking those “pee-pee’s” with a wooden ruler! Oh, and did I mention that they all had on my panties and pretty pink lipstick?
I am loving these comments and I find it very interesting where your kinks first developed and how they have evolved. Thank you all for sharing with me and the other readers!
When I was younger and raging with hormones and constantly hard for anything erotic… I started getting horny when my mother would wear her sexy high heeled red sandLs. She alaways painted her toes a bright red and started to notice the way I stared at her sexy bare soles while she dangled her heels Right in Front of my frozen gaze.
Eventually she let me rub her feet while she sat above me reading her book. I would come home everyday afterschool hoping she would let me touch her beautiful soft sexy feet. I felt so submissive while she had me on the floor at her feet.
She knew how much her feet turned me on and started to enjoy dominating me with her feet… She would sometimes smother my face under her soles and laugh when I made no attempt to get away…
I was mommys sissy footboy all through high school and I loved it!
As far back as I can remember I loved and looked for any spankings in movies, tv, books or magazines. I also knew all of my friends who got spanked at home (or their siblings did) and would go over to their houses as often as possible and try to get people in trouble.
I also remember playing spanking games with cousins and friends when I as 5 or 6. One older cousin like to play school and I would be her student for the sole reason of getting in trouble and getting spanked.
Later in college, it was great because girls seemed to love playing around and exploring as much as me. So I learned that both sides of a hairbrush spanking are a ton of fun and huge turn on.
I’ve been a sci fi fan literally all my life; I remember as a child when I got home from school I would rush through my homework and then sit down and treat myself to an afternoon “Star Trek” rerun.
It was just a few weeks after I had discovered masturbation when I watched the episode “Turnabout Intruder,” about a psycho archeologist using an ancient alien tech device to swap bodies with Capt. Kirk. I was fascinated by the idea of being forcibly ‘transfered’ into a female body, and before the ep was finished I had a painfully hard erection that erupted before I could make it to the bathroom to relieve it.
That night- actually, *every* night since then- I’ve masturbated to fantasies of being remade into a girl… usually a huge-boobed, barely dressed bimbo sort. 🙂
Wow this got some great comments well spanked andy ms alex joey thank you all for the feed back it seems to me all our kinks really do start back when were growing up……amazing isn’t it how something so innocent at the time turned into such an amazing sexual turn on as we got older. Thanks so much for sharing!!!
I can’t really trace it back to anything.
As far as I can tell,I’m just fucked up.
LOL your just fucked up!!! Your very funny a tad off but very funny!