What is a cock tease?
I was sitting here thinking to myself about how many times I have been called a cock tease…..and just what a cock tease means to everyone so I asked a few friends online and even posted a poll. It seems most agree a cock tease is one who leads a man on to thinking he will get some when she has no intention of doing so but leads him right up to the gates of pleasure even though she will leave him hard and aching, usually without any guilt or concern for what she has done.
Here is what I found when I looked up the definition of a cock tease on Wikipedia…
- Cock tease (sometimes cock-tease or cocktease) is derisive sexual slang used to describe a woman who acts in a sexual manner to seduce men without actually fulfilling the sexual actions. The term has been in use in Great Britain and the United States since the 1800s.Spears, RA. …
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cock_tease
- A person, usually a woman, who teases a man but then withdraws an alluded-to promise of sexual intercourse; Similarly frustrating teasing, not necessarily either sexual or done by a person
en.wiktionary.org/wiki/cock_tease
What Others had to say about what a cock tease is.
As I mentioned I asked for some opinions about this topic and I am going to share them with you all and as you can see I added a little silly fun with my thoughts and spin on it… most have the same meaning but it is fun to see how everyone articulates it.
Comment 1) A cock tease is a lady who turns a man on, on purpose, but has no intentions of allowing him to finish at least not in the immediate future.
My Thoughts) Oh so me making all those denial boys hard even giving them a countdown to cum and then denying their orgasm…..that would be a cock tease?? Hehehehehe
Comment 2) hmm, a woman who seems like she’s ready for sex, all hot and bothered, jamming her tongue ins your mouth , and then says, ‘ I’m saving my virgin pussy/ass for Mr. Right ‘
My Thoughts) You mean it was wrong of me to deny boy after boy even though I let them lick kiss and touch me down “there” as much as they wanted but refused to give up my virginity to them? Ooopsies my bad hehehehe
Comment 3) A chick who uses sex (in some form) like a carrot on a string. The “ultimate goal” being the very thing she has no intention of giving up. It’s about control. She knows she has it and will always lord it over you. But you’re too blue-balled to realize so you keep hoping that THIS TIME is the time she finally gives in.
My Thoughts) Oh so by me promising to let him in my panties if only he wears a pair for me would be a cock tease? Leading him on stroking him licking him even sucking him only to get him to do what I want and then denying him sex day after day week after week is considered a cock tease?? *shocked look* I had no idea!!! *evil laugh*
Comment 4) A woman that can manipulate and stimulate a man with her words, and confidence to control.
My thoughts) So what your saying is every day when I am stimulating all those chatters and writing all my dirty blogs but never giving them the ultimate pleasure of having me allow them to cum for me and being very self assured in saying NO……that I would then be a cock tease? Who knew me being me naturally makes me a huge cock tease to men hehehehehe
Comment 5) Has an understanding of the male psyche and can push him to be at her beckon call
My thoughts) You mean like how I can make a straight man so hard and horny that he is willing to say and do anything I ask… like yell out I am a cock sucker even though he resists it or when I make him write “Dirty Bitch” across his chest in cheap red lipstick that stains his skin but he is happy to do it because his cock is hard and he just wants to get off and do whatever it takes to make me happy and get the privilege of an orgasm?
Comment 6) A woman who is looking to get a rise out of you just for the sake of getting the rise out of you with no intention of following through
My Thoughts) You mean like when I wear a short skirt to a party and for no reason at all decide to bend over in front of a guy giving him a great view of my ass and when he approaches me I flirt and get him horny and eager only to go home alone and leave him there with a hard cock and no relief?
So if your looking for a hot phone sex session involving me being one of the biggest cock teasing women you have ever met don’t just sit there drooling over my picture pick up the phone!!
Oh and I’ll let You loved to be teased, humiliated and used and abused I’m sure we will have some fun
Mmmmm so you love to be teased humiliated used and abused *evil grin* we are going to have lots OF FUN!! hehehehe can not wait till you experience me
All of those comments are true but you know, it’s not a bad thing to be tease, I actually love it sometimes. I know eventually I will get in those panties. LOL!!
Thanks kurt! You think you will get into these panties? Hmmm I like the way you said it as a matter of fact….if IF you do you can be sure that before you do I will be the biggest cock tease ever sort of like on my show last week heheheheh that was a true example of a cock tease right there!!!
A “cocktease” generally has some negative connotations associated with it, except in LDW land. I know that I prefer a “cocktease” and that’s what drew me to cockcontrol in the first place. You Ms. Constance are truly the definition of a “cocktease”. There’s nothing negative about that, and the fact that you know you are a “cocktease” and embrace that label, just makes me want you even more. The fact that you can have me on denial, locked in chastity, and listening to my begging and pleading for relief, and then saying “No”, and giggling with absolutely no guilt for my plight, I would say that qualifies you as a cocktease extraordinaire!!! You may have never gone to school to learn your cockteasing skill but you have certainly mastered the art of the tease and denial. This is such a fun post on a subject that is very near and dear to my heart. Thank you for always being there to tease and taunt and promise to please but ultimately leaving me denied. I wouldn’t want it any other way!!! You are the bestest cocktease EVER!!!
Thanks for the great comment gummy!!! Your right the term cock tease is usually associated with a bad thing everywhere but HERE and I not only have embraced my cock teasing ways I happen to thrive being a cock tease. I may be the denial cock tease with you but others I am not….just depends on what one is looking for in their cock tease. As for being able to say NO to your begging well honey thats thrilling to me and I love the type of cock tease I am with you! Thank you for such sweet amazing words as always your the bestest!
Calls ?
yes butter you know the thing you do with your phone….ohh wait you dont know LOL
While I do love an erotic tease,…….and ‘you’ are GREAT at it, I not a fan of a tease that will “never” lead anywhere. As a game or even a method of control, between consenting and caring people, it can be fantastic! I think, at least for me, teasing or denial can lead to even greater pleasure and….no less significant, a chance to prove my devotion. So I do love being the occassional victim of a ” cock tease”. But, I ‘m just not a fan of a ‘mean’ cock tease, where frustating a guy is the only goal……..though I know others feel differently.
Well cuck mike there are good and bad cock teases I am one of the good ones LOL well at least thats what I have been told hehehehehe. I do understand what you mean though an erotic fun cock tease can make for a longer more enjoyable session a mean ruthless cock tease can lead to aggravation and frustration. Just depends on the type one if looking for because to some not a ton but to some the ones that lead to frustration can be just as hot as the one that leads to release 🙂 thanks for the comment!!
It can also be fun when a guy,knowing that a woman’s being what she perceives to be a “cock tease”,let’s her think she’s got the upper hand and let’s her know,in no uncertain terms,that HE was actually the “cock tease” all along.Now I’d like that(if I haven’t liked it already hehehehehe)
Now that is interesting a guy being a cock tease……..I have YET to have it happen to me but I will keep an open mind about it LOL
Cock tease is just awesome..tease and denial is a really nice thing. It is up to your Empress to let you release or not. Miss Constance lets me release always but I have to suck the entire cum from my hand and fingers…loved to be teased by you Miss Constance.
never get to used to me allowing you to cum because just like that I will not allow you and tease and deny you everytime hehehehe
I think a cock tease’s intentions are not always (at least directly) to make men throb for her, though that often is the result.
Her intentions may sometimes be targeted towards inferior women, to put them in their place, making it clear to them she can make their man think about her anytime she wants and thus she should not be challenged.
Am I way off in left field?
No not out in left field but ya did throw in a curve ball *wink* I think each woman is different and does it knowingly or unknowingly for whatever reason……..I used to be a cock tease and not get that I was one and once I figured it out and how to use that to my advantage I am indeed a cock tease on purpose because I can be hehehehehehe
I do love a good cocktease Ms. Constance, and you are a very good one!
And it is great that you have learn about your power and revel in using it.
Do you ever play coy and pretend that you are not a cocktease just to confuse the guy while you are making him horny?
I am glad you enjoy my type of cock teasing Tease Toy and yes I have pretended not to know what i was doing to a man LOL it is fun! Ohhh I am sorry I made you so hard I had no idea my nipples were in your face whoopsiesssssss
*squirm* And I can see that you would be good at that as well, Ms. Constance!
Imagining your nipples in my face would get me hard! *adjusts erection*
nipples in face hmmmmmmmmmm that is for sure going to make you squirm along with stocking coveres legs touching your bar skin mmmmmmmmm
Oh yes, Ms. Constance!
Your stocking covered leg sliding over my lap as your nipples hover in front of my face would make me very squirmy!
But you actions would just be accidental as you were reaching for something behind me. Isn’t that right, Ms. Constance?