Here we are again another Hump Day and more questions from all of you wonderful readers! I love them so keep them coming just use the ask Mistress tab here on my blog
Dear Mistress:
Do you think pegging has any benefits to men besides sexually?
I do think that pegging has mental effects on men and it tends to make them feel more submissive. How could a man feel all alpha when I have my nice big strap on filling him and I do think it is a benefit because every can to stand to have a little submissive side to them to make them well rounded.
Dear Mistress:
Did you ever get a boyfriend or submissive to do something by telling them that it’s for their own good?
Well I have encouraged many of my clients to do things for their own good like eating their cum or dressing in feminine things…but a personal boyfriend or submissive hmmmm besides saying don’t piss me off it is for your own good no not really…unless you count like taking medicine or eating well or exercising in this.
Dear Mistress:
Do you think women married to or involved with poorly endowed men have the right to use a bull if they want to?
I think all women deserve a well-endowed man in their life, however it is up to the couple to decide if it is good for the woman to find a well hung man for her pleasure. Not all men who have a small penis wish to have their women sleep with other men and when you commit to a relationship any decisions made after that should be done together, unless it was established at the start she would be in charge.
Dear Mistress:
Do you sing in the shower?
Great question! Yes I often sing in the shower….do I sound good I doubt it but I love to sing in the shower and what I sing depends on what song is stuck in my head.
Dear Mistress:
If a woman keeps her husband as a sissy maid and her lover wants to have sex but she doesn’t, maybe she’s tired or already satisfied; would you consider it the sissy’s duty to offer to service the lover in his wife’s place?
If it were my sissy maid yes they would be required to satisfy my man or any man but I would have established that at the start of them becoming my sissy maid. No matter what the role is when starting someone into being your submissive limits and boundaries need to be discussed because not all sissy maids want anything to do with a real man.
Hello Goddess, 100% agree i definitely feel more submissive when getting fucked by my toy’s with you
yes I love that and your moans and whimpers are amazing
Another fascinating round of Q and A. I always look forward to seeing what you have to say. But do you really think a man can’t feel alpha if he enjoys strap-on sex? While I’m sure there are many occasions where it does have to do with submissiveness, I don’t agree that engaging in strap-on play has to say something about a man being submissive any more than fucking a guy’s cock vaginally or anally has to say anything about a woman being submissive. It can be just a fun sexual experience between two partners. Just a different point of view I wanted to put out there. Thanks!
Thanks for reading and yes how can a man feel alpha while his ass is filled……in the moment I dont see it possible….I am not saying he is submissive in every other walks of life but in that moment he is….I have had many real life experiences where this has been proven again and again as well with phone clients………and I still think everyone including myself should have a small submissive side to them seen or not to be a well rounded person. Thanks for your opinion and for sharing your point of view 🙂
Ms Constance ~ I love this post and look forward to it each week. It never ceases to amaze me how many questions are asked and the conversations the answer lead to – I love it!!! A strap on used on an otherwise dominant man – especially by a woman that can be submissive to him at time ~ changes the dynamic in a very erotic way, even if it is only for the moment. I’ll be you sound lovely in the shower!!
thanks Ms Kay glad you enjoy them so much….and if yu want to know how I sound in the shower come join me heheheheh
A great way of expressing the thought, Kay Marie.
I agree bfla
Ms. Constance I really love this set of questions, I think the best, since you started.
Like Ms. Kay Marie, I do look forward to these posts. It is so interesting what questions get asked! I never would have thought to ever wonder if you sang in the shower, but now that is really all I am thinking of…you in the shower.
Were there other questions 😉 I forget now!
Ms. Delia
hehehe lets have a mistress party in the shower me you kay and any other ladies who want to join
Fantastic Q&A, Ms. Constance! I love that at the core of all of your answers is a foundation of respect and boundaries. I don’t think there’s any one way to BDSM that is intrinsically how it “should” be; it’s all about communication, boundaries, and reciprocity between the couple! I’m looking forward to the next around of questions!
thank you ms marlena communication is the key to any good healthy relationship I so agree
Loved this post Ms. Constance!It amazes me all the funny questions people will ask. Nice that you answer them in an open forum though.I have to admit it, I think women with husbands that are tiny should get a bull. It has always been my thought, that a woman, who really likes sex will need more than a pin dick. Maybe, she should just explain to him that she loves him, but needs to cream on a real cock!!
I agree women deserve to have big dicks and I think those women should have a large cock but then again if they wanted a large cock marry a guy with one hehehehe
Okay, so I’m stuck on “hump day,” “well rounded,” and “pegging.” I’m sorry; even though you had some really good advice after that, the visions of you humping and pegging a nice round sub got me all warm inside. 😉 On a serious note, I do think all of your readers should definitely listen to you. Sometimes I think the line between fantasy and reality gets blurred and some men can think that it’s okay for a woman to mistreat her partner simply because she’s dominant. Not so. All relationships should be negotiated and respect and trust go both ways.
Thank you for this great comment Ms Piper even though you were a bit distracted by the pegging hehehehe and yes we dont abuse just because we can