So I had a session this week that led me to this topic and wanting to write about it to maybe shed some light on things. First of all if you come to me for to take control and you are submissive than you can expect I will do just that. What you need to ask yourself is can you really give up control?
Submissive and letting go
This is what I say to someone who is submissive yet hesitant…give up the control let me guide you and lead you and it will be a much more satisfying session and far more exciting. When you come to me for a session or call me asking for me to take control all you have to do is give me some details on what type of control you are seeking and any limits you have then let me take over.
Trust in me
Once a submissive man or woman as the case may be has told me their limits and desires they have to trust me. I will never steer you wrong yes I will push you and guide you but I wont endanger you or put you in harms way. Those of you who have done just that and let go and trusted me can attest to how meaningful and incredibly hot a session with me can be.
Not sure your THAT submissive
If you are on the fence about giving me or anyone control or where you stand with being truly submissive that’s fine not an issue. I am happy to indulge all stages of you being submissive to me from not so much to over the top….but you have to communicate with me about it. Please do not come to me say I want you to control me and then everything I ask of you is questioned or met with resistance…..in those cases you are not giving up control you are pretty much topping from the bottom.
Free your mind and let me take over
The song free your mind and the rest will follow is playing over and over in my head…..this applies to D/s relationships very well. Once you free your mind and stop over thinking the submission to your Mistress and the enjoyment that can be found in doing so will follow. I know that once you do this you will find our conversation to be one that you will not only enjoy but wish to have more of.
Mistress, i trust You implicitly and enjoy giving total control to You! i am in another world when i am You and wish i could just stay there.
I love taking you to that place and thank you sweetie
I love being in control, I’m a control freak you might say, lol……..Never
heheheh wessy poo silly boo
Mistress: As I commented recently, anyone with submissive tendencies should not resist you and give you control. Resistance is futile. Then with a stiff, hard cock they should let their mind go limp and flaccid and let you do ALL of the thinking for them. It’s as easy as that! 🙂
heheh well said slave hehehe
Giving complete control to you is the only way I EVER want to live ! Any Subbie would consider themselves blessed to be owned totally by you Mistress!
Please… Please… Please lock me up for a long, Long, LONG TIME Goddess! I need to know what complete surrender to your control is … So that I may fully understand how to always put the needs, wants, whims and pleasure of the Mistress I adore as my paramount and only focus and concern permanently !
Ohh you got your wish princess hehehehehe
I’d be more then happy to give up control to you. I’d let you feminize me and keep me as your cream puff if you are interested.
nice!
Very good post and so very true! There are a lot of guys who want to be submissive but who have a hard time giving someone else complete control. The only way to truly experience the full pleasure of being submissive is to surrender all. Then, there are those who say they want to be submissive but want to iron out every detail of what will happen before-hand, and stick to it verbatim. These guys are in no way submissive, even though the fantasy is a D/s fantasy. To truly be submissive, you must discuss your fantasy, desires, and limits, establish trust with your mistress, and then hand over the reins and let her truly take control.
That is another side of it as well thank you sexy!