I happen to love strapon sex and I never thought I would say that years ago, but as I sit here today I have many fond memories of using my strap on to fuck someone with. So today I am sharing some strap on sex tips with you all to ensure you have the best time possible!
start small
I suggest this with any type of anal sex and of course it is true when it comes to strap on sex as well. Start small don’t get carried away and get a monster cock to get fucked with. You will find it painful and impossible to take it and probably be discouraged. So find a strap on cock small enough to enjoy yet big enough to feel perhaps 5 inches.
lubricate
I can not express enough how important lubrication is for strapon sex. You need to make sure not only the strap on cock is lubed up but also your ass. Having enough lube to let it slip easily inside is so important. Don’t try to us your mouth to wet it either that simply wont work, get a good quality lube made for strap on sex.
relax and breath
this strap on sex tip seems simple and basic, but you have no idea how many hold their breath or bear down when taking a strap on cock. What you should do instead is relax, breath deep and let the natural push of the strap on cock slip into you. No need to push back let your strap on sex partner do the work at first and remember to BREATH.
communicate with your strapon sex partner
Communicate with them before you begin to make all limits clear and establish a ( I cant take any more) safe word. When your strapon sex partner begins to penetrate you be sure to let them know how it feels, ask them to go slow…stop there….gently push. You can not be shy when it comes to strap on sex and you must tell your partner what they need to know.
Don’t over think it
Now that you are into being fucked with a strapon, don’t over think it. Don’t worry about anything just enjoy it, if you let your mind take over your enjoyment of having strap on sex it will diminish and you will never want to do it again. Also don’t be alarmed if you lose your erection at first when that cock penetrates you..this is common and in no way impairs the pleasure you will feel from having strap on sex.
Are you ready for strapon sex
Now that you have read my 5 tips to making strapon sex the best it can be are you ready to try being fucked with a strap on? Have you already experienced it?
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Great post and sage advice! Having someone take the time to explain all the physical tips here made such a huge difference in learning to enjoy this. I didn’t know the muscles naturally contracted at first; I just thought I was supposed to push past the pain until someone here explained how to go a little at a time, letting the muscles relax, until it didn’t hurt any more. And for me getting past the emotional/overthinking was a big deal. But with help I did and altho it’s not an everyday desire, it is something I enjoy from time to time. It’s not the same pleasure as stroking, but pleasure nonetheless.
hey thanks!!!! Yes you must must must relaxxxxxxx
I know someone that swore up and down that he couldn’t do anal because it just hurt. He was as tense as hell! Anal can be quite frustrating if you sabotage yourself by not being able to relax. Take a deep breath, take several. The more you stiffen your body, the more difficult it is for that cock to do what it should. Great tips, Miss Constance!
yes being tense can be a huge issue must relax guys
Great tips! Thanks for sharing them! This is probably the only way I could get any sex for the next few months at least. hehe
lol this is the only way you will be getting any action jem jem
Anyone that has a wife or girl friend who will fuck him with a strap on is a very lucky person. To be denied that pleasure all your life is act of love and you should let your significent other know that strap on sex is something you enjoy and want once in a while.