So last night before bed I am sitting on my porch relaxing and thought about sexual humiliation and how some enjoy it….some steer clear of it…. and some are just in denial that humiliation is something they enjoy…..so lets discuss it.
Denial about liking sexual humiliation
So there is a whole group of guys out there when you say oh so you like humiliation they respond with a confident NO I am not into that. Yet during the session they enjoy being giggled at and made to do silly and yes humiliating things such as….fucking food…….fucking a blow up doll…..being called a hand humper or pillow fucker. These are all types of humiliation, now are they the hardcore nasty humiliation no but it is humiliation none the less.
Why be in denial of it being sexual humiliation why not embrace it. I think in this case, as it is the case with many kinks, you fear admitting you like to be humiliated by a beautiful woman means the extreme of humiliation. This is not the case as with all kinks there is varying degrees to humiliation.
You enjoy sexual humiliation
So if you are one of the guys who enjoys it you understand there are many types. From calling you a pathetic worm to giggling at you only cumming two drops. I enjoy all aspects of humiliation from the small penis humiliation to you lifestyle humiliation…..oh ya I have a guy who loves to be called a fat fucking disgusting muthfucking loser bitch who has to pay women to watch him jerk off! Not all of you humiliation lovers like it that harsh so be sure to communicate what turns you on.
You steer clear of humiliation
There are many of you who steer clear of any type of humiliation and I get it. What I suggest you do is discuss this with your Mistress before session to be sure you are on the same page. This also applies to any of you who have very specific humiliation needs….communicate that with your Mistress before hand so she can give you the best session possible.
Not every caller gets humiliated
Nope I don’t naturally assume because someone is a sissy or a cock sucker that they wish to be degraded about it. I don’t go there with anyone unless they are seeking out humiliation. Unless you and I have established this type of relationship you will never experience humiliation inflicted by me so don’t worry. On the flip side don’t tell me you hate humiliation yet want to fuck some bubble wrap, or be teased about the fact you cant hold your cum in and you want to be made to whine and beg like a little bitch to lick it up. This is humiliation and well, I will give you just what you ask for when it comes to sexual humiliation.
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Mistress, I think you make an important point in that there are varying degrees of humiliation, so as with other kinks it is not “one size fits all.” Also, no one person is probably going to like every type of humiliation. For example, while some might like being humiliated about their race, ethnicity, body type, or intelligence, for others that is too extreme. It is also important to note that not all Mistresses enjoy all types of humiliation, even though they are on the “giving” end. For example, at various times on your “Kink Korner” show through the years, as well as your “Ask Mistress” answers on your website, you have indicated there are certain types of humiliation you will not inflict on a sub or caller, even if the submissive and/or caller requests you to do so. As you state in this post, it is important to communicate with the Mistress so that both can be comfortable with what type of humiliation is acceptable.
Great distinction here Ms Constance. For me, I get embarrassed when I use certain toys, even when I want to, or even when admitting that I love being spanked. Some of the turn on for me is blushing a little about that, even when my Mistress is loving it. Then there are other times, maybe I have to stop stroking because I’m edging too quick. Or, heavens no, end up ruining an orgasm because I got too close. Some good natured teasing in that or later sessions is welcome.
Likewise doing things to amuse the Mistress that aren’t always my kinks can be humiliating. For me, things like wearing panties don’t do a lot for me, but an amused Mistress is certainly a turn on.
None of this is hardcore humiliation, but it is in the genre. And without some dialogue and understanding none of that could possibly be known, or explored.
Knowing that you know how humiliation can be subtle…definitely hot
i need humiliation! All kinds!
I remember when I first came across humiliation as a kink. It was so hard to let go…until I found myself giving a friend a hard time about his tighty whities that had turned pink when washed with a new red shirt…well he turned pink, and the way he defended himself from my teasing was comical. And that’s how I found my inner humiliatrix and brought her out to play 🙂