HI there everyone! Here we are again another Wednesday and another great group of sexual questions and my advice for them. If you would like to submit your own sexy or even vanilla question please use my ask Ms Constance tab right here at the top of my blog.
Dear Mistress:
One of my favorite things is to have my cock teased with the tongue – not all Mistresses do that and it can be highly erotic to ask for it and be denied but sometimes it really is what I want. Can you ask the Mistresses if they sometimes like to tease a guy that way?
I think this is something better suited for YOU to ask the Mistresses. If you are a member of our social network sit Enchantrix Empire you can create a poll and ask them. And If you are not a member why not? Sign up it is free and fun!! Oh and for me I have sometimes been known to tease a man with my tongue just to make him ache for me some more hehehehehe.
Dear Mistress:
Do you dance when you’re happy?
I love to dance and since when I am sad I do not do much of anything, it is safe to say when I am happy I dance. I also have a little happy dance I do when super excited hehehehe
Dear Mistress:
Along with all of your areas of interest do you ever dabble in b-mail with any of your chaste cuckolds?
I don’t really dabble in the way you are thinking about it. I do however require certain things from certain clients when they beg me for it. Yes vague but I have to be hehehehe
Dear Mistress:
A few months ago a woman in my apartment building caught me washing my lingerie and outfits in the laundry room late at night and wanted to know what I was doing. After confessing to her she proposed a deal, she would keep my crossdressing a secret and I would be her sissy maid for a few days every week. It’s a win-win situation; she gets her apartment cleaned and her meals cooked by a real sissy maid, I get bossed around and humiliated by a sexy younger woman.
She has a very active sex life and decided that she wants me to start fluffing her more open minded lovers before she plays with them. While the thought does excite me I’ve never done anything with another man before and don’t know if I could. I’ve tried to talk to her about it but she doesn’t understand why someone who likes dressing slutty and being sexually humiliated would have issues sucking a cock. Do you have any advice for me?
Well to me the two things are nowhere near the same and clearly she is unaware that although you like to dress slutty and be sexually humiliated that sucking or fluffing is not something you are into. Just because you enjoy some aspects of play does not mean you enjoy all aspects. You need to sit down with her again and explain it like that….and use the example that she likes cocks fucking her but does that mean she would fuck every cock she ever saw? Just because you like one does not mean you like them all plain and simple……ohh and have her contact me I am happy to enlighten her to the world of kink.
So there you have it everyone…I would like to throw this out there. If you are in a kink relationship of any kind where you are the submissive it does NOT mean you do any and everything the person in charge wants. If you have limits state them up front and let it be known that it is a limit…..any dominant woman will respect and understand this and never ask you to go against your hard limits.
Fabulous answer and advice on the last question; I think a lot of people don’t get right away that one kink doesn’t necessarily mean another. But what is b-mail?
thanks and thank you for your comment and what jp said hehehe
B-mail = black male ( only not male more like what the us postal service brings us) *edited by Constance
And that’s exactly what the last question there is. That’s actual, factual bmail…. no fantasy about it. I would absolutely not be comfortable with that, especially when she seems to not have any understanding of kink or the power she’s assumed in their relationship.
You are lucky I am nothing like that chick and in fact I don’t care for people who do that because they feel they can icky
So Constance is b-mail black male? I don’t understand the concept of that here. (edited by constance)
yes
So are we taking about mail that is the opposite of white?
yes w yes hehehe
Ms Constance ~ I bet you look oh so sexy doing your happy dance! It seems as though your cross dressing sissy maid found a good situation – but in order for t to a win win, you were right to advise a sit down. I am with you, I do not believe that everyone needs to be all in. Someone who has a fetish doesn’t have to have all of them. Seems the neighbor needs a little bit of a chat. And b- mail is such a simple word. I like to think of as showing appreciation for how things are and not wanting them to change!