So, everyone knows I love many types of phone sex sessions and of course, denial is up in my top list….but sometimes, when someone is in denial, it is fun to give them a taste of an orgasm and I like doing that via ruined orgasms.
Ruined orgasms
What is a ruined orgasm? Well, it is when you work yourself up to the point of no return and let it flow out without you assisting it. There are may ways to have ruined orgasms like the let go method or the squeeze tight. No matter which you choose, the end result will be cum just kinda oozing out of your cock versus a full on explosion.
Frustrating for you fun for me
Now, yes, when I dish out ruined orgasms, it tends to be very frustrating to the person getting it….but for me, ohh, for me it is fun! To bring a man to the edge of orgasm and tell him he is allowed to cum, but he must ruin that orgasm and hear his cries of ughhhhhh ohhh and then that all telling groan of frustration…for me is fun and thrilling!
Something that amazes me
There is one thing that I always find fascinating when it comes to ruined orgasms and that’s when a guy asks for them or even begs for them! Why on earth would you want to have it ruined is my thoughts, but hey, I never ruin mine and I don’t edge or delay my orgasms either. I am in it to get it and get off. So when you beg me to ruin it, just know I get a secret thrill out of that.
Accidental ruined orgasms
This is what happens when you are stroking so much and edging that cock, knowing full well you are not allowed to cum. You think you stopped stroking in time and are not even touching your dick when suddenly it twitches and cum starts to ooze out. Many think, oh I failed you by cumming, but in reality, it is not the full on pleasure of an orgasm and the fact it was not enjoyable makes it fine by me when this happens. But trust me when I say, I can tell when you fake a ruined orgasm and truly have a full on explosive orgasm so don’t try any fucking games.
Mistress: I think if I HAD to experience a ruined orgasm, I’d want it to be in person with you rather than over the phone.
I understand why you feel that way no worries at all
I have only had a couple of ruined orgasms with you so far, but they are a humbling and emasculating experience! While it’s better than NO orgasm, having a ruined one reminds me that I’m NOT allowed to cum how and when i like,as a real man would, but instead, I’m only worthy of what pleasure my Goddess permits me to have, even if it is only a ‘ruined orgasm’………But in truth, i wouldn’t want it any other way!!!
Yes I am glad you enjoy having them even though they are humbling…….and I don’t want it any other way either!!!
Hey, it’s all about You after all, so if a ruined orgasm will put a smile on Your face, i’m ready to ruin one for You!
hehehe you are awesome chrissy this is one of the many reasons I dig ya so much
Well MistressConstance I admit I have had a few ruined orgasm in my life time I always try to finish them because they are SO MUCH enjoyable, and as far as edging well I do that at times but so much more enjoy finishing what I started.
ahh gale well sometimes a ruined orgasm is what you should have hehehe not always about hat you want girlie girl hehheh
I remember when i had a few with you on the phone i thought you were just trying not to let me feel bad because i had an accident by saying “Im just too hot for you pet” But now i know that yrs you are too hot but also that you enjoyed my ruined orgasm. Long live happy accidents hehehe
lol pet you are right and I used to tell you it was okay well there is a reason for that silly boy because I enjoyed it hehehehe long live ruined orgasms!!!
Dear Mistress Constance,
I have come to fear and dread ruined orgasms. As part of my training in the BDSM lifestyle, I endured several of those as punishment. Having a ruined orgasm also reminds me that I’m NOT allowed to ejaculate, when I was not granted permission. In my case I prefer edging with NO orgasm over a ruined orgasm. Thank you for raising the question, and I look forward to other opinions.
Ohh I see why you would prefer edging and no orgasm over ruined…don’t blame ya actually and you should never cum without permission
awww to fear them hehehehe
Well i just got to experience first hand of my Queen Constance enjoying a ruined orgasm! I have to say that when she told me to keep stroking after i hit my number that this was going to be great. Im saying “im cumming im cumming!” and she says “oh yeah? LET GO NOW!” and then comes her laughter and giggles….so much better than having an accident….si much better!
yes you sure did my pet…..and I had a blast and I loved making you ruin it and hearing your reaction and it was a blast!!!
Since I only cum with you, and you know how rare that is the majority of those orgasms have been ruined. Admittingly accidental or maybe they are what you plan, lol. But for me any orgasms is a good orgasm. Especially if it’s pleasing my Boo.
w you are such a good boy any orgasms is a good one as long as it is pleasing me love that!!
we need more calls
It’s a very hot feeling to go right to the brink then have to stop. Exciting to hear that sexy mistress voice telling me I just get a little dribble or a little squirt. There’s momentary relief followed by an incredibly strong craving to finish. I love how happy it makes a mistress knowing she has left me wanting so much more. Another way of showing I am hers, and it makes the ultimate release that much better.
ohh I know just how much you love them hehehehehe
For starters, I don’t think I’ve ever been directed to ruin an orgasm by a Mistress. I still think this would be better than no orgasm at all, especially if I had already been taken right up to the edge. Either one though would reinforce your control, which you know is best for me. As far as having ruined orgasms during unsupervised edging, I’ve somehow avoided that so far. But I dread it happening because I’d feel so much guilt, even if it’s an accidental ruined one. Maybe some pressure will be off now that I know that it won’t cause the world to end if it ever should happen. I’ll still know that you’re in control. 🙂
ohh better than no hmmmmmmmmmm I will be thinking about this on our next call heheheheh
Ruined orgasms. Where do I start. I feel i could write a blog on my feelings about them all by meself.
I will start by saying that I really do not enjoy them in a regular sense, I do think that they have taught me a great deal about my own body and how it reacts.
A few years ago I was trying to teach my self how to keep from ejaculating after going to that one stoke too many point. I would stroke and edge, sometimes for an hour or two, and when I got to the point where I would normally finish I would get myself that one stroke over and then stop and try to hold it back. Well of course this lead me to many a ruined orgasm. But each time I would pay attention to my body and how it reacted. Now I did not do this every time I masturbated but I would say I did it at least once a week.
I do not recall how long it took me to reach my goal, but reach that goal I did. The very first time I was able to keep my self from ejaculating was on a night that I had been stroking and edging for over two hours. I got to the one stoke over point and held back the ejaculation, and what followed that was what I can only describe as the most amazing orgasm I had ever felt. When my body finally stopped convulsing I was half on and half off my bed, my hand was wrapped around my still fully hard cock with no cum on it. I would call this an amazingly fantastical reward for many ruined orgasms. I followed that up by stroking to a full ejaculation.
forrest thank y ou so much for sharing this with me and my readers it is a great peek into your mind and thoughts