HI there everyone today I want to discuss your phone sex budget. This is something that comes up from time to time with regular clients and I am very hands on with the budget factor. I don’t want you going into debt to speak to me Of course I want to talk to you often but if your budget does not allow for that we will need to get you on a budget.
Do you have a budget
The first thing is do you even have a phone sex budget? There are not many of us who have unlimited disposable income so it is important that you budget your phone sex spending. Start with figuring out just how much time you want to spend on the phone and the cost of that time. Now once you have the amount fixed in your head set aside money for that time….if it takes you a month to have the money so be it but being on a budget is important.
Constance fund
This is something I have some long term clients do even when we don’t speak regularly. They take a small portion from every pay check and put it into the Constance fund…this fund is for calls it is for gifts and for extras like things I might have them buy for sessions. It has worked out well for them and you should also do something similar even if I am not your Mistress.
Why a budget?
Well I know there is a thought out there that we ladies don’t care about you or the money you spend all we want is our money. Well this simply is not true at least not of the ladies I have spoken too. I would much rather have you create a budget and stick to it than run up your credit card bill and disappear to pay it off. I would rather talk to you less frequently than have you worried about paying off the bill.
No Call No Contact?
This is another thing I am sure many of you think…well with me this simply is not true and you can ask the dozen of callers who for one reason or another cant call often who do indeed stay in touch and mail me on a regular basis. Now do they get the sex and get the action in those mails…hell no I am not stupid but they still can get direction, support and an understanding ear to talk to. So don’t worry about that side of it.
Need help with your budget
Just reach out to me and I will be happy to help you figure out a budget for your phone sex needs and your kink play needs in general
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Great blog and great advice, Mistress. Phone sex is one of those things that can get out of control, much the same way as shopping, spending, drugs, alcohol, and gambling, or other activities that can lead to misuse or even addiction. It’s good there are responsible phone sex workers like you, and while you can’t prevent someone from calling if they are determined to do so, at least you do not encourage guys to call and for them to worry about the credit card bill when it arrives. The “Constance Fund” is also a great idea, and maybe giving up other things to help fund the “Constance Fund” also works. For example, instead of going to Starbucks 5 times a week, you go 2 times a week and put the money you would have spent those other 3 times into the fund. Or perhaps put your loose change in a jar every day when you get home, and over the course of several weeks there will be more than you expect. Just a couple of ideas to share with others who will read this.
you are one I admire for your budgeting skills and you gave some great ideas here puppet thank you very very much
I just rob a bank or mug little old ladies when I’m low on funds for calls*(JUST KIDDING*. Thank you for addressing this important but often neglected subject.
no no no no no spotty NOOOOOOOOOO
Ms. Constance,
This is such a wonderful post!
I am with you on everything you said about the budget. I do not want guys & gals to go into debt either. The stress of the money can certainly color the session, too. Best to just wait one more paycheck and make the call a stress-free delicious session.
Your suggestions for the Constance Fund is brilliant! (Gonna borrow it, if that’s okay… a Daphne Fund.)
Thank you so much for writing this piece. Really wonderful and I will be sharing it with my own clients.
*gentle hugs*
thank you so so much Ms Daphne I know we think alike and sure use away hehehehe
Well this is a great blog post and we have tried this in the past, but im so addicted to you that going more than a few days without your sexy beautiful voice in my ear is unacceptable. I cant. I just cant. AND i dont want to cure my addiction to you.
Sometimes for me disappearing for a short time is helpful for my budget. I think we can both agree i have NO self control when i need to hear you. Anywho. Budget are good if one can withstand your perfection, but i cant.
it is true we have tried it but your addiction to me seems to over take you but I do trust you and you have backed off when things were tight so I am happy with that.
and yes my sweet pet although you enjoy my voice in your ear sometimes you need a break for that budget for sure and I am not perfect but thank you for feeling that way
Great post Constance. When I first started calling I was embarrassed to bring up the money issue. I don’t know why; maybe I was afraid it would turn off the mistresses. It was actually you who brought it up first, which made me realize how silly I had been and how it was better to have everything out in the open. And you’re right; any Mistress I have ever talked to about this has been more than understanding and willing to work to set up a schedule that makes sense precisely so the calls don’t stop. Financial planning is key in life, so why not here? And yes, you are the Queen of between call contact, whether it be to check in on assignment progress or now that we don’t talk regularly, just to say hi. You’re incredibly responsive.
thanks bfla yes I am just like that I do answer and communicate with no money involved to do so……….and yes it is not often something we discuss but hey it is there it is a part of this so we need to work that part out thank you for your comment
i see how much my friends spend on cigarettes, bars, golf, boats, hunting gear- my only passion is You and i still think i come out ahead by not doing all that other stuff!
well I am not gonna complain about your passion being me cause I sure as fuck love it 🙂
Ms. Constance, this is a great blog! I agree to the nth degree! I would so prefer a caller stay within their budget, call when they can instead of running up a huge bill and paying for it one way or another (meaning NO phone sex) and vanishing off the face of the earth!
I encourage all of my regular clients to stay in contact me via email, so I can get to know them better. They can send me their naughty thoughts for our next call so my mind has time to percolate and come up with some fantastic twists and turns regarding the kinks we share!
I love the idea of the “FUND” and will be suggesting it to a few today! “you know pet, an Erika Fund can be quite rewarding” ?