We all know what orgasm denial is and that when you are denied you simply don’t get to orgasm at all. But orgasm delay is the same thing only you know that in the end you will cum.

Orgasm Delay lengths

Now orgasm delay like many kinks comes in many shapes and sizes and is not a one size fits all type of thing. Delaying and orgasms can be as short as a few minutes or a few hours it depends on what you are looking for. Orgasm delay for days may be delay to some guys but full on denial for others again totally up to the person doing it. The difference for me between the two is with orgasm denial you don’t get to touch all the time and edge that cock but with delay I want you to touch and edge I want you to push yourself and hold back delaying your orgasm till it is granted.

Set some goals

What I suggest for anyone looking into orgasm denial or orgasm delay is to set some goals pick a time frame you can handle or discuss this with your Orgasm Control Mistress and the two of you together can come up with a realistic goal for you one that you can handle and achieve. Setting unrealistic goals is not good because it will discourage you from wanting to try orgasm delay/denial again and that is no fun!

Reach your goal and go longer

Now once you have reached your orgasm delay goals and have had your orgasm I suggest when you are ready to do it again set the goal longer. This can be hours longer or days longer again it depends on the person and what they want.

Which would you choose

So if you had a choice between orgasm delay with lots of orgasm edging or orgasm denial with next to no edging which would you choose? Are you ready to beat your record and set some goals or are you scared of what it might be like?

 

orgasm delay with Mistress Constance