Welcome to Wednesday, my weekly ask Mistress post where I answer the questions you all send into me. If you have a question or are curious about something simply use the Ask Mistress Constance tab right here on my blog and check back every week to see yours answered in a future post.

Dear Mistress:
How many pairs of shoes do you own and what’s your favorite style?

This may come as a shock to you, but I think only about 20, maybe 30. I love anything open toed and strappy……I am not as into shoes as I am panties hehehehehe those I have hundreds of!!

 Dear Mistress:
This is the unfaithful cuckold. I did what you suggested and told my wife everything. She wasn’t exactly pleased with me, but she understands how weak I am and thinks her bull may have been taking advantage of me. She dropped him straight away which didn’t improve her mood as he was very good and she likes to keep a couple at hand in case she has a night where one isn’t enough.

I haven’t escaped punishment either as I’m now locked in the wardrobe when her bulls come over and I’m not allowed have anything to do with them anymore.

Thank you for this update. I had wondered what happened to you and if you came clean. I think you are getting just what you deserve, how can she trust you with a bull again? I do however agree with her that the bull took advantage of your submissive nature, but that does not mean you didn’t know what you were doing was wrong. Hope things are better now.

 Dear Mistress:
Would you ever engage in racial or ethnic humiliation if requested by a sub? For example, would you dress as a Nazi if a Jewish sub requested it while you administer corporal punishment? Or, what if an African-American sub asked to be called the “N” word as a form of humiliation?

Nope, this sort of role play or fantasy does not work for me, it is against everything I am. This along with religious role plays, I just simply can’t do nor will I attempt to fake it.

Dear Mistress:
Why do you think a cuckold couple’s lover is called a bull?

Because a bull in nature is alpha,  strong and large.  A leader of the pack is the alpha and that is why I think cuckold couples refer to the man as the Bull

Dear Mistress:
Have you ever tried to be seductive with your man, but you just came off as silly? It happened to me recently and it was a little embarrassing.

I don’t think I have ever embarrassed myself, but then again I am silly and what might be embarrassing for others I own and laugh my ass off and feel no embarrassment at all. Now tell us what happened to you hehehehe

 Dear Mistress:
Are you physically very strong?

No, I wouldn’t say I am strong

Dear Mistress:
Is your (M) like you? Female parental figure is M

First off let me say my (M) passed when I was younger, but in many ways I am just like her. Independent, strong willed, hardworking, loyal, honest, funny, smart, giving….She was someone I looked up to and still do to this day.  Not a day goes by that I don’t thank her for passing onto me the strong traits she had. So, the answer is YES, I am like her. Was she a femdom?  Nope, but she instilled in me a lot of my take control ways along with all the good stuff I mentioned above.

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