I enjoyed answering the questions this week that you all sent in, I like have the real open exchange about things that this weekly blog lends itself to and I do hope you all keep sending in those great questions….to submit one go to my ask mistress tab here
Dear Mistress:
My wife was raised in a conservative religious family and has very traditional views on the relationship between a husband and wife. Can you recommend any ways I can show her how to become more assertive about what she wants? I believe that she would enjoy being dominant in the bedroom once she tries it.
Have you talked to her openly about it? I suggest sit down and tell her that it would be fun to try it and give her some direction she may just be clueless as to how to behave or what to do. Spend the time sharing with her how you might find it exciting for her to take charge adding in the naughty things you will like…and I think just like you said once she tries it she will love it.
Dear Mistress:
Have you ever fantasized about being satisfied by multiple guys at once?
I have done it hehehehe yes I have been with 3 guys at once and all of them were there to satisfy me and let me tell you they took body worship and foreplay to a whole new level…I was trembling with orgasms before I had the first big cock inside me!
Dear Mistress:
Do you ever coach your callers in getting a real life partner and how to keep them?
Yes actually I have and to great success in fact a long term client of mine just got married to the woman I helped coach him about. I take such joy and happiness out of such things helping, giving advice that only a woman can to help a guy with their lady.
Dear Mistress:
Do any of your female friends ever seem interested or envious of the control you have over your clients.
YES all are interested and many are simply fascinated and even jealous and say you spoiled bitch when I tell them about how I am pampered. With that said a few friends have a bit of that femdom in them and have explored a bit in their own lives. But overall yes they are envious and curious and totally fascinated
Dear Mistress:
What do you do if one of your clients falls in love with you?
I love love….I do not encourage clients to fall in love with me because simply put they can never have me and it can lead to hurt and bad feelings…but if a client falls in love with me I am very careful about keeping him and his love for me in its place. I understand falling in love with someone like me who helps to bring joy happiness and total and unconditional acceptance of who they truly are and when you are that intimate with a person and share such deep things it is natural to feel love and to fall in love.
As long as the client keeps everything in perspective knowing we will never meet I have no issue with them falling in love with me. I also make it clear to them that although I have feelings of love for many that it is not the run off get married type love……but I love love and it would be unrealistic to say I shut them down or cut them off…the only time I would do that is if they lost control and perspective as to what our relationship is and the boundaries that are in place
Some serious questions here. And fascinating answers. Indeed I know on a very personal level you are an excellent person to turn to for advice on some of the issues raised here. Enjoyed reading all these responses.
Thanks I am so glad you are enjoying them and I love giving out advice 🙂
It was great talking to you this afternoon and thank you for the thoughtful answers to these questions.
aww I had a lovely time speaking to you too and thanks for reading them even though it is turning into a job because I blog so much hehehehe
I love reading the questions and your answers Miss Constance! I especially appreciate your comments about boundaries and phone sex … I think intense emotions are very much part of what we do and the feelings are real. I think the very nature of a distance domination relationship leads to intimacy that doesn’t happen in face to face dating life. When someone begins to push those boundaries with me I gently say, hey, I will NEVER ask you to take the trash out … etc.
LOL
I also loved that you coached a guy into love. Now THAT is pretty cool to hear as well!
Thank you my sexy friend I am glad you enjoy them….I love boundaries as I know you do too and it is a must have I think..and yes I was so happy that the advice I gave him worked and that they are now married and expecting!
Again, a great question and answer session from clients!
I think each Q&A post gets better and better. What I like best here is the reality and truth you put into each and every answer! It is wonderful to read that you helped a man find a wonderful life partner. I really enjoy helping couples, and think kink builds hot bonds. Very cool stuff here, and thanks for more great answers!
Ms. Delia
Thanks for popping by Ms Delia so awesome of you…yes I give my truth and my reality and my opinions they may or may not match up with how others think or feel but it is me raw and honest and yes helping someone find and keep love is awesome
Great Q&A, Ms. Constance! I’m not sure what I appreciated more…the valuable advice you gave regarding emotional boundaries or the hot image of you and three guys worshiping your body, LOL! You’re a fantastic advice-giver, so I hope your callers keep your inbox full with interesting, fascinating questions. I love reading about Mistresses’ behind-the-scenes thoughts, so to speak.
Thank you so much Ms Marlena I hope my box stays full too hehehehehe