I enjoyed answering the questions this week that you all sent in, I like have the real open exchange about things that this weekly blog lends itself to and I do hope you all keep sending in those great questions….to submit one go to my ask mistress tab here

Dear Mistress:

My wife was raised in a conservative religious family and has very traditional views on the relationship between a husband and wife. Can you recommend any ways I can show her how to become more assertive about what she wants? I believe that she would enjoy being dominant in the bedroom once she tries it.

Have you talked to her openly about it? I suggest sit down and tell her that it would be fun to try it and give her some direction she may just be clueless as to how to behave or what to do. Spend the time sharing with her how you might find it exciting for her to take charge adding in the naughty things you will like…and I think just like you said once she tries it she will love it.

Dear Mistress:
Have you ever fantasized about being satisfied by multiple guys at once?

I have done it hehehehe yes I have been with 3 guys at once and all of them were there to satisfy me and let me tell you they took body worship and foreplay to a whole new level…I was trembling with orgasms before I had the first big cock inside me!

Dear Mistress:
Do you ever coach your callers in getting a real life partner and how to keep them?

Yes actually I have and to great success in fact a long term client of mine just got married to the woman I helped coach him about. I take such joy and happiness out of such things helping, giving advice that only a woman can to help a guy with their lady.

Dear Mistress:
Do any of your female friends ever seem interested or envious of the control you have over your clients.

YES all are interested and many are simply fascinated and even jealous and say you spoiled bitch when I tell them about how I am pampered. With that said a few friends have a bit of that femdom in them and have explored a bit in their own lives. But overall yes they are envious and curious and totally fascinated

Dear Mistress:
What do you do if one of your clients falls in love with you?

I love love….I do not encourage clients to fall in love with me because simply put they can never have me and it can lead to hurt and bad feelings…but if a client falls in love with me I am very careful about keeping him and his love for me in its place. I understand falling in love with someone like me who helps to bring joy happiness and total and unconditional acceptance of who they truly are and when you are that intimate with a person and share such deep things it is natural to feel love and to fall in love.

As long as the client keeps everything in perspective knowing we will never meet I have no issue with them falling in love with me. I also make it clear to them that although I have feelings of love for many that it is not the run off get married type love……but I love love and it would be unrealistic to say I shut them down or cut them off…the only time I would do that is if they lost control and perspective as to what our relationship is and the boundaries that are in place

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