So this interesting topic came up in a conversation the other day with a caller. Being owned and controlled by one Mistress but wanting to talk to others for conversation and even play time. I thought I would share my thoughts about this with all of you.
I am all for it
First of all you should know I am all for you calling other Mistresses even though you belong to me. Now with that said my rules are in place regardless of who you speak to and for what. An example would be if your denied by me but want to edge for another….cool do it but don’t you dare cum. As long as the rules we have established are followed you can call as many as often as you like,
why Mistress rules stay in place
Now you might be wondering if I am going to allow you to call other Phone Sex Mistresses why the rules stay in place. First of all if we are that involved there are rules than they are there for the betterment of our pleasure. Second what’s the point in spending time and effort on your kink with me and establishing things only to have you do whatever on the side. This cheats you and me out of a very rewarding relationship.
How to handle things
When you are owned by one but call many you make it up front when speaking to other Mistresses. Make it clear to them what the rules are and what you would like from them. Letting them know up front helps them to decide where to go and how far to go during a session. If you happen to have a Mistress tell you they may or may not follow your lead Mistresses rules perhaps you should decide not to speak with her. The reason I say this is to keep you on the path you wanted to be….and avoids you feeling disrespectful to any Mistress.
Do you call me but belong to another
Well if you have ever called me and told me you belong to another you know I will respect whatever your Mistress has put in place. If your Mistress has you denied you will remain denied. If your Mistress has you eating your load you will eat that load for me as well. I have mad respect for all Mistresses here on our sites and elsewhere and will never go against them.
You are not that serious about it
If you are someone who is not serious about being owned or controlled or devoted to a Mistress that’s totally cool. If you want to cum for one but be denied by another…totally cool. I have no issues with any of that but if you have established yourself and committed yourself to another you should follow through on that. Or even better don’t bother saying to another Mistress you belong to another and you wont ever put her in a situation like letting you cum when denied and such.
**side note**
No this blog is not about you or anyone again this was a conversation I had with a caller the other day and I thought hmm I want to blog about it. I have no issues with my clients calling others in fact in some cases I encourage it. So relax this is not about you hehehehe
Interesting post Mistress…..I believe sub sissy cuckold males, like myself, are meant to be submissive to ALL women……as you have instructed me. Also, I have always loved being put through my paces with other Mistress and Yourself on calls.So, naturally, I have wondered about a doing one of those calls where i am passed around to other Mistresses. Of course, I am, and hope to always be, owned by my Goddess….But service to others within the rules sounds HOT!
you have always been such a good little slut to share 🙂
These are all good points to ponder for Our subbies, Miss Constance. I have often had submissives who tell Me that they are devoted to Me, and then come to Me “confessing” guiltily that they’ve talked to someone else. I’m always surprised at that, the guilt that is. I tell them, remember, YOU said you belong to Me. *I* never said I owned you! lol
As far as I’m concerned, any subbie can call anyone they like, as long as, like you say, the rules they are under are openly disclosed and adhered to.
I am glad you and I think alike
I belong to you and feel odd taking orders from another Mistress. I do enjoy being show off by you on two Mistress calls and i wouldnt mind if you ordered me to call another Mistress for any reason.
But i cant even handle you much less trying to follow the rules for someone who doesnt know me. I couldnt call anyone else without your permission anyway. It wouldnt feel right to me.
I think i will just stick with you. You are all i need.
you can stick with me cause I aint letting ya go!
I was JUST talking to a caller about this last night! He did two rounds of Pass The Penis back to back with me as the final Mistress each time and I could not be happier. Each of ladies that he was passed to teased and tormented him in their own style and I loved all the variety he got. At the end of the second call, his orgasm belonged to me and I encouraged him to talk to as many Mistresses as he can in the future. There is no limit to how much fun and headfuckery that he can have with so many women in all their special ways, but he knows that he only cum with me. I love this blog!
sharing is fucking awesome
Mistress: I would also add that it is courteous and a good idea to let someone’s mistress know ahead of time of the intention to call another mistress, so that way the owned one’s mistress is not caught by surprise and hearing of the call from another LDW mistress first.
I couldn’t agree with you more
I know this can be a touchy subject as callers do want to make their Mistress-owners proud while still scratching that very natural itch to explore. I can say that I wholeheartedly respect the “territory” of other Mistresses when it comes to their property. Good subs/slaves should always be upfront about their Mistresses’ requirements. Calling another Domina just to skirt the rules in place by your primary could be construed as sneaking about and that is naughty. Of course if you’re free-range and don’t have any agreements in place, then this probably doesn’t apply to you anyway. So just have fun!
yes have fun and play the field I don’t mind my callers calling others but if rules are in play they must stay in play
Ms Cindy is all for that. She told most if not all the mistresses what she did to me and they all accepted this. Every mistress calls me Petey/Petey cream puff/cream puff or Petey puff. They all know that I’m in bra/panty set all the time/my body petite/soft/smooth/hairless and have madeup face with feminine arched eyebrows. I’ve been told by Ms Cindy to always keep extra pair of panties in my purse as everytime all of you feminize me I always get off and have to replace them. Ms Cindy told me as long as I’m hard and get off I’ll always stay dressed as a girl until I no longer get hard. I’ll always be ldws cream puff for all the mistresses to share and keep as a girl because this is only way I can get hard and off.
awesome
I love your blogs! I’m a big fan of making sure I’m very clear about expectations on the part of everyone involved! That keeps things sane and safe. I also encourage people to enjoy other Mistresses because hey, I’m enjoying other man! ~laughs~ I’m glad you’re my friend!
I am super glad you are my friend sexy lady
I loved this post! I completely agree that if you belong to one, her rules stay in place. What’s the point of going through all of the time and effort to build the bond only to act like it doesn’t exist? It would be so disrespectful! Belonging doesn’t mean never calling anyone else, but it darn sure means not cheating and making sure both mistresses know what’s going on. Everything you wrote was right on!
very well said!