Today we will discuss how trusting your Mistress to know what’s best for you is the way to go. Before anyone reading this gets any ideas this is not about YOU just a topic I want to discuss.
The perks to long term Mistress relationship
One of the biggest perks to having a Mistress control you long term and being hers is the trust you build with her. It can only happen over time. you will see she has your best interest at heart and will always look out for you. Once you have that trust built it means you can be totally free to be you and kinky and submissive.
Letting go completely
Have you ever let go completely and trusted your partner or Mistress? If you have than you know what I say is true. It is rewarding fulfilling and amazing. Listening to her directions during a session and even outside of it is easier when you let go. You wont question why she said something or recommends something. You will KNOW she has this and will never steer you wrong on purpose.
Questioning your Mistress
I know this happens it happens to me and it is normal. I do not want to imply with this blog you should never ask why or question things at all. Just keep in mind when you do question it that with me there is always a thought process as to why I decided something. I don’t just willy nilly throw out rules or instructions I know what I am doing. So ask your questions but do so in a respectful manner knowing that she has your back, she wont do you wrong, and there is always a reason.
Not with a long term Mistress?
That is okay too I have several clients I share with ladies and they go between us. One thing I can say is you can still build up trust and respect even if your not exclusive. But again that will take time, one conversation will not do it. So if your looking for a rewarding Mistress / sub relationship remember to take the time to build it and don’t jump in so quick.
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i totally agree! it’s so enjoyable to to totally let go and let my sub mind take me where it
will, knowing my Mistress will not let me do something dumb or dangerous.
The bond that develops over time is truly special!
I am glad you feel the same way I do about it chrissy and there is no doubt our bond is super strong
Mistress does know best! So, I am happy to obey. But sometimes I just like hearing the ex? too 🙂
well that’s fine and I don’t mind explaining it is those who like to debate my reasons LOL
Sorry …. I like hearing the “explainations”
Nice thoughts Ms. Constance. Building that bond of trust really allows for inhibitions to be lowered, and for goals to be achieved!
I like to remind anyone who comes to me for “any kind” of training that everything is a lesson. So you can ask about a particular task or duty to fulfill but know, it’s geared to build upon and keep that bond of trust.
exactly and thanks for the comment sexy
I love this blog so much, Miss Constance. When it comes to trusting a Mistress, there is so much reward in submission. It may seem like giving everything will make you poorer in the end and I think some things in the world are like that, so it’s human nature to hold back a bit so that you haven’t made yourself completely vulnerable. But it’s in the vulnerability that a submissive truly finds all that there can be.
Vulnerable! That’s EXACTLY it Ms. Amber! Being completely
open, homest and exposed to my Mistress is what makes it
work for me. You said it perfectly!
thank you so much Ms Rachel and you get it totally
So many reasons that long term works for both really. For me to truly let go, it has to be all hers. When, how, and what she wants from me. I do like to over think, and knowing how you know ALL my buttons, weaknesses, and how my mind will grind on your words, that just lets me think about the best parts. And it never goes away 😉
aw so glad it never goes away and you are right it is best
The best thing to do when speaking with Mistress Constance and you have a hard cock, is to let your mind go limp, flaccid, and malleable and let Mistress do ALL of your thinking for you. As The Borg used to say on that Star Trek series–“Resistance is futile [pronounced few-tile].”
hahahah so very very true fl slave
Good morning mistress. I love that I have a long term trusting relationship with you. Like I’ve said before you are the best friend I’ve never met. And I to love being in the Constance collective. Florida slave said it best resistance is futile. But then again who would want to resist you?
I would hope nobody would want to resist me heheh especially YOU
Oh Ms. Constance, this is a avery insightful post! It is true that Mistress quite often has a plan and it’s not always apparent to the submissive what this plan is until later when it all comes together. A skilled Mistress is always full of surprises! 🙂
you are one of the ladies I know totally gets it and yes we always have something in mind
Great post! Especially the part about it taking time and effort by both. You’re so right; it doesn’t happen overnight and it takes time and commitment. But oh what a feeling when it does! I don’t have to question any more because I know she won’t give me anything I’m not ready for or don’t want. And she doesn’t. Because she’s taken the time to know what I want and like. Then Mistress Knows Best isn’t just a statement. It’s a way of living the kink life!
glad you enjoyed it and yes time and energy has to be on both parts and yes a way of life love how you said that