I have recently hit a few very big milestones with a couple of my long term clients and of course to help celebrate and mark such momentous occasions I have blogged about them, the blogs got many amazing comments which leads me to this very blog. Long term is very doable even when it is phone sex that is if you find the right woman for you.
Long term means Commitment
For any type of a long term relationship to work vanilla or D/s it takes commitment and not just on the part of the man but it also takes commitment from the woman as well, especially when it comes to phone relationships. It is not easy to be thousands of miles away from the one you’re committed to so to keep that bond strong and real it takes time and effort. Does this type of commitment happen over night or easily hell NO, it takes time and interaction it takes proving yourself to me and vice versa in many ways…….funny for me to say as a Mistress that I have to prove myself to those looking for long term but it is true……how do I prove myself? To put it simply by being hands on from start to finish and everything in between I am a hands on phone Mistress. I look at it like this.. how is someone going to trust me and be able to commit themselves to me if I never reply to mails or I am never around except for the phone session….that is no way to build long term anything and I pride myself in breaking that mold of the typical phone sex girl that is in it for the call and that’s all.
Kinks and Long Term
There are many types of kinks we all enjoy but some lend themselves to becoming a long term relationship such as orgasm denial and chastity…how can I lock someone’s cock up claim it as my own if I never speak or communicate with the person or even worse if I disappear for weeks at a time………..simply put I can NOT. As much as many are committed to giving up their freedom for cock control, I am just as committed to being there every step of the way guiding and helping them for better or worse. With every kink and every relationship there are ups and downs whether it be a cuckold or a sissy slut and there is a sense of comfort and security knowing that when you do have those downs your Mistress will still be there for you, and not just stop speaking to you because it was all too much. I am living proof that having a long term kink relationship is indeed possible and enjoyable.
Is Long Term for you?
Are you looking for a connection someone who truly is there and gets you and your needs….do you want to lean on this person for kink and other life issues? Do you find yourself just wanting to know someone is there and happy to be there no strings attached? Well if you answered yes to these things than perhaps a long term phone mistress is just what you need. If your more of the type who wants to try every flavor several times that’s okay too that’s why there are so many choices out there…..just know that if you ever wanted more or needed more it is possible.
I can obviously relate to this post as you have been my Mistress here for sometime now. Long term D/s phone relationships definitely allow for a greater exploration of real submission, as well new kinks. While a call to a new Mistress is thrilling, it takes time and communication for he development of trust. With trust comes true fetish fulfillment, real desire and a deep adoration of your Mistress. So, I would just add my humble aggreement Mistress…….Long term submission is incredible!
Cuckie thank you for your comment……….it does indeed allow us to explore deeper submissive feelings and it is indeed a relationship even if not in the typoical physical sense of one. Your one of my long time clients that hs been a joy to be with and you have seen first hand what being commited to and sharing with someone long term has on a person! Thanks for the comment 🙂
Long Term is not only possible, it is incredible. I was one of those that bounced around from Mistress to Mistress for years. It wasn’t until I submitted to Empress Constance that things got interesting. When I committed to Empress Constance and she matched my committment, well….I knew I was home, unchartered waters so to speak, but definately home. She has brought me untold joy in our journey. Thank you Empress for the fabulous voyage, and here’s to many, many more years of bliss. Long term or short term, you can’t go wrong with Empress Constance.
Gummy thank you sweetie………..I am glad after all your bouncing you found the right one for you (ME) It has been a journey you and I have embarked on one that I have no intention of ending EVER. Our open relationship and our communication is at its all time best and that comes from being secure and knowing no matter what I am here for you sub or otherwise. Thanks for the comment babe!
I had another thought. The words of Empress Constance are not just empty promises. She is there every step of the way and she does answer her email and she never disappears for days on end. If you want to get an idea of how she interacts with others I suggest you read the comments on her previous blogs and notice that she attempts to answer and reply to every comment. She not only talks the talk (and ever so sweetly) but she sure looks good walking the walk!!!
hehehe I love you other thought! Your right I walk the walk not just talk the talk…………….sessions are more about just the call if you as me and being there replying communicationg and being hands on is what I am all about and what I could not ever give up! Kiss kiss thanks babe
Hi there Ms. Constance. I am new to your blog. This was a fascinating post. I really enjoyed it. I am in a long term phone relationship with Princess Andi (I hope you don’t mind me saying that on your blog) and you hit so much right on target about it. I had called several other mistresses before Andi. They were fun, but I quickly discovered Andi is exactly who I was looking for in a phone mistress. I have committed to her for as long as she will have me, and she has committed to me too. You are so right; it takes both to commit for it to really work. The result has been incredible. Andi has been there for me as a friend and princess and we have really been able to explore different fetishes in new and fun ways. The level of familiarity and trust has led to some incredible calls, and being able to communicate with her in between is really special. This long term commitment to Princess Andi really works for me; she has added to my life in so many physical and emotional ways. I have no doubt you do the same for your long term submissives. Thank you for writing about this subject!
Thank you for reading and responding to this blog…………….I am thrilled to hear this is the case with other ladies as well and I know Princess Andi well enough to know that she is a treasure one that you seem to appreciate…………having a relationship with your phone mistress can be very rewarding and satisfying when your exclusive and long term something many may never understand but folks like cuck mike gummy and you know the benifits and the pleasure that comes from it! Thank you so much for your comment and I wish you and Ms Andi all the best and a long happy D/s life!!
Not much I can add to these wonderful comments. But you know what you mean to me and how I cherish our relationship.
Awwwwww thanks W and you know how I feel!
Amen, Amen, can’t believe what has transpired in the last 3 years. Years ago i use to laugh and mock anyone that would call those niteflirt 800 #’s thought what kind of idiot would spend that kind of money for one minute.. Well don/t knock it until u have tried it. actually i think after years of on off relationships i have found a home here so to speak) I mean i can tell these girls every thing and they just egg me on. (am i preaching to the choir here) I have told my mistress that many times that she is more of a friend than a phone sex madam. Ms constance i think u know who i am talking about. We sometimes get the sex over with first so we can just talk. I do believe long term is best for me.
Fluffy I am thrilled you enjoyed the blog and loved your comment……..I know just how you feel about your Mistress and I think you have found that perfect someone for you and thats a beautiful thing!!
Oops sorry Empress Hunter, i did not want to mention your name on Ms constances blog, I had failed to read a preceding comment from Bfla, and i guess it is ok to do so.
with long term (its been about 18 months) if u have the right mistress, the possibilities are endless.Empress Hunter has at least one perv who calls for 6 hour blocks. I couldn’t believe it at first. But if i could afford it i could easily talk to her for that long. She is just incredible.
Yes fluffy mentioning her name is just fine by me I love knowing that others feel the same way about their mistress!!
Hi there, I really loved this post so much Ms. Constance! There is something magical that takes place when you have these long term D/s relationships. I really enjoyed reading how another Mistress feels on the subject and I do adore you!
And, to come back here not only to leave a comment but to see Bfla’s comment. Wow, Bfla, thank you for saying so. 🙂 That was sweet of you. I really do enjoy our time together. 🙂
I also enjoyed reading everyone elses experiences and how their thoughts added to the blog discussion. Wonderful!
~Princess Andi~
Thank you Andi for such a wonderful comment and I agree it is mafical when you connect and everything works….it is easy to be a long term mistress when you have subs that are so awesome and greatful for what we can bring to them. Your an amazing woman/Mistress and I know you and I will be long term Mistresses for well a very long time hehehehe
Mistress Constance,
Thank You for being You, it is easy to have a long term relationship when everything is going in the right direction, but when i had doubt You had patient and held my hand to guide me through, when i was lost You walked me to the over side, when i was weak with concern You have been the rock to pick me up and when i strayed from O/our goals and growth You waited for my return, You embraced me with kindness and understanding, like no other has.
Simply put, You invested Your time, You exposed Yourself and You did this unselfishly because You know no other way. Your values out weight the superficial, Your values require You trust no matter the risk. Starting with a free ten minute call to the most beautiful and wonderful relationship i have ever had with a true Woman, Person, Lady and my Mistess. yes thank You for You but more importantly thank You for being there. i truly adore and love You – for all You are.
Thank You Mistress Constance
Samantha what can I say………….WOW what a wonderful comment thank you for all your sweet words. I am not one to throw in the towel when the going gets rough I will always be here for you when you need me and even when you do not. The trust we have built and the things we share are amazing and I will always be here and cherish my sissy samantha!