This is a topic that has been mentioned before on our sites and I think we all know that communicating is the key but I wanted to address this specifically as it pertains to me So what should you do if your not happy with me for any reason?
Talk to me
The first step of action is you have is to discuss this with me, being open and honest as to what your needs are and even where I have failed to meet those needs is a must. Sharing with me why you are unhappy or what it is that you are lacking in our relationship is important. I will caution you though what you need and what I can offer may not line up so be prepared to hear that and understand it is nothing personal it is just the way life is.
realistic expectations
I think one thing that is super important of you and I is that we have realistic expectations of each other. I think the biggest issues arise when one or both have unrealistic expectations as to what we offer one another. I am not your wife, your girlfriend and cant be here all the time every day non stop for you. With that said I do my best to be here hands on and I am indeed a part of many clients lives as they are a part of mine…….but always with being realistic about our relationship.
Maybe we don’t fit
In the end when you are unhappy I am unhappy and there is only so much of that I will handle before I decide we are not a good match. This does not mean I hate you or your kink it simply means I cant give you what I feel you need or what you have asked for. We can part ways friends and that’s okay, but one thing is for sure if I say we don’t work it wont do us any good to try to MAKE it work it just seems pointless and I would much rather suggest you to someone who will work than try to make it work with us.
Who to talk to about us
Well simply put if you know me at all talking to others about me even for advice on me is totally NOT okay…..now there is a couple exceptions for instance if you wanted some advice you can go to Molly or Cassidy in live help or even ask Ms Ally herself those 3 ladies are the ONLY acceptable choices for you to talk about me to someone. If you have a legit complaint with how I treated you or about a bad session we had you can also talk to the dispatchers……………but that is IT.
It is important for you all to understand how totally inappropriate it is for you to go to a fellow Mistress to discuss Me or us or our situation. I don’t care if it is for advice or to vent if you do this you can guarantee to have no chance being mine. Here is why I feel this way I would NEVER discuss you with another Mistress or client your privacy is important to me. In the nature of our relationship it is so important to have trust…this is intimate and for you to discuss me with another well that offends me and I will not tolerate it.
Do you have questions?
If you have a question about how I feel or what options you have if your not happy with me please feel free to ask me or as I mentioned in the above part the proper ladies at our company. I am pretty open and can handle most anything I wont hate you for not being happy hell I want to make you happy and fix it if possible. Please don’t hesitate to contact me if you have any questions 🙂
Thank you for being such an understanding Mistress! I have always been able to discuss any issues I have with you ……….But i think i have been happiest…..and a better submissive….When i think of YOU first! Instead of thinking of my concerns and issues, as a loyal and devoted subbie, I try to stop and consider how my words would affect You, before I make any complaints…..Instead of thinking of myself i say “what can i do to make Mistress happy and serve Her better?” I trust you…my Mistress ….to know what’s best for me. If something is truly important, I know i can discuss it with you, but in most cases, i feel it is best to think twice before complaining and remember that I am here to serve YOU, my Goddess……and that i am blessed for any time i share with you!
well cuckie you have been an amazing submissive to me and you have put me first but as you know I don’t want you unhappy for the sake of serving me and I don’t want anyone to not discuss issues with me because they want to put me first. I have never claimed to be perfect and it is important for others to know I will own up to my mistakes and fix them if possible……….thank you for your comment cuckie you have been nothing but an amazing submissive to me 🙂
I know you are always there to discuss our feelings and concerns. And of course having the privilege of serving youhas not only made me happy, but been one of the greatest thrills in my life.
Well we’ve been together for a bunch of years now and I think I’ll just keep you. Which is obviously a joke because it’s you that has allowed me to be with you all these years. Thank you for that and for being more than a mistress to serve. You certainly are that to me, but even more your a dear friend and confidant that I would miss dearly if you weren’t a part of me. You have a big heart and deserve happiness always.
wes thank you for your comment babe and yes we have developed one hell of an amazing relationship and it was built on communication and trust and that’s not to say we have not had our ups and downs cause we have but with that trust there and mutual respect we have and will endure and grow even stronger kiss kisssssss
Hmm this was an interesting post and I am hoping what inspired it was not someone talking behind your back about you. I can’t abide that under any circumstances and I wouldn’t blame you for being upset about that. No reason for it. If there’s an issue, talk to you. Be honest. That being said, I know with you I will get an honest answer back, even if not the one I necessarily want to hear. Which is fair. And I think you are right — if there is too much of that it’s a sure sign the match may not be right. I’m glad to know you and though we have had a few ups and downs, we have reached a good place and I have nothing but the utmost respect and care for you. 🙂