So we all know that person who says it is not fucking it is making love…..Cue the eye roll here. I get it the making love people I understand, but there are people in this world who just wanna fuck. I am one of them…..if you say I want to make love you I would probably laugh and be instantly less attracted to you.
Fucking is too harsh
Not if you ask me. Yes, I am a lady I shouldn’t say fuck or fucking so much, but the reality is I am who I am, and I like what I like. Fucking is what I like. Passionate hard and satisfying. If you want to caress my body and make love to me, I will get bored. There are some men out there who think no woman wants to fuck they all want to be made love too…those men are wrong.
All women need softness and tenderness
Nope, and I am a shining example of that. I don’t need al the snuggly cuddly stuff most men think women need. When I say I like fucking and I want to get fucked it means just that. Nothing pisses me off more than a guy who wants to debate what it is I need. I am a grown ass women I will tell you what I need and if you don’t give it to me….I will move on.
Romance and all that jazz
I am not cold-hearted of course I like a guy who is considerate. Even though I prefer fucking over making love that does not mean I don’t expect to be satisfied. A selfish lover is just that selfish. I expect to be satisfied and fucked how I need, or the guy will never have another chance. In fact, I might end it in the middle and tell him to leave. Harsh yes but oh well.
Your thoughts
Now, this is where you get to chime in on your thoughts about fucking vs. making love. Remember these are MY thoughts and you should never go by what I say when it comes to your lady. Always give the lady what she wants….and you will always be awesome for her.
I never would have been able to come even remotely close as a man ….I’m so glad i excepted being your denied sissy cuckold in chastity!
I am glad you did too hehehehe
Oh, and i prefer ‘being’ fucked too!
lmao slut
Well I take whatever I want, and baby I want youd
Well with me it more what I can get.:)
And sometimes I even pay for it. I find everything is great it just depends who you are with. Plus some of my most memorable orgasms have been with a pro.
I dunno maybe they just have better technique.
maybe the do spotty hehehehe and you will take what you cant get I know
Hey, I can definitely relate. There is a time for both fucking and “making love.” They can mean totally different things for different people. For instance, my idea of lovemaking involves being fed cheesecake by my lover while I have my feet massaged by my boyfriend. Makes my eyes roll back every time. But seriously though, people, stop giving fucking a bad rap. Sometimes hot and heavy is just where it’s at.
thank you sexy!!!
Two main thoughts. First, it matters less than what you call it than what you do and if the needs of both parties are being satisfied. Second, what Alexis said. Both may be in order depending on the circumstances. Sometimes hard and fast is where it’s at, and sometimes taking more time and doing things all over her body feels great. Just depends. The gender stereotypes are ridiculous; it’s all about what feels good and what doesn’t regardless of gender. Great post and like that you stimulated a discussion.
very well said bfla and yes time place partner all those things come into play
Heh. I had someone say to Me once, before I met My stud, so loooong ago, that fucking was just to get off, and making love is meaningful. I protested, hey, fucking can be VERY meaningful, and full of love and passion! I agree with You, Miss Constance–“making love” has always left Me cold as a term to describe what two people get down to when the mood is right. Kind of milquetoast. But then, I don’t begrudge anyone their preferred terminology, as long as they don’t begrudge Me mine!
I agree it can be very meaningful I am not like an anti make love person just I know what I want and when and how and well I demand it hahahaha
I’m bored.
so get a hobbie LOL
Phone sex is my hobby! Hehe!