We all know what masturbation is and enjoy a bit of self pleasuring, some of us more than others but one thing is for sure, just about everyone masturbates. Don’t bother denying it, I know you do hehehehehe.
Your first time
When was the first time you masturbated, do you remember when and where you did it? What did you think when it was done? For me I was young and found out when I wiggled a certain way on my bike. It felt good so I did it a lot! When I felt that intense rush of pleasure for the first time I thought OMG this is the best why has nobody told me about this sensation before?? I never once felt guilt or shame about it. I figured hey if I am able to make myself feel this good I should do it as often as I can!
How did you progress?
After you first discovered masturbation how did it progress for you? Did you perfect your timing in the shower, or find just the right stroke or rub that sent you trembling? For me I began to experiment different positions, different rubbing techniques until I knew my buttons so well it took no time at all to work myself into a frenzy of orgasmic spasms.
What are your Masturbating Habits?
When you’re horny and worked up for whatever reason what are your masturbating habits? Do you call your favorite phone sex Mistress for an intense session? Do you duck into a private area and just rub one out using your fantasies and imagination to push you over the edge? Are you the type who has to have all your ducks in a row in order to masturbate; have the time set aside, your favorite masturbation aids, you might need things such as lube or toys ready to go, and when everything is just right you then can masturbate? I personally am a spontaneous masturbator. I never know when the mood might hit me and I am always ready to go when it does! Sure, it helps to work from home and be in the type of business that a vibrator in my desk drawer is normal but even before my phone sex days I have always been a spur of the moment type masturbator.
Fascinated by Masturbation
I am not sure if any of you can relate to me on this point and whether you do or don’t please feel free to comment on this post. I have become fascinated by other’s masturbation habits and I suppose that’s what make me a perfect guided masturbation mistress. I truly get into your stroking for me; those noises you make and how every single person masturbates differently even in the most subtle ways. I find myself wondering how this person or that person I have not spoken to yet might sound when masturbating or just what their technique might be. I find mutual masturbation one of the hottest things to experience with a partner either via the phone or my favorite side by side, because not only do I satisfy my curious fascination with my partner’s masturbation technique but I get to pleasure myself as well….a total WIN WIN if you ask me!
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I was late to the masturbation game. I knew what it was, I knew I wanted to do it, but I just couldn’t figure out how! I would lay naked in my bed, reading a sexy story or thinking about something and I kind of just tried to will myself to cum :-p
I would touch myself, but all over, and not nearly enough attention on my cock. I guess I was self conscious about it and I didn’t get that was the key to it.
Until one day in a fit of frustration I started humping the bed in my underwear, and I came! Holy shit, revelation! Unfortunately, dry humping the bed in my underwear was the only way I could do it for a long time, leading to a growing assortment of stiff and stained underwear hidden under the bed.
When the day came that I came home from school and my bed was made, the room straightened, and that dozen pair of underwear were gone… I could have dropped dead. But luckily no one ever brought it up. :-p
I eventually learned to do it the more “traditional” way. I do it dry. Not a fan of lube.
Well NB thank you for sharing all that!!! I think it is cute you didn’t know how I can just imagine a young NB laying on his bed willing himself to cum and rubbing all over his body ADORABLE………….I was like you when I had my first orgasm which by the way are NOTHING compared to my orgasms now I think as you mature so does your orgasms…..but once I found out I was like YES this is the best why has nobody told me we could feel such pleasure…..unlike you I didn’t have to hide panties or was I shy about touching myself nor self conscious……..hmmmm and look at the woman I turned out to be 🙂 I am however glad you were never confronted about it because I feel that would have made you feel worse………………I was caught by my older brother once LOL to this day he has never mentioned a word THANK GOODNESS. My whole fascination with mutual masturbation and masturbation in general is the taboo nature of it something we all do but never discuss in open….something were told is fine but ONLY to be done alone….I like to go against the grain and get excited when I do so masturbating with someone is sooooooooo hot and naughty for me or watching someone masturbate YUMMY!!!! Wow talk about long winded my reply to your reply should earn me 1000 pennies for the penny auction LOL
Hehehe…
Well, when I took some of my mother’s clothes and experimented with cross dressing before I decided that was not for me, she did confront me about that, but only sort of half heartedly, and did not challenege whatever lame excuse I had for having pantyhose and a slip stashed in my closet :-p
It was only a few years ago that my mother was lamenting the loss of the glass stopper from these antique perfume bottles that she had. She was trying to see if she could get one custom made for it. I didn’t say anything but I am pretty sure that I was the one who lost it. That glass top was smooth and bullet shaped. It was the very first thing I lubed up and put in my ass :-p
It was small though, and it wound up getting totally sucked into my rectum! I was lying on my bed trying not to panic, when just as suddenly I spasmed and it came out. Come to think of it, I have no recollection what I did with it, but that scared me enough that I stopped experimenting with my ass as well and just kept on with normal masturbation :-p
wow NB you just keep sharing and sharing!! Amazing how you were experimenting many sexual sides like that when you were younger. I am still giggling about the perfume topper being stuck although at the time I know that you were freaking the fuck out…..now you can have a giggle but then you were in panic mode how the fuck do you explain that. Thanks a bunch for sharing
Well, I suppose I have one more thing to confess…
Ever since I talked to you, I find that I want to masturbate with my mouth open. The wider open it is, the hotter it is.
Mmmmmmmmmmmmm imagine that a conversation on the phone with me has led you to masturbate with your mouth wide open HOT HOT HOT!!!
The first time for me was when I was 14. I had experienced some erections so when I got hard in the bath tub it wasn’t a surprise. I rubbed it and liked it so I rubbed it some more and suddenly it felt super fantastic and started spurting catching me completely off guard. No one had ever told me about ejaculation. I knew about sex, in that the penis went into the vagina, but I had no idea what that sticky creamy stuff was. I asked some kids at school and they looked at me like I was a total idiot. I sure felt like one. I finally learned what it was and I was a masurbating fool after that. Of course now, I enjoy doing it on the phone with you, Empress Constance. That’s what brings me the most pleasure, talking to you and hearing you egg me on just to say that magic word, No!!!!!
Thank you for sharing gummy………I am getting a kick out of the young masturbating stories and yours is no exception!! I bet you were amazed at the feeling I know I was and a bit fearful you didnt break anything with all the white goo coming out! I adore masturbating fools so glad your part of the masturbation club!! I also enjoy saying NO did you ever dream when youw ere younger youw ould want someone to stop you from feeling that? heheheheh glad you do! Thanks for sharing
I would never engage in such disgusting behavior…….after all every sperm is ‘sacrED’. Darn! The hair on my palms keeps causing me to make ‘A1l thise’ “type O’s”………..Wonder where a1l this ‘haoir’ came ‘form’? LOL
lmao cuck your too funny all that hair is from all that masturbating!! I bet you wear glasses too LOL ya know you masturbate too much your gonna go blind and grow hair on your palms LOL thanks for the comment funny man
In the words of Andrew “Dice” Clay,”I thought my dick broke”.
Ohhhhhhhhhhhh no your dick broke!! Let me help to make it alllllll better hehehehehe “evil grin”
While cute,that pseudoseductive voice won’t work,Connie.Sorry
It wont work? Well awwww shit back to my plans I have to find something that works dang it!
Hey watch it or that won’t be soap I’ll be washing your mouth out with.
Mmmmmmmmmmm dont threaten me with a hot load or ummm a good time hehehehehe
I know I know I am a dirty girl!
Thanx for letting me know the load was so big,you couldn’t finish it in one response.
It’s encouraging!
That’s right oc I can melt all your worries and issues away with a friendly smile and a fantastic phone sex session 🙂
I discovered masturbation purely by accident. I was 12 I think and I was watching tv and I started to rub myself and the feeling was getting
better and better. I couldn’t believe the feeling I was having. Then I thought I was peeing on myself when I came but it wasn’t urine at all. I started masturbating almost everyday. It wasn’t about women and magazines at that time it was just the great feeling that I had discovered. I havn’t look back since.
Thank you for sharing kurt! LOL about haven’t looked back since I hear ya on that one. Interesting how you start out just rubbing without any sexual aids but it I am sure has progressed I mean can you just sit back and rub now without any thoughts of sex or women or kinks? Or can you only get off masturbating with those thoughts or images? Just wondering 🙂 thanks for sharing!
I’m three months late to this party, but what the hell.
I don’t remember when the first time I masturbated was. I do remember my first arousal that I knew was a sexual arousal. I was in one of those eclectic art stores in Berkeley during the 5th grade. There was a greeting card with a woman lying facedown on a bed. Black and white photo, very artistic, pretty panties exposed. When I opened the card, the inside was identical pose but panties had been pulled down halfway exposing her ass cheeks. My dick got hard, and I knew it was a sexual response. Being quite embarrased, I put the card back and quickly left the store. I don’t know if I masturbated that day or not, but soon after I certainly was.
My masturbation technique is not typical, the way I usually masturbates is with my clothes on, lying on the floor or bed. I only have heard of one other person masturbating this way, on the HBO series Cathouse. Very rarely have I successfully jerked off the “typical way”. This is something I am currently working on, but old habits die hard. Stroking is clearly a better technique, but I fail at coming to orgasm more often than I succeed. It seems I can only come to orgasm by stroking if I have visual and/or audio stimula, imagination alone is not good enough like it usually is when I’m lying down. But when I do cum, it is a much better experience.
Interestingly, like the person Brooke Taylor referenced as masturbating that way on Cathouse, I am a virgin. Well, I have given and received oral sex, but I’ve never been inside a woman.
I still primarily masturbate via the flawed laying down method, sans lubricant. When I do masturbate standing up, I use lube, and while a bit messy, I have found the best lube is “Big Kids Watermelon Splash” shampoo. The scent of watermelon is actually pleasing, and IMHO it lubricates better than products like KY Warming Liquid.
I currently do not involve a mistress, though I think I need to. I masturbate too much. I think masturbation is healthy, but when I go through periods of several times a day (like right now), my productivity goes to hell. I can’t control myself, so I think I need to give up control and try having someone else control that aspect of my life, though I suspect it will be difficult at first.
late or not welcome to the discussion!! Interesting your first memory of arousal was over a greeting card…I think our earliest arousal comes from some of the most unexpected places. I am with you about needing some sort of stimulation for masturbating I very rarely can masturbate with imagination alone I always have some sort of outside stimulation at play visual or otherwise. I am not sure the shampoo is a great idea if it gets into your penis wont it sting? I prefer baby oil on my lubed up boys for the most part. As for your last statement I think it is time you turn over control of your masturbating habits to someone….when your masturbating so much it effects your daily routine and your productivity it needs to be controlled. Best of luck and hey thanks for sharing so much I look forward to you sharing more with us
Great post! My first time I masturbated was when I was younger. I wiggled my cock, and it felt good to experience an orgasm, though it was dry. My first ejaculation was when I was a little older. It was when I was about 22 that I became interested in female domination, and I would be into spanking, whips, and paddles. Then, I “switched gears” as I would enjoy masturbating in the presence of a dominant woman. I would several times a year visit a professional dominatrix, and I learned a lot from her. Since those times, I have sought out friends, who are into this lifestyle, and I masturbate under instructions from several of the dominant women in my life. Several mistresses and several sub males get together for our sessions 2 or 3 times a month. I also enjoy watching the women masturbate. Then, I also enjoy watching the other men stroke the penises, only to be denied of having their orgasms. Last, when I am allowed to masturbate, I use a large assortment of masturbation techniques; however, I am into guided masturbation, edging, and orgasm denial.
*note this comment had to be edited to take out anything that is not appropriate for my blog*
Thank you for sharing your story of cock control and guided masturbation I think it is so hot that there are others out in the world who enjoy this type thing and really love having a woman in control!!!