Here we are the last Ask Mistress post of the year and I am blown away that what started as a “lets see how it does” weekly post has been going strong for nearly 2 years! Thank you to everyone who has sent in questions and please keep them coming if you want this blog post to continue…to submit your question use the Ask Ms Constance Tab right here on my blog.

Dear Mistress:
My wife is encouraging me to begin exploring my homosexual side but I don’t know how to start. Do you have any advice?

Wow, so your wife just said one day, “Hey honey, go explore your homosexual side?” Well I would say start with gay porn and gay erotic stories and perhaps explore it during a phone sex call. Once you have started to get super horny and turned on by what you’re seeing/hearing/reading then start thinking about being with an actual guy.

Dear Mistress:
Do you like to only dominate men, or are you an “Equal Opportunity Dom?” By that I mean, have you ever had a female sub either via phone or in person, and treat them the way you do male subs, such as spanking them, keeping them in chastity, tease and denial, etc.?

Well, in most things in life I am an equal opportunity type person with that said, I have had submissive women in a play scene, but I am not their Mistress. I have had a few submissive women call me, but they are few and far between.

 Dear Mistress:
My wife’s usual saturday night routine is to head out to a club and find some hot, young guy to have sex with. Later that night we’d make love while she tells me how it went. Recently I accidentally found out that my wife spends these night out with her girlfriends instead of cuckolding me. Do you think I should tell her I know or just let her continue lying and tell me when she feels ready? I have no idea why she’d do something like this. It just seems strange.

Because she probably doesn’t like the idea of sleeping with other men and it is more your thing than hers. First of all, kiss her ass for playing along all this time to give you what it is you need. Second, let her continue doing what she is doing. If you call her out on it, she would be upset and from the sounds of your wife she is amazing, so treat her as such.

Dear Mistress:
I did not “get” chastity ideas for a long time. Still do not. Then I thought to ask – is “chastity” essentially where you really (really really) want a girl and she just does not allow it or just keeps you in the friend zone. Sometimes girls sort of treat you like a “girl” and you have to accept that sort of position or go away. I think it is a kind of chastity? Do you consider that chastity if a girl does that to a guy?

Anything that denies a man the ability to have sex or experience sexual pleasure, such as masturbating, can be considered a type of chastity, so yes I do think it is.

Dear Mistress:
How do you feel about 2 Mistress calls? What kinds of different things have you done, or might you do, with an extra Mistress or two on a call as opposed to to flying solo? Do you think it’s more submissive or sluttier of a subbie to expose himself to multiple witnesses? What other Mistresses do you particularly enjoy working with? And, what’s the kinkiest thing you’ve put a subbie through on a 2 Mistress call?

Yes, I love a two Mistress call…..yes, I think it makes the submissive more submissive because now he is performing for his Mistress in front of her peers. Yes, it enhances a session because you can put them through the paces and get a natural reaction from the other lady. I have done many things with other Mistresses from spanking to cum eating to total humiliation.

Chère maîtresse:
Bonjour Maitresse, je suis une sissy et j aimerais que vous m eduquiez Merci Maitresse

Translation for all of us who do not speak French …Hello Mistress, I am a sissy and I would like you to educate Thank Mistress

My answer in French ….. J’aime les filles de sissy et aimerais aider à vous entraîner pour être plus sissy pendant une session…translation to English …. I love sissy gurls and would love to help train you to be more sissy during a session.

 Dear Mistress:
I have nonstop fantasies of having a woman “measure” me and tell me I am tiny and under endowed and then she tells me to do chores and errands for her as payment for her allowing me to be near her at all. I am in fact somewhat smallish there. Is this a common fantasy/reality?

I would say in my world it is more common than is most people’s worlds and yes, I think it is something small endowed men have many fantasies about, so don’t worry you are just a small penis holder with kinky desires and we dig you.