We are here in this kinky land and it includes many parts of domination and submission and for each Mistress and each slave/pet/caller/slut/whore/whatever you want to call it, the dynamic is unique and different. I want to explain to those of you who may not know what I think my role is and just touch on it.
Domination means caring
Yes, I know in some worlds, the Mistress or dominant is painted out to be someone who does not care about their submissive pets. I happen to think it is exactly the opposite of that image because I care for my submissive pets greatly. Having someone belong to me comes with responsibility on my part and I take them very seriously. Yes I am silly and love to joke around, but bottom line, if you belong to me, I will be there to the best of my ability without fail.
How does it happen
Well, I will be blunt. It does not happen after our first call or first mail. To decide that I will be your Mistress and own you is a huge thing for me and one I don’t just do willy nilly. I consider the submissive man’s needs and my needs and after talking and interacting, if we naturally form a bond that makes me owning the submissive slave the next step, then that’s when you officially become mine.
Domination takes communication
Yes, you have to communicate to your Mistress just as she needs to communicate with you. Then I will do what I want when I want with no regard to a submissive man’s needs is not in my wheel house of thinking. I prefer to get to know them, play with them, figure out what makes them tick and the only way to do that is through good Dom/Sub communication. I can not get inside your head and work you over if you are closed off and you can not understand the best ways to please me if I am not clear in what I like and enjoy.
So how can you be my submissive
Reach out to me in whatever way you feel comfortable. Mailing me or calling is your best options. Learn about me. There is tons of information right here on my blog about what I like, what I don’t like and more important a better sense of the type of Dominant Mistress I am. You will find me open, friendly, fun and caring: all traits I enjoy having and will not change because it may not fit the basic mold of a “Mistress”. If you are intrigued and want to know more, just ask.
Not many submissives are fortunate enough to find their rightful place, nor lucky enough to serve a TRUE Goddess like yourself…..I count myself among the TRULY BLESSED to belong to you! Any prospective subbie should thank their luck stars for any chance to serve and be owned by you 🙂
i also am SO happy to be Yours! Being totally honest and open along with the great communication we have has certainly enriched my life as You help me explore this kinky, submissive side of me. You certainly know what makes me tick and what paths to take me on. i am fortunate to have found such a wonderful, caring Mistress!
Like you said, each relationship is different, and what being yours is differs from person to person as well. What I find special about you is that you truly do care about each person and each relationship, and put in so much time and energy getting to know and understand me so that you can be the Mistress I want and need. That kind of devotion is special and I am glad I found you to explore with. It makes it so easy to want to be yours.
aww thanks for the comment and wonderful words and it is true I take the time to get to know those who call so I can be the best I can be
Good morning mistress. I’m curious, we’ve had a relationship for awhile now. Just wondering if I’m owned by you? It is my honor to be if I am. What do you think? If not what do I need to do to be owned by you? Have a wonderful day.
Goddess Constance:
Have known you for a short while now and have realized that what you have said hits the nail on the head as far as your caring and obligation regarding your dealings with pet ownership as well as your awesomeness towards self professed sissy girls like myself. I love being as femme as possible and as we have spoken you have come to know, through our communication, just what makes me tick. Your caring and loving demeaner has been noticed and appreciated and I would like to say, “Thank You”, for what and all you do for me. May, The Lord, bless you for the love that you show and provide to others.
By the way my progress toward my YCCC is doing well this week. I will report back after the weekend.
Sissy Cocksucker,
Jizzelle
XOXOXO
This is Perfection to me. This is pretty much taking the perspective I have been trying to articulate and finally seeing it in words. I hope one day I can write something as nearly moving and touching as what it is to be a sub or maybe if I am lucky have you learn about me so well I could hire you to do it LOL. This touches me and moves me in a way I can’t explain and make me adore you even more. You continue to amaze me as a person, as a professional and OF course as MISTRESS. This solidifies the fact that you are a true Goddess.
Thank you for putting your thoughts and heart into such beautiful words. I bow to you Mistress Constance!
Everything you said is true true true true TRUEEEEEEEE!
I love how well you take care of me. I love the way you work me over too..hehehe
I love tour ownership of me and i think that is why i keep trying to please you. Happy owner Happy pet!!
Yes, yes all day long I’m yours 🙂 and I love the person you are. No labels required;)