One thing I have always enjoyed abut my work is allowing my clients to be free. Free with who they are and their kinks. Cross dressers are a group of clients I truly cherish. One thing most every cross dresser faces is purging, I want to help with that so you keep all your pretty things.
Why I adore cross dressers
It is simple really cross dressers are sweet and have such a pull towards being in feminine clothing. They typically have had the desire to explore a more feminine side for a very long time. They crave acceptance and the ability to explore that side, and as a result are oh so grateful for a woman like me.
Safe place for feminine clothing
My first bit of advice for all cross dressers is before they go shopping for many things find a safe place for you to keep them. For instance a small storage unit, or a far away spot in the attic. Some place you can put them and they wont be found yet you can still get to when the urge to cross dress hits.
No more purging
By having a safe secure place for your feminine clothing you can easily take a break from dressing in femme. You really do not need to go to the length of throwing it all out. The need to purge is often started with feeling guilty or thinking you can stop dressing in women’s clothing. Trust me when I say I have yet to meet a cross dresser who has quit. I have met many who have purged and regretted it only to come back to it again in time and wishing they had all those lovely things they once owned.
Ask for help
If you feel yourself on the verge of purging reach out to me. Ask my advice and tell me how you are thinking. Perhaps I can or your Mistress can help guide you. We are all after the same thing your acceptance and happiness of who you are. I know I have talked many a crossdressing man off the edge of purging. I am happy to help you as well
Podcast: Play in new window | Download
Purge … smurge! I’m keeping my panties lol 🙂
*That’s* the spirit, cuckie! *giggle*
heheheh good boy or umm gurl princess
You’ve hit on the exact crux of the problem with purging, Miss Constance: It doesn’t stop the urges in most cases. I totally get that crossdressers and sissies who purge are sincere with themselves in the moment when they resolve to get rid of all their pretty things, and that they really do believe they can throw away their desires with the items in question. I just wish more of them believed Us when We tell them it doesn’t work that way.
so very very true and of course we both know this because we have seen it and been there done that so all we can do is share our wisdom
I don’t nor won’t purge.., I’ve bought 4 pair of women’s slacks and they fit & feel better then my guy slacks. I also bought another 3 pair of ankle boots as well. Just the look & style is so much better then the guys style. Along with that I’ve bought Japanese cherry blossom lotions/shower & bath along with mist which my massuse got me hooked on. It smells great and feminine which keeps my skin soft and girlish, I told my massuse that I like wearing women’s clothes and she was so supportive. I said I want to be myself and not worry about what others think & say. She had me repeat that over and over again. I bought her bottle of champagne and bath tub Stan and she loved it. She gave me hug & lipstick kisses on my cheeks. I also got invite to come over to her place for thanksgiving. The only negative is she’s married with 3 small humans. After this happening I’m her cream puff and she has her nails dug into me with no intention of letting me go. It’s amazing how much power women have over guys and she has it over me.
good hope you never do
One of the great things about you, Ms. Constance, is your accepting nature – you certainly speak your mind, but all of your clients know that they can truly be themselves with you! And they adore you for it! I completely agree about purging – one assignment I give to my crossdressers is to get dressed up in their favorite outfit…take a few pictures…and then write a letter to themselves about how they feel (how beautiful they are, how sexy, how much good it feels to get dressed up), and then tuck that letter away in a safe place. If they ever feel like purging, they can pull out that letter and pictures and be reminded of how much joy crossdressing brings them!
aww thanks sexy and wow what a great idea you have your girls do!!!
Ms. Constance, I thing stopping the purging/buying cycle is important. It must be very frustrating after a purge to be looking for a particular item of clothing , but realize it was thrown out. Finding a safe place is imperative to protect the clothes from being thrown out because of guilt.