So I have been a chastity Mistress for some time now…and I have been told by many chastity pets what it means to them to be locked. I took it one step further and asked on social media What does chastity mean to you? Here are some of the answers I got along with things that have been shared with me in the past.
What chastity means to ME
First let me start out with what I think and feel about chastity. I LOVE IT but more than just loving it I get a huge thrill from locking up a cock. I love the ultimate control I have over not just that cock but your sex life. I love how it changes a mans way of thinking. I love how submissive a man gets when locked in chastity. So in short I love the power I have when I an a chastity slaves key holder.
What chastity means to the submissive
Chastity makes me feel owned and controlled at all times
Chastity makes me feel submissive and willing to do anything
Chastity makes me feel feminine and takes away any male ego I have
Chastity makes me feel proud
Chastity makes me feel like a better man
Chastity makes me feel the satisfaction of my wife
Chastity makes me feel frightened
Chastity makes me feel like the perfect lover
Chastity makes me feel limp for like and better focus on my submission
Chastity makes me feel more feminine like I have a clit
How you change when locked
Over the years I have locked up a bunch of dicks and not everyone is the same but most everyone with the exception of like a couple felt more submissive. More focused on me and their partners. On occasion chastity has made those who are typically very manly more feminine. The longer that cock is locked the deeper you will go…whether it is deeper into submission and pleasing…or deeper into feminization and your desire to be more girlie. NOTE: NOT everyone locked in chastity wants to be feminine in fact most love the loss of control and the helpless feeling of not having access to their cock one gets when locked up.
Chime in
Now it is your chance to chime in and share what chastity makes you feel. I love not just the physical act of chastity but the over all mental reactions to chastity and I find it fascinating so feel free to share here on my blog in comments or via email Constance@enchantrixempire.com
Podcast: Play in new window | Download
Such a delightful topic and one dear to my heart! I have been in chastity on and off…for longer and longer periods for a few years now. Most recently i have been locked 24/7 for over a year and a half! I have been cuckolded while locked, I’ve been in panties while locked, i have embraced my femnine side and becoame a full sissy while locked, i have endured CBT and discipline While locked.
Chastity has made me realize my place. Chastity has helped me to be a better slave, a much MUCH more submissive one, it has helped me let go of my male ego (hard to be manly with a limp shrinking noodle in a chastity cage and panties). Mostly…It has helped me understand the need to focus 100% of my energy and attention of serving obeying and pleasing Mistress…This is how i was born to live ‘Limp 4 Life”
What started as a dare years ago and has helped
Me find the real me pleasing and respecting the women in my
Life as I head on my journey feminazation
Has become my reality
#Limp4Life
I love the feeling of frustration it makes me horny so I want to please my master and mistress.
Chastity keeps me focused, but only on the obvious and on on what it will take to get out. It lets me know, every time I think of the cage, that my mistress, my keyholder is also thinking of me. I know that doesn’t have to be the case, but it makes me think she is.
Mistress Constance,
What an insightful post, and great additions from your social media fans and chastity pets. I think chastity either for sexual play or to change a man’s way of being, as you said is a must do for every man. There’s something that happens in their brains when their biological directive is thwarted and there’s nothing they can do. Wondering how to be a better man? Better Sissy? Better anything!? Push your mind and your body “that much further” and try chastity with a trusted partner!
My favorite is the one about how it takes away the male ego – that thing can be so pesky! But the moment the cocklock clicks, the façade slips and you meet the delightful submissive lying just under the surface. Yes indeed, as you said, chastity: it does a body good!