Yesterday I posted part 1 of my chastity interview with Ms. Olivia and here is the second part. Check back tomorrow for part 3…..and enjoy her very well thought out answers!
6. Do you plan a lockdown with a definite term in mind or do you prefer to “play it by ear”?
That’s another great question! Once again, I choose ‘other’ in the multiple choices! ~laughs~ I have a general idea of a length of time he will be in chastity … BUT that can and will change depending on various things. This is different from simply playing by ear. As an experienced Mistress when I have cock control I take that very seriously. I have ultimate control of his cock that means I might give him a cock locked schedule but there will be requirements he needs to fulfill to get out of chastity. If he is unable to fulfill his cock training then he gets punishments or more assignments. He’ll remain in chastity and his chastity release date will change. ~smiles~ The chastity relationship is dynamic and evolves over time. I always have a timeline but like most of my sessions, I am flexible about how I exercise that cock control.
7. This is hot and I want to be locked up, but I’ve never tried chastity before. What do I need to do to make it happen?
The fastest way to begin a chastity training experience with any chastity Mistress is to simply call 1-800-601-6975 and ask for the Mistress. He can also send an email to: olivia AT experiencedmistress.com.
8. What happens if I change my mind once you’ve locked me up?
Ahhhhhhhh, isn’t that such a FUN question! A chastity experience is unique and challenging. It’s not fun if it isn’t challenging but we all know that some challenges aren’t erotic fun. It’s very common to change your mind once you’re cock locked. As an experienced Mistress I personally LOVE to hear him plead with me to let him out. This is part of the experience. Like with any BDsm or kink play, I will often use safe words with a chastity pet. Safe words mean that he has a get out of chastity card. He can safe word out for any reason. This is very different from simply being horny and wanting out of chastity. If he changes his mind about chastity once he’s locked up he might not be a true chastity pet, he might be a brat or many other reasons. Some reasons are legitimate and we stop, regroup and then begin again. If I feel the reason is not a legitimate then there will be consequences.
9. What changes can I expect in my life if you lock me into a chastity device?
Okay, how long do I have to write this answer? Expect many changes in your life when locked in chastity. From the first click of the lock, emotions start to swirl. Even if he has just had an orgasm there’s something about being placed in chastity that triggers huge sexual need and arousal but of course he’s in his cock cage and can’t stroke. Physical changes like the near constant feel of the cock pressing on the inside of the chastity device, swollen aching balls and more will happen immediately. Emotional changes begin as well. Often he will feel more submissive and more dependent on his chastity Mistress. As his chastity continues some chastity pets experience a sense of freedom from obsessive masturbation and clarity of thought. His chastity Mistress is able to focus that pent up energy elsewhere and he can get stuff done! Emotionally, chastity is a roller coaster! The amount of time in chastity is not necessarily the key thing about a chaste relationship. The emotional, mental, physical and sexual changes are at the core of a chastity experience. Expect to feel EVERYTHING with a tingling erotic intensity.
10. How would you deal with a pet who has removed the chastity device without your permission?
It depends on why he removed it. Chastity cage removal is a big fucking deal. I don’t automatically jump to conclusions. We have a conversation. I ask why he removed the chastity cage use my judgment as an experienced Mistress. When I design a chastity program I take into account job, travel, lifestyle, partner/marriage, etc. I’ve had someone in a chastity program where he couldn’t wear the chastity cage all the time because he was married — he used penis desensitizing cream when he couldn’t be in a cock cage. Having sex with his wife was not considered a break in his chastity. He had orgasms with his wife but stayed a chastity pet for his Mistress.
I had another chastity pet who simply took off the cage. He didn’t obey instructions from the get go and when he removed the chastity device for no good reason I decided he wasn’t a candidate for chastity and would no longer wear a chastity cage for me.
Look for the next and final part of this chastity interview with Ms Olivia tomorrow
She definitely has this down. I really enjoyed reading about her flexibility and consideration, and especially the answers to questions 9 and 10 about changes to expect and what happens when someone takes off the device. Fascinating.
yes she is flexible in many ways including chastity hehehehe
I loved Ms. Olivia’s answers to your questions! She is a gifted Mistress and a cool person. Any slave of hers is a lucky subbie indeed…in or out of chastity…..But give me the roller coaster of being locked!
I did too cuckie and I am glad you love this ride cause so do I
Empress Constance i do wish you would lock me up, and you have the key and make me earn the points needed to be released back out……. freaking yummy
mmmm suzy q all that’s let to it is to DO IT bring it on hehehehehe