I love the topic of Chastity and I have been enjoying doing these interviews with the other Mistresses of LDW here is one from the one and only Ms Molly from out live help desk…..enjoy
1. As a Chastity Mistress, what do you enjoy the most about denying a man or locking them into a chastity device?
Will I sound like a meanie if I say the begging and pleading for release? Haha! While that part can be entertaining, it’s very cool seeing the guys that say they can’t do it actually go 3, 4, 5 days locked up, and those days turn into weeks. Chastity builds character!
2. What do you expect out of your chastity pets once you have them locked up?
Chastity requires a mutual agreement (even if it’s just my pet agreeing to let me be in charge of his cock), so I don’t want to hear any whining about how I’m “making” you do anything. If I hear the words “making you” come out of their mouths…well…I might feel as though they need more time in chastity to reflect on their masturbation habits, or whatever other reasons we’ve decided that chastity was the right course of action.
3. In your opinion, what is the most important thing that a chastity pet gets out of the relationship?
I think it depends on the pet and why he’s being locked into chastity, but I hope he learns to fully enjoy and appreciate all of the little sensory things he may have taken for granted.
4. What qualities do you look for in a chastity pet?
My chastity pets should have the same qualities I’d look for in a friend or playmate. They should be fun to talk to, make me laugh, be interesting in some way, intelligence is always a huge plus, and being easy on the eyes doesn’t hurt. (I do like visual checks, if the pet has a cam, so being fun, sexy, or otherwise entertaining to look at is great!) The Mistress/pet relationship isn’t unlike any other, so we should genuinely like and enjoy one another.
5. Do you prefer short lockups or long term?
Once again, I think it depends on the situation. I’ve never been one to really go for short lockups–I think medium to long term chastity is usually best. I’m very fair, and let guys plead their case for their length of sentence…that doesn’t mean I’ll let you have your way, but it doesn’t hurt to try!
6. Do you plan a lockdown with a definite term in mind or do you prefer to “play it by ear”?
There have been many times I’ve started with a definite term in mind, but only one that comes to mind where the term concluded on the exact date decided at the beginning. Pets can slip up, progress might be slower than I anticipated, or I might just change my mind!
7. This is hot and I want to be locked up, but I’ve never tried chastity before. What do I need to do to make it happen?
I only take calls by appointment, but let’s communicate and see if I’m the right Mistress for you! Drop me a line at molly@enchantrixempire.com. Introduce yourself; tell me why you think I’d be the right chastity Mistress for you, why you think you need chastity at this time, and a little bit about your past experiences with it. Easy peasy! Even if I can’t help you, I can find someone who can. 🙂
8. What happens if I change my mind once you’ve locked me up?
Sorry, there’s no turning back!
9. How would you deal with a pet who has removed the chastity device without your permission?
Let’s just assume this will never, ever happen.
10. Of all the pets that you’ve put into chastity devices, approximately what percentage will slip or otherwise not complete their term?
This is difficult to quantify, since the ones that don’t complete their term usually come crawling back at some point, begging to be locked away again!
11. Since you don’t hold the actual keys to the device, how can you be sure that your chastity pet isn’t cheating?
If a pet really feels that he needs to be held accountable, numbered locks are one of my favorite ways to ensure compliance–they are cheap, safe, and easy to find at most adult shops. I have a few other fun methods that I was taught by LDW’s famous former chastity expert, Ms. Trish, and I use them mostly for fun. 🙂
12. How would you answer a prospective chastity pet who says, “I want to be locked up and never cum again”?
Suuuuure!
13. Being locked in chastity is difficult. How do you as the Mistress provide guidance and maintain your pets to keep them on the path?
I consider myself a fair and understanding Mistress. I don’t want my pets to be afraid to communicate with me. If something’s difficult, tell me! That doesn’t mean I won’t make fun of you or tell you to just deal with it, but I value open communication. To keep you on the path, I might send you to some of my Mistress friends that specialize in chastity or other areas of expertise (think of it as sending you to counseling), as well as give you assignments to keep your tormented little mind busy.
14. What are some of the day to day difficulties that I’ll experience if you lock me up?
Most men aren’t prepared for the whirlwind of emotions they’ll experience as they’re deprived of the opportunity to cum. It’s similar to depriving a sugar addict of their candy fix, or a smoker of their cigarettes–but possibly worse. Frustration, trouble concentrating, sadness, and even anger are emotions I’ve seen. I’ve even had some stroker boys call me crying, because they were so horny and their balls literally ached after being accidentally teased by the women in their office all day.
15. In your experience, what signs do you look for that would indicate that a locked pet might be having trouble?
I would look for those day to day difficulties that I mentioned above. 🙂
To see more of Ms Molly check out her blog https://cockteaseprincess.com
Very interesting. As with everyone else it’s cool to see she values communication. I liked the fact that she recognized her style may not be for everyone and stressed the importance of talking — and even said she would help find someone who would be right. For a petite, sweet-looking package, she can be pretty tough, on the one hand saying she values communication and wants people to talk to her about difficulties, but that doesn’t mean she won’t make fun or tell you to deal with it. So, very well thought out, maybe not for everyone but she has a definite style that I can see would appeal to many. And I like that she understands most guys may not be ready for all the emotions that go with it. Good stuff, Constance. Thanks again.
bfla: Communication does seem to be an important theme throughout the interviews. Submissives (and, to be fair, sometimes we Mistresses…in very rare instances! LOL!) assume the other person has uber psychic abilities and just magically know what they’re thinking and feeling. If only we had such powers. 🙂 For me, the more a person is willing to share about themselves, the better. I love to hear all about what’s going on in those horny little brains.
As far as being tough, I think I’m quite fair and really, really nice! However, I’m pretty frank and have zero tolerance for BS. Although I don’t play nice with everyone in a femdom/fetish sense, I’m always able to share a laugh, drink, or lip gloss with most people I meet. 🙂
– Molly
no bs with molly
I am so glad you find them interesting and enjoy them and I love how she looks so sweet yet can pack a mean mistress punch hehehehe
Ahh Ms Molly as always puts her touch on it
And as always hometown mistress an amazing job
John, you know I have grabby hands! I can’t stop myself from touching! *Grabs Constance’s butt as I type that…* I swear you popped into my head at one point during the interview and as I was reading a couple of the others. Chastity is an old hat for you, my friend. 😉 Anyway, I’ll TTYL…I have a list to send your way anyhow. Thanks for hitting up the interview with a comment!
Hugs,
Your Molly Girl <3
good golly ms molly she knows how to deny and lock up cocks hehehe thanks hometownhomie
Molly is my favorite! Our style is similar so I love she put it so clearly. Molly rocks!
I can’t disagree with you Ms Molly does rock
But the same is true for you Ms Cassidy
Gotta love both your styles
I love them all hometownhomie
no Cassidy molly is MY favorite and I am hers so back off
Oh Molly, I wasn’t referring to anything about your personality, just being tough in chastity. I hope you didn’t take it any other way. As you know we have talked a few times and I find you to be quite nice. And we agree, communication is vital in all things BDSM. Thanks for your detailed and thoughtful response.
Great interview ! She Sounds like another fantastic keyholders! I so pleased soooo many woman are locking up more and more of us subbies!!!
mike thank y ou and she is a fantastic key holder and yay for more cock locking
Ms Constance, I’m really enjoying these interviews! And Ms Molly and Ms Cassidy, does your experience at the Help Desk give you the edge in “helping” the chastity pets to stay locked up longer? hehehe
thank you jem jem 🙂