This is another in my series of Chastity Interviews with my fellow Mistresses, the goal here is to give everyone considering being locked in chastity the opportunity to see other ladies styles and thoughts when it comes to chastity.
1. As a Chastity Mistress, what do you enjoy the most about denying a man or locking them into a chastity device?
If submission through chastity is the road you have chosen, then I will go the extra mile with you and intuit things you didn’t even know about yourself, taking you into a level of submission that you could not have imagined. But remember this deep connection with me can only happen if you are honoring your chastity and vows to me and making me feel that it’s worthwhile to put in the extra effort.
2. What do you expect out of your chastity pets once you have them locked up in chastity?
Surrender and communication. I can only agree to supervise chastity as long as I know what’s going on with my callers physically as well as emotionally.
3. In your opinion, what is the most important thing that a chastity pet gets out of the relationship?
To be cared for by a capable and dominant Mistress; it’s the kind of power transfer that cannot be duplicated by anything else.
4. What qualities do you look for in a chastity pet?
Respectfulness and obedience. Once it’s been established that my chastity pet seeks to please me I’ll be able to do my job and explore ways in which I will uncover all of their deepest desires.
5. Do you prefer short lockups or long term chastity?
I enjoy both. Some of my callers can only lock up for short periods of time each week because of their work and sports schedule but they stay in long term chastity with me over the course of months and for some, years ?
It depends on the situation.
7. This is hot and I want to be locked up, but I’ve never tried chastity before. What do I need to do to make it happen?
It is hot! I would recommend finding a chastity device that fits snugly – one common mistake is to purchase one that is too loose. But first, I would suggest calling me for instruction as I will be able to guide you to a device that all best serve your needs.
8. What happens if I change my mind once you’ve locked me up?
There is a world of other topics we can discuss and I am happy to do so, but if you change your mind after agreeing to your chastity, then you are not ready or deserving of being locked up.
9. What changes can I expect in my life if you lock me into a chastity device?
You will be surrendering power and control to a dominant Mistress. It is the ultimate aphrodisiac. You will experience some discomfort to be sure, but also a sense of fulfillment like no other.
10. How would you deal with a pet who has removed the chastity device without your permission?
I would release them from chastity training. They are not ready for it, it is not for them.
11. Of all the pets that you’ve put into chastity devices, approximately what percentage will slip or otherwise not complete their term?
I have had 100% success, which I believe comes from thoroughly understanding the needs of my chastity pets and discussing at length their real needs. Not everyone is cut out to be a full time chastity pet, some must pursue chastity when they can. As long as we are on a consistent agreed upon schedule this works for me.
12. Since you don’t hold the actual keys to the device, how can you be sure that your chastity pet isn’t cheating?
My chastity pets know that it’s better to be honest with me, otherwise they are the ones who are missing out on the pleasure of being trained. I set reasonable goals with all my chastity pets and know their limitations before pushing any envelopes.
13. How would you answer a prospective chastity pet who says, “I want to be locked up and never cum again”?
Be careful what you wish for!
14. Being locked in chastity is difficult. How do you as the Mistress provide guidance and maintain your pets to keep them on the path?
I set up a schedule for them. We go over it and discuss the goals and do not go forward until we are in complete agreement.
15. What are some of the day to day difficulties that I’ll experience if you lock me up?
You must be in a position to wear chastity all day long if that’s what you truly seek. If you have a job that prevents this, we will have to schedule time in the evening for you to wear it, and of course, wearing it to bed will be an important consideration if you are single.
16. In your experience, what signs do you look for that would indicate that a locked pet might be having trouble?
The kind of communication that I set up with my chastity pets is such that they would email me if they are really having trouble and we would find a way to solve any issues via email and through subsequent discussion via phone or text.
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Another wonderful and informative interview. Makes me more and anxious to be Your chastity pet.
aww pet don’t worry you are in the best hands ever with me
Yes totally agree with Bumkin. Another great interview. Now that you have done three, I do see certain themes start to emerge, and it’s fascinating. It’s clear that Audrey, like the other two mistresses you interviewed, takes chastity very seriously and is willing to put a great deal of time into it to make it a great experience. And, like the other mistresses, and rightfully, so, she expects the same level of effort and time on the part of the chastity pet. I love the themes of honesty, communication, and lots of pre-chastity discussion to make sure everyone is in agreement and understands what is required. It’s interesting the different answers about what happens if someone changes their mind. She sounds great to do it with. Thanks again for doing this.
you are welcome I am glad you enjoyed it and yes there are common threads in these and it is super important to communicate before doing something this serious
Thanks for another interesting interview! Chastity when done right….with the right Mistress and sub, is an amazing thing. Love how she said….”I will go the extra mile with you and intuit things you didn’t even know about yourself, taking you into a level of submission that you could not have imagined.” So true 🙂
thanks for reading I loved her thoughts about chastity too 🙂