Blue Balls are a real thing and if you look it up online it is described as excruciating pain a man feels when his balls are swollen from not cumming either by choice or in the way of someone like me a cock tease. Lets discuss blue balls today and see where everyone weighs in on the topic.
Blue Balls by choice
How many of you guys look to have that aching feeling of blue balls by choice? I know many of my tease and denial callers WANT me to leave them aching throbbing and with full swollen blue balls. I wont lie and say I do it for them, because I have to be honest I love giving a man blue balls, the grunts the groans and oh those moans of orgasm denial just makes me excited!
Blue balls by accident
How many of you have been with a man/woman and ended up with a case of blue balls by accident? Either someone walked in and interrupted you or the person you were with just suddenly stopped. Do you think it truly was on accident or do you think they knew they were leaving you with full achy balls?
Do blue balls really hurt that bad
So as per urban dictionary it describes them as excruciating pain. Would you say that is accurate or a little bit over blown? I am leaning towards over blown because if it was THAT painful why would so many choose to be teased and denied? From my understand of men’s balls only a small group of men enjoy pain in that area…..so chime in here having them excruciating?
How do you feel after a cock tease session
When you have been left with aching blue balls after a cock tease session how does it make you feel? Weak and wanting more? Weak and needing to cum? Full and enjoying the ache and the discomfort of having such swollen blue balls?
Hmmm. Well for me, I rarely get the “true” blue ball experience… that is the point at which the ache is honest to god painful. I don’t really know what causes it because it’s an inconsistent thing. It isn’t directly correlated to how much teasing there’s been, at least not for me.
I can say that “excruciating” is an exaggeration, again that’s at least for me. It’s certainly very uncomfortable but it’s not like I’m in so much pain I can’t function.
Now as to whether or not I want them……….. >.< No. I don't like when it gets to the point of being truly painful. I LOVE the ache of being denied. I LOVE the ache of being constantly aroused. But those rare times where it actually hurts, I don't like that at all.
When it does hurt, though, I just have to think about how much you're enjoying my denial, my ache, my frustration, etc. Remembering I feel this way because of you.. FOR you… it certainly makes it bearable.
well jp I guess that’s a good thing in a way and ty for saying it is an exaggeration I think it is as well lol and you don’t want them awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
None for me, thank you. I like my balls the way they are at the end of our calls, Constance: EMPTY!!
hahah no problem joe
Blue balls are fun to get, especially when you give them to me. As you have said on many occasions, tease and denial makes the eventual orgasm more intense. However, I would not want to go for months and months getting blue balls and being denied, but every man is different. I’m pretty sure I will have a case of blue balls is late September. 😉 That being said, my balls will be whatever color you want them to be Mistress, and blue for as long as you desire!
hehehee I love giving you blue balls and months and months wont happen unless you super duper fuck up hahahahaha
Dear empresse,
I don’t think it hurts so much, although there was 1-2 times that it really hurt for few seconds, but… the enjoyment of understanding we’re doing it for free, jsut for praising and obeying our Mistress, is so much great, it overflows your mind and body!!
I must confess I’m afraid to ask to not cum on a call, because I’m not sure of the the future, but I’ve done many many times a litle bit diferent: Receiving a task, to cum to edge during some days, a week, so only when I have the call to My Mistress I’ll be free to cum!! That is so great, because the please is so much higher and all done on the hands and voice of your Mistress!!!
alfredo thank you for the great comment and hehehe I don’t blame you for being afraid to ask for denial on a call cause hehehe you will get it
Even when I’m locked up for long periods of time, I don’t think I feel any physical pain from not cumming. They swell and go down, seemingly on random days, so it’s not like they keep swelling bigger and bigger until they’re ready to ‘splode. Maybe I have a pressure release mechanism or something, because I do seem to leak a lot. All the same, I definitely do get a horrendous case of “psychological blue balls” though.
lmao @ pressure release jem jem hehehehe thank you doll and yeah mental blue balls is hard for sure
Well as to the last set of questions, how do I feel after you deny me, all of the above, lol. I have never felt pain from being denied and I doubt I would be into it if it was painful. Now excruciating is a different story. Sometimes, although not in any painful way — just in the way of I am super charged up REALLY wanting to cum. Yes I definitely have had blue balls by choice with you and other mistresses and it’s difficult but exciting all at the same time. And it definitely makes the eventual orgasm so much better. I have also had unexpected blue balls live a few times for a variety of reasons. That’s even more difficult because I really was expecting to cum, and now we have stopped in the middle and I’m probably upset at the reason too, so the horny and wanting to cum feeling is even worse. Those are blue balls I don’t aspire to have!
well thank you for sharing bfla and I know how horny and charged you get and wanting to cum hehehehehe sucks to be interrupted when you are close to cumming
As you know, Penelope has been going through circuit training since Mid June and will not orgasm until end of September if Lilly allows me to release then. As to pain, it is a totally different pain. I am a pain slut with other things but this is different. It is more like a frustration pain I feel. I rub my balls after edging and there is literally pain but not excruciating. It is more of oh god, this hurts, i want to release. Right now as I type after several hours of edging, I feel the “pain” in my balls. Sort of a swollen heavy balls pain. Just feel the ache of denial. In fact, the pain is actually enjoyable because is a strong sexual ACHE not a sharp pain.
Dear Empress Constance
I definitely like to be teased and denied my orgasm, so yes I like to get blue balls. I got them many times by choice and also a few times by accident. But since I do t&d sessions more and more often and chastity sessions that last usually a few weeks, I get less and less blue balls. I don’t know why. Is it because I developed a higher pain tolerance or my balls found a way to avoid it? I don’t know. Sometimes I miss my blue balls 🙂
Do blue balls really hurt that bad?
Well normally it’s not that bad. It is more like a dull pain that lasts in my case about an hour or two. But once I experienced a verrrrrrrry bad case of blue balls. I was in the middle of a t&d session when I felt thirsty and got up to go to the kitchen. I was about half way there when I felt a sharp pain in my balls that was so painful that I collapsed to the floor. I could not get up anymore… it was like a horse kick to my balls. I felt sick and I had to pull my undies down because I could not stand the slightest touch to my balls. When I managed to get up I could not go upright and my hands and knees were shaking. I was totally scared and out of my mind. I very carefully laid myself onto the sofa. After some time I fell asleep and when I woke up I was fine again.
After a cock teas session I usually put my chastity device on and that’s it. No more playing with my cock. Weak and wanting more? Yes! Weak and needing to cum? Yes! Full and enjoying the ache and the discomfort of having such swollen blue balls? If I have blue balls then hell yes!
Have a nice day!
ernest
ernest thank you so much for your comment and I think what happens is your body gets used to it that’s why you always have to push it so if after 2 weeks no blue balls make it 4 weeks hehehehehe
Dear Empress Constance
I like t&d and chastity so yes i like blue balls as well. I had blue balls by accident and by choice. The more t&d sessions I have the less blue balls I get… it’s not logic but in my case true. When I spent a few weeks in chastity and have a t&d session then I get quite a bit of blue balls and I kind of like it 🙂
Do blue balls really hurt that bad?
Usually not but beginning of this year I had a truly bad case of blue balls. I was in the middle of a t&d session – maybe two hours in – when I needed something to drink. So I went to the kitchen, when I was about half way there I felt a sudden pain in my balls that was so brutal that I collapsed to the floor. I felt totally sick and for quite some time I could not get up because the pain was so intense. I even had to pull my undies down because I could not stand the slightest touch. When I finally managed to get up, I could not stand strait and my hands and knees were shaking. I carefully laid on the sofa, eventually slept in and when I woke up I felt better. It was absolutely terrifying.
ernest
I have to say that blue balls from You are the best feeling I have EVER had! The pleasure of Your giggling in my ear at my frustration is priceless. I thank You my Queen for Your wonderfully blue balls!
mmm my oet I love giving you blue balls and keeping them blue and you my pet horny hehehehehe