Happy Wednesday everyone! I hope this finds you all well. Here is my answers to some of the questions sent in to me. Enjoy them and don’t forget use the ask Mistress Tab on my blog to submit your very own questions about anything you like.
Dear Mistress:
I have for a long time gotten so excited hearing girls talk about their love of big and well endowed guys. I have nearly never heard otherwise. I am tiny/small and am like a total wallflower if when girls take up such chat. There is often a real excitement/admiration tone that girls have for endowed guys. I often don’t want my “quiet” to be noticed. Do you think girls are “just” being polite or do you think it is obvious? I also have developed a desire to “do work and chores” for women for free and for nothing. Not exactly being “used” but sort of. Several women at work and in my condo have sort of taken advantage of my disposition. I somehow relate it to being tiny/small endowed. Is this a “wanting to please thing”. Could it truly be related or is it my imagination? It excites me when women have me do errands and sort of treat me like a “boy”.
I am confused by the first part of your question. Do I think they are being polite about what? As far as your desire to serve, it is your submissive side coming out and I can’t say for sure, but most men I have known with a small penis are one of two ways….assholes to over compensate for their short comings or super submissive…clearly you are the second of those. Enjoy it and embrace it.
Dear Mistress:
Do you ever sleep in or lounge around the house in men’s underwear–either boxers or tighty whites? Why or why not? I’d also just like to add an observation about how this is one of those “double standards.” If a man wears women’s underwear, many will think he is “kinky,” “perverted,” or even worse. However, if a woman says she wears men’s underwear to sleep in or lounge around the house in, she is not thought of in the same way. Feel free to share your thoughts on that.
You are correct about it being a double standard, that’s for sure..although I don’t think those things of men in panties, lots do. Do I ever lounge around in men’s undies? Nope, never I have never had the desire to put on guys undies at all. With that said, I do own some boxer shorts that are men’s, but they were given to me brand new and have M&M guys on them, so they don’t count hahahaha.
Dear Mistress:
Do you think a penis can be too big?
Yes, I actually can and have had a penis or a few that were just too big that left me sore and not satisfied because of it…but there is no one standard, like, anything over this size is too big for me. It all depends on thickness and such and what fits my body.
Dear Mistress:
Did you ever had someone (that knew your work or not) approaching you in a public space and ask you to serve you? Not a stupid sex related approach, but like… “Can I do something for you?” “May I carry your shops?” “Could I kiss your feet”?
No, I never have and I would find someone doing that in a public situation a bit disrespectful because, if you know me and know my work, you know I am private and subtle when in public and to have someone come up and ask me to kiss my feet I wouldn’t appreciate it. Now, if you were my submissive and I was in the mood to have you kiss them in public, I wouldn’t hesitate…….of course, I would make sure it was cool to do so before ordering it.
It’s true…….those of us ‘under-endowed types’ are often quite submissive 🙂
yes yes you are cuckie
In the ask Mistress question I was not clear — if girls are “chatting” about their admiration for well endowed guys and I “get quiet” – do you think or would you expect they notice that (my quietness)?
Oh Okay thank you for clearing that up for me I would say yes you being so quiet leads ladies to think you must feel inadequate about your own penis because if you had a big cock you would be in there bragging and wanting to show them hehehehe
Dear mistress,
I’ve always been fascinated by beautiful feet. Sometimes I wonder what people might think of me. As a mistress do you have respect for some who is willing to share his fetish or do you judge them and think it might be a little strange that someone like me would find this fascinating. I often wonder how you might feel. Personally I think it’s cool that people have different fetishes and are willing to share and explore. After all, we are human beings like the world perceive as normal people.
I think you are fucking awesome that’s what I think
Great questions and answers, as always, Ms. Constance!
I *have* had one guy in particular be *extremely* too big. He was 13 inches. I measured. (Hilariously, he had a tape measure next to the bed!) He could do *nothing* with that thing. In and out three times and he got off. A big ol’ yawn.
Not being sure if it was a fluke, I had to try it again. (What a slut!) Measured again, too. And, btw, he was almost the same flaccid as he was erect.
I’ll take a 6-incher over that lame 13-incher any day.
Again, great post!
Not bragging : I’ve got 8 1/2 inches long and sometimes I can’t get my penis all the way in a woman. That leaves me very dissatisfied, I prefer to feel a vagina hug me all the way, but no, there is a 1/2 inch or so left out in the cold. Not with all women, but with some.