Happy Hump Day, everyone! To help get you over that hump, here is another edition of my weekly Ask Mistress bog post. This weekly post is filled with the questions that have been sent into me via my Ask Ms Constance tab here on my blog and of course my answers/advice/opinions on those questions. Please feel free to submit your question to me and do come back to find out the answer in a future blog post.
Dear Mistress:
Could you describe ‘your’ ideal Cock? What would it look like? Would it be circumcised… or not? How big and or thick is the perfect size? Are there any intangibles that go beyond just size. like texture, stamina, scent? If you’ve been lucky enough to find what you’d consider your ideal Cock….what was it like for you to enjoy such a masterpiece?
The perfect cock for me is about 9 inches long and not too thick I want the length and width to match the head should be mushroom like and should not be too small or too big for the cock shaft itself. It must be circumcised because that’s my favorite! I like a cock with a few veins popping out when fully erect, but not too many and the balls must match the cock, because if too small or too big, it takes away from the beauty of that perfect dick. Have I ever had the perfect dick? Hells yes and I loved every inch. Also a big cock is only good if it can last a while. A big cock that cums too fast is as sad as a small cock.
Dear Mistress:
If a sub wanted to act out an auction fantasy, how would you determine his value for the opening bid?
It all depends on what he has to offer. What type of sub is he? I never auctioned off a sub before, but it sounds like fun!
Dear Mistress:
What is the right way for a sub-male to lose his virginity?
However he can hahahahaha! I mean, subbies can’t be picky and if he gets a chance to have that cherry popped he should jump on it!
Dear Mistress:
Can i cum please?????
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO! You may not cum today, you may not cum tomorrow, you may not cum next week! No cumming NO NO NO NO NO…..Hehehehehe.
Dear Mistress:
How much do you and other mistresses talk about details of callers and calls with each other? I have recently read on a couple blogs mistresses writing about call details, naming the callers, and other mistresses commenting that no secret is safe among mistresses. Is that true? Do you all share? Do you personally? Callers should just know and accept that when they call? It made me pause and think twice about the personal and fantasy secrets I share with you and other mistresses. Could you comment on your practice and what you know of other mistresses? Thank you.
This is an excellent question and thank you for asking it……first of all, let me say this: I can’t speak for all the Mistresses. I can only tell you what I do and how I behave. I don’t gossip about callers to other ladies unless they also speak to said caller and then I just share what is needed to be shared. If you read a blog with a caller’s name in it, then the caller is okay with it being posted. I would say 99% of the time…of course, there is always that random chance that he is not, but that’s very rare….in fact, callers beg us to write about them. Please don’t assume it is done without the caller’s permission. Also, just because you see a name doesn’t mean it’s a real name. It could be a random name and not the actual caller’s real name. No, it is not true that your secrets are not safe with us. In fact, most ladies will go to their graves holding the secrets of our callers with us…again, unless the caller wants to be exposed. No, callers have the right to privacy just like I do and I wouldn’t want my callers sharing intimate details or personal things I might share and callers should expect the same from me. I would suggest that if you see something and it worries you, go directly to that Mistress and ask these same questions. I can’t speak for other ladies. All I can say is nobody gossips to me about callers or shares their personal information that they might know with me. Hope this has helped clear a few things up for you.
I for one love it when you write about me. Makes me feel special. Even when you dont put my name but i know it has to do with me i like it. Sharing info bout me with another Mistress tells me that you are proud to own me. I still think its funny when you ask me to use my name. Use me and aduse me i belong to you. Oh and thank you for the no’s i needed that hehehe
thank you my sweet pet and you are special! I am proud to own you and hehehe use and abuse you mmmmmmmmmmmm and the answer is always no hehehehe
Wow a little bit of everything in this one. Ok so I don’t have the ideal cock, just the rest of me. Hahaha. I definitely like it when you write about me whether by name or not — even a short tweet makes me light up. Public recognition that the call was special to you, too. On the other hand, you know me so well I trust you implicitly to write only about things you know I wouldn’t mind you writing about. I couldn’t imagine you ever talking about me or anyone else to other mistresses except under the circumstance you describe. Just not how I see you. One of the many reasons I adore you and haven’t hesitated to spill the kinky beans to you. 🙂
yes lil bit of everything for sure hehehehe thank you I am glad when I share about you and you enjoy it and thank you for putting your trust in me it means a lot. You know me well and you know I wouldn’t gossip like that an yay kinky beans being spilled woo hooooo
Hello mistress Constance , can you tell me the dangers of sucking cock ? You all say to not go bareback but what are the dangers if you suck cock . I do love doing it but get scared at times .
Emily I think I have answered this from you before you can get an std from sucking bare cock that’s the dangers
Question #4 must not know you too well…lol I sort of find the idea of my favorite Mistresses talking about me amongst themselves a big turn on! The special you and Kaylee ran last year with the custom audios was super hot and being passed between the two of you was quite the experience. Hopefully you two team up and offer that again.
Oh scottie not only does he know me well #4 but he sent that in knowing I would say no and he lovessssssss when I say no heheheheheheh
and yay for turn on when we discuss you and as of right now you have been wanting to be exposed so I bet it got you excited reading that
and I hope to team up with her again too for sure
When I write about callers, it is ALWAYS with their permission and I ALWAYS change names. I only speak about a certain person/caller if we are sharing him. For example, there is a certain sub that calls alot of the Mistresses but he ultimately belongs to Mistress Delia and she has authorized him to speak to other ladies here. He called me one night and told me that he had permission to cum, which I questioned….because he had been abstinent for months per Miss Delia’s decision. If I know that a sub is co-owned, I check with the Mistress that owns him if something big is in question. In this case, I needed to know if he truly had permission to cum. I doubted it! Alot of us had been passing him around, so I needed to know. I checked with Miss Delia and our little sub had fudged the truth and lied to me! He didn’t think one hand would talk to the other. Not only did I let Miss Delia in on her sub’s little lie, I put the APB out to all those who shared him so no one would get sucked into his little fib and undo all of Miss Delia’s sessions.
I love these posts of your advice…it’s always good advice, Ms Constance! I agree with you about the perfect cock, and you described it beautifully. I also agree with you about talking about our callers. Unless a caller begs me to blog about him (or her), or has done something worthy of a blog mention, I will mention it in my blog. But never without permission, begging, or a name change.Or I may mention something that only my caller would know, as a special acknowledgement and a cool “secret” shout out between us. Some callers are very familiar with all of us and love being slutted around. In those cases, I do check with other Mistresses to check his status. Like, a chastity pet is exactly that, with no happy ending! And you are right as far as taking secrets to the grave! My lips are sealed!
I’m so glad you did the question about caller privacy … you’re right so many callers BEG to be on blogs. I had a guy in email recently BEGGING for me to post in photo — he was offering to tip really big and I said, no sorry we don’t do that. BEGGING! Okay, so exhibitionism IS a huge fetish! So, to the person who is worried about privacy read the “we expose you” post just like you read an “I will make you suck cock” post …. if it doesn’t apply to you, ignore it. The Mistresses that I play with DO NOT talk about callers, unless we’re sharing info for a two Mistress scene. We do NOT talk out of turn. Like Constance, I take your privacy and your TRUST seriously. Okay, off my soap box now.
I really like your answer to the last question, Constance. What I would like to add is that our very clear privacy guidelines, that makes it more comfortable to be the holder of hopes, and dreams and deep dark secrets. In all my many years here, I’ve never had a client complain about our customer service – in any department.
We earned that trust over the years – and they pay us in return – with naughty nuggets of inspiration. WinWin
Privacy is important but not just to us callers. I imagine Mistresses value there’s too … perhaps more so. Trust has to be earned. Rules and guidelines are nice but I’d say if you don’t want it out there, don’t put it out there until you have trust.
The “blog issue” is intriguing to my business mind. As a caller I get a warm and tingly chubby when I see something I’ve written or said quoted on a blog. That said, it’s not my decision. It’s not the decision of any caller. Based on what I’m reading above I wonder if acknowledging and quoting callers (with permission of course) would increase caller frequency and loyalty. Just wondering. I will say, when I read a quote and response on a blog I learn something about that Mistress.
One thing that’s great about this place is the openness to tell things as they are. 9″ with stamina? That has a ring of truth to it. Do women who say size doesn’t matter think we can’t read the disappointment on their faces? Do they think we can’t tell when they fake it?
Don’t they feel bad about saying they’ll call when they have no intention? Just tell the truth even if it’s harsh.
And one more thing! Mistress Olivia … Getting up on a soap box these days just isn’t what it used to be. I tried it several times. The cardboard just crushed flat and people looked at me funny …
But I must admit, it’s super sexy seeing you do it.
John Q
Is 9 inches truly your penis size preference? It just sounds so big to me. It is actually more than twice my size. I wonder why it is such a powerful thing when a woman acknowledges her (big) size preference to small guys?