Happy Hump Day everyone and welcome to another edition of Ask Mistress Constance where you all send in questions for me and I give you my answers/opinions. Please feel free to submit your question to be answered in a later blog post by using my Ask Mistress Tab here on my blog
Dear Mistress:
I’ve recently started cuckolding my husband (5 dates so far) and I realized that I perform different in sex with my lover than with my husband. Besides that, I also have swallowed my lover’s cum and allowed him to give me a facial, things that I’ve never done and don’t want to do with my husband.
My husband hasn’t watched us together yet but he wants to and I’m afraid he may get too jealous depending on how things go on.
Is it ok to give a different treatment to my lover? What can I do to my husband understand that?
I think it is natural to perform and behave differently with your lover than you husband and giving that you are cuckolding him you should be different with your lover rather than your husband. Before I can give you really good advice I would have to ask why did you start cuckolding him? Did he want this or you? Is his penis small? Did you both clearly communicate what cuckolding would be for each of you and what you both wanted out of this?
Dear Mistress:
A lot of your questions seem to come from people who are in a cuckold relationship or want to be. Why do you think cuckolding seems to be so prevalent?
I think the reason I get so many cuckold questions is because most everyone knows I have done this in my personal life. I also blog and have tons of things on the web about cuckolding so they feel comfortable asking me questions. I also think cuckolding if far more prevalent that anyone ever thought before and it seems like a ton on my blog because they found someone who is truly into it and they can share and ask questions.
Dear Mistress:
You’ve written before about how you’ve turned callers into certain things, like a cock sucker or a sissy. Often times it sounds like it’s not something they’ve asked for either, but rather something you’ve picked up on from talking to them and that you believe is something they really deep down want. So my question is, have you ever been wrong and tried to turn a caller into something they really weren’t interested in? How’d that work out in the end?
I only turn men into things they want and if I think I am picking up on something go down that path and met with a not so great reaction I move on I do not continue to push my agenda or my thoughts on what they want on them. So no I have never done anything to anyone that they didn’t want. Maybe they didn’t know they wanted it and once I went there their reaction proved to me they did but never do I MAKE someone become something they are totally not into.
Dear Mistress:
Where can I find 10 hot shemales to gangbang me
Hahaha I give advice and answer questions but I am not a pimp or a miracle worker perhaps do a search online in your area for what you or looking for…I don’t think there is any place called ShemalesRUs for you to go checking hehehehe
Oh, Miss Constance….about your second to last question. I can often tell in the first few minutes of a call what path it’s probably going to go, just like most Mistresses here can. My attention to detail and gut instinct is not a coincidence. That being said, no Mistress here will ever push something that a caller is flatly against because we want everyone to have a fun time! But even if there’s some light pushback in the beginning of a conversation (say, about cocksucking), the caller may express that he’s not a cocksucker, but I can’t tell you how many times I have had a caller start whimpering and suddently start talking like a sissy bitch when I ask ONE MORE TIME to make sure he doesn’t want me to put him on his knees to serve a bulging, meaty cock. More often than not, our caller is hoping that he can hide his true cocksucker side behind some macho talk. The rest are begging to be discovered for the sluts they are. Good thing Mistresses have a killer instinct!
I agree with you and Ms. Amber! Skilled Mistresses have fantastic intuition, and often we pick up on things our callers aren’t even aware of themselves. But we know how to subtly test the waters without coming out and saying, “Hey sissy, why don’t you suck some dick for me?” Of course we back off if we meet resistance, but often callers do surprise us when they end up telling us, “Actually yes. I do want to be a cocksucker after all!”