Here you are all the answers to all the awesome questions you all keep submitting! I love doing this post every week so keep those questions coming you can submit them by using the Ask Ms Constance tab right here on my blog
Dear Mistress:
My wife comes from a very strict Christian family and has somewhat traditional views on a wife’s duties inside marriage. I have been trying to show her how much more control she could exert on her own life but she is reluctant to fight a lifetime of conditioning. Do you have any advice on how I can help her do this?
Unfortunately if she just does not get it she just does not get it. Have you had an honest open frank discussion with her or did you just hint around about it. I say flat out say for the next 48 hours order me to do anything you want sexual or domestic and sit back and be treated like a queen. If she goes for this she may realize just how powerful being in charge can be.
Dear Mistress:
What does cock taste like to you? Do bigger cocks taste better than smaller ones?
They taste like chicken! No kidding hehehe well each cock has a taste unique to the cock holder and their body chemistry has lots to do with it. I wouldn’t know if smaller ones taste worse than bigger ones it has been many years since I have had a smaller cock in that sort of way…..this is a question for the cocksuckers out there who have made it their life goal to suck as many cocks as possible.
Dear Mistress:
When did you first cuckold a man and why did you do it?
My early 20’s and I did it because at the time my husband wanted it he thought it was hot and after many talks and hot sex and discussing it I finally did it and I have never looked back!
Dear Mistress:
How many pairs of shoes do you own?
This may come as a shock to you but I think only about 20 maybe 30……I am not as into shoes as I am panties hehehehehe those I have hundreds of!!
Dear Mistress:
What advice would you give to a woman who has a transvestite boyfriend who has a problem with purging, usually once or twice a year? I have told him it’s not something that he should feel ashamed of or makes him any less of a man but it doesn’t work.
I think what you have been doing is awesome and super supportive and you boyfriend is very lucky. Maybe try to talk to him about the cost and the sentimental value of the things he purges like that skirt is too cute you won’t ever be able to replace it……and as we all know clothes and stuff are not cheap. Also suggest just packing it away and store it instead of tossing it all.
Wow, a crossdresser with a supportive girlfriend? He has no idea how lucky he is, does he, Ms. Constance! I really hope his gf is able to convince him to stop purging. Given that his significant other is on board, maybe eventually he’ll become more comfortable with himself!
About that conservative religious wife, I think that once you have talked to her and given her the opportunity to take control and see how fun it can be, he may need to eventually come to a decision on whether or not he can accept NOT exploring his kink. Life is short, and if a resentment builds inside him secretly because he does not feel that she cares about his happiness, that could be bad. Not trying to break up an otherwise happy marriage, but there are a great many people that have found some happiness on the side, discreetly and without emotional ties. Just sayin’!
Ms Constance ~ I so look forward to this post each week. I love the variety of questions, from personal things they want to know to advice they seek. I do hope that you share with us any follow ups that you may get. Especially the cross dresser that purges. It breaks my heart. Maybe she could put the items in bins and place them in storage for him until the urge to purge passes. Thank you again for sharing!
Great stuff and interesting advice as always. Tough situation on the first one. I agree being in control can be empowering, but so can not being in control. Some people are happier not being in control. It’s always good to talk and perhaps explore, but in the end if not being in control is what his wife is comfortable with, everyone needs to respect that too. The tough part then comes as to how two people who have different ideas on that kind of lifestyle handle it.
thanks for the comment bfla I agree it can be tough when your not on the same page I guess it comes down to is there enough in other aspects of the relationship to keep both happy