Happy Hump Day Everyone! Here we are once again you sent in the questions and I have replied to them with my thoughts and opinions. Remember this is just how I feel my thoughts and the first thing I thing that comes to mind to me after reading your questions so others will feel different and not agree and that’s cool but this is my raw and honest thoughts so take it for that. If you would like to submit your question to me to be answered in a future ask mistress blog please us the tab at the top of my blog title Ask Ms Constance
Dear Mistress:
Have you ever spanked any of the other LDW Mistresses over your knee? If not, have you ever been tempted to?
Oh my! No I have not but have I been tempted to hells yes I would love to take some of the ladies over my knee and spank those sexy asses! The question is would they let me hahahaha Oh I do recall a get together at Ally’s house and Ms. Ryan smacked my ass once HARD as fuck…and I liked it!
Dear Mistress:
Have you ever encouraged the other mistress’s to start an ask mistress page on their blogs?
I wouldn’t say I have encouraged it but I don’t typically have conversations about my blogs with the ladies like that. I do however welcome it I think it is an awesome weekly blog and that everyone has thoughts and opinions and why not share them. So those of you who would like their Mistress to do one ask her too and if she wants she can hit me up for advice to get it started.
Dear Mistress:
Have you ever made up an excuse to physically discipline a submissive just to relieve your stress? I’m guilty of doing that with my husband once or twice.
NO I have never done that and would not do that to be honest. If I need to relieve stress I will have a submissive relieve it in other ways but to make up a reason to relieve my stress and spank or discipline them seems not so fair to them.
Dear Mistress:
Do you get turned on by a man who wants to sniff the cotton panel inside your panties? Is it a control thing or humiliation?
I get turned on by a man who enjoys the scent of a woman but not really form a panty sniffer who takes panties out of the hamper to sniff them. Now with that said I have had a few men in my life slip off my panties bring them up sniff them and then dive into my pussy that was hot! The image I got when reading your questions was more of a horny panty sniffer looking through the clothes hamper
Dear Mistress:
Do you believe that people are born submissive or it is more “learned” after being born?
I have wondered. Grew up in a female dominant family with a very strong (good but super controlling) M (parental figure). I am quite naturally submissive with females. I have wondered is it my biology or was it M (Parental figure)?
I think it is both to be honest, I think you are born with submissive traits and how the brain works and I also think upbringing and environment has a hand in it as well. Being brought up in a female led home can deeply influence your thinking of women and how you treat them and of course how you were trained or treated while being raised will have an impact on how you see women.
Dear Mistress:
What are you waiting for scientists to invent the most?
simple answer~ A cure for cancer
Dear Mistress:
What do you think the world would be like if sex was considered a form of prayer?
A much happier less uptight world that’s for sure…think about it if we all went to “church” to “pray” in this new world there would be so many happy people satisfied and content the afterglow of an orgasm beaming from them. Oh I also think my ass would be at church every dang day!
Oh my! I want to pray at your church and worship at the Altar of my Goddess!!! 🙂
“Take me to church/I’ll worship like a dog at the shrine of your lies/I’ll tell you my sins and you can sharpen your knife/Offer me that deathless death/Good god, let me give you my life!”
Hey, that song could be descriptive of a Femdom/submissive relationship too!
Ever heard it, cuckie? https://youtu.be/Xp4WKejt12Y
On another note, I love these Q&A’s. I’ve thought of starting one on My blog, but I didn’t want to “bite Miss Constance’s style”. lol Now, with Her endorsement, maybe I will!
well get down and start the worshiping hehehehe
I feel often that I am a tranny or shemale , I addicted nipples play, I watch a lot of shemale videos, I crossdressed, I was told my penis is like a clit I most of the time my penis doesn’t get erection for women but for crossdressing and nipple play and shemale (H), so that make me feel often I am tranny , I like women but often as lesbians
this is awesome thank you for sharing sweetie
A couple of questions/comments really stand out for me in this week’s Ask Mistress column.
First prayer and sexual activity. There’s actually a link between the transcendence of ecstasy and spirituality in several areas but I’ll just name a couple. the best book on this subject in the BD/sm realm is: Radical Ecstasy by Dossie Easton, Janet Hardy. Fascinating read and, from my personal experience, spot on!
The second book is: Tantric Quest by Daniel Odier.
The second thing I want to mention is to add to your comment to the person who asked by having a bad day and taking it out on a submissive. Good answer and I want to issue a word of caution to the submissive: any Mistress is does physical play because she’s in a bad mood is a very risky play partner … this can be a fun fantasy scene but if it’s real then that’s actually called abuse which is not BD/sm play.
I love you oliviaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa