Many of you have had fantasies involving anal play which may include a strap on and other anal toys, well after having a very hot discussion with a client about anal play and giving him some advice I thought I should cover it on my blog.
Is Anal Play for You?
Well if you have masturbated while thinking about having something in your ass I would say it is for you. If you have imagined a woman throwing you onto a bed and fucking you with her strap on…I would say it is for you. If you have ever slipped your finger into your ass while thinking about such fantasies well my dear it is not only for you but it is time to explore more!
Fingers First
I suggest that when you first explore anything anal with yourself use your fingers……start by slipping one in very slowly and then go from there……give yourself time to adjust and relax taking a deep breath before slipping your entire finger inside.
Once you have that finger inside and it begins to feel good you can begin to slowly slip it in and out yes fucking your ass with your finger. I am sure after several moments of this you will find yourself more excited so now you can explore with two fingers….following the above guide lines taking it slow…giving your ass time to adjust…..taking a deep breath relaxing those muscles and then building yourself up to the full on finger pounding ass fucking.
Anal Toys
Once you have mastered the art of finger fucking your ass and you have decided that it feels so good you just want to go further it is time to explore toys. Now as you know there are so many toys out there and many anal stimulators so it is up to you which you would enjoy perhaps a small butt plug or dildo is what you are looking for. No matter what your choice I suggest you start small! All too often I have someone tell me that the dildo they bought is just too large and uncomfortable for anal play….so start small and work your way up to those big cocks!
Your Best Bet
Your best bet is a suction cup bottom on a nice, let’s say 5 inch dildo…silicone so it is not too hard and rigid. You can stick that dildo onto a hard surface such as a coffee table….a chair and even the wall this way you can simulate the fucking. You will need plenty of lube for your first time so be sure to have some on hand! Begin slowly first slipping the head in and doing as you did for your fingers relax…breath and give your ass time to adjust.
Once you have gotten used to the head begin to slowly….yes slowly push against it allowing more of it to slip inside….apply more lube and take breaks as needed. Once you are able to take that dildo in your ass you can begin to slowly fuck it…yes I say slowly because you are new to this and you can go from never having a cock in your ass to full on ass pounding in a minute…..now once you have gotten used to it and into a nice steady slow rhythm feel free to speed it up and fuck that ass harder and deeper as you like.
There are some of the basics for first time anal sex play feel free to ask any questions you might have here in the comments or give me a call for all your anal advice needs 🙂
Great blog Ms Constnace and great information for anal play lovers. It can be a bit tricky and we all want to be safe.
Thanks Ms Cooper I know you know your anal play well and advice from us who have done it and enjoy it I feel is always welcome…..by the way ms cooper you have an amazing ass….just sayin
Moans softly..Well what can I say that you don’t already know. I am a total slut when it comes to anal play, a and from personal experiences can say its one of the way I feel complete a and feel there is something missing when there isn’t something up my butt ~blushing~
well well well my slutty one hehehehe I love that you are such an anal slut and you are far past being a new to the anal loving team heheh you are an ass expert!
Ms. Constance – You had me hooked with a smile from the moment I read your sentence: “Is Anal Play for you?
Well if you have masturbated while thinking about having something in your ass I would say it is for you.” When I read your words, I hear your voice saying them. Perfect blog post, Thank you!
My Taylor I am thrilled you enjoyed my blog and I am super tingly thinking about you hearing my voice in your head….did I make you wet???
I’ve experienced some anal play, but it’s been a long time ago and at the time I think I started a little too big, lol. But, I’ve had many fantasies about it and milking.
W that is a common mistake starting too large and then giving up perhaps you should start smaller 😉 and enjoy it fully
You know somewhat of my past on this but as i always try to do is please my Mistress or Mistresses as this is the case and i want to be the best pet i can be. So with that in mind eventually i will be dabbling in anal play and was wondering what you thought about finger toys. I have tried the finger in my ads play a few times to see if i could, but the feeling kind of weirded me out. I should say the feeling on my fingers. I was walking through a XXX store the other day and saw finger attachments I guess they would be called. Like French ticklers and things like that that slip on your finger. So would those toys be good to play with to start with if the feeling on your fingers doesn’t feel right? Thank Ms Constance as always for being so Wonderful to me.
Thanks for the comment bumkin Finger toys are fun!!!! They are not too invasive and huge and very manageable to use for anal play I think it is a perfect solution to someone hesitant to do anal just remember to be sure the toy is designed for anal finger play I would hate for you to slip your finger with stimulator on it in your ass and it come off and you have to ummmmm well get it removed…………..always safety first 🙂
Wow thanks I would have not thoughtof that. Whew glad you said that Thanks
if broadway had anal plays, i’d go see ’em .
you are too funny my anal friend!!!!
What a great read Ms Constance! Also had me hooked with, “I would say it’s for you” haha. Enjoying anal play can be soo pleasurable, so it’s wonderful advice for those who are wanting to explore and having it start comfortable. Nice work sexy ass 😉
Why thank you Ms Kaylee I do enjoy anal play and helping those who enjoy it get the most out of it is such a treat!