As your phone sex Mistress I am often asked what it is I like when being serviced by a willing submissive and their tongue, and I am often ask to guide others in sucking cock and giving great oral sex to a partner so I thought why not blog about it, keep in mind it is not my way or the highway but I will give you some pointers to get you on the right track to worshiping a pussy or even sucking a cock.
Pleasing a Pussy with your tongue
The key to giving a woman oral sex is paying attention to her body language, some women like me love it a bit more aggressive and some simply can’t handle that so pay attention to the signs she is giving you, not everyone can be as outspoken in bed as I am. Start out slow spending some time exploring her pussy lips with your tongue nice and slow don’t lick it like a melting ice cream cone take your time let your tongue explore every fold of that pussy. Slide your tongue over her clit remember when giving oral sex to a woman almost never does the insertion of your tongue into her pussy get her off it is more times than not clitoral stimulation that gets a woman off. Spend some time running your tongue over her clit and then gently suck it between your lips, if she grabs your head and shoves it in tighter then you know you can suck a bit harder and watch and feel her go crazy! While licking and sucking her clit for some women the insertion of a finger or two will send them over the edge because the combined stimulation on their clit and the feeling of something sliding into her is explosive and when worshiping pussy that is the exact effect you want to have!
Sucking Cock
One thing about sucking cock I have found to be true whether you’re a man sucking cock or a woman sucking cock there really is not much actual sucking going on…why is this? Why do so many just slide it in and out? I personally enjoy oral sex and it shows so perhaps if you practice what I preach you too will be able to please a cock as good as I do. Start out by exploring that cock use your tongue to run up and down the shaft and circle around the head, spend some time enjoying that cock growing from your wet tongue and then you can actually begin to suck it. Of course as with women each man is different but I have found no man will complain about a blow job as long as there is no teeth involved during it hehehe Here is what I like to do I like to slowly slip the head in and gently sucking it, in fact I like to draw that cock into my mouth simply my sucking it….inch by inch until it is as far as you can take it. Wrap your lips tight around it and suck YES suck it and then use the combination of sucking and stroking with your mouth, don’t just run it in and out in and out actually suck it as your doing this and you will have any man moaning and groaning in no time!
Those are just the basics of oral sex what I enjoy and how I enjoy doing it, but if you would like more detailed one on one help in performing oral sex or body worship with your tongue then feel free to give me a call because one thing is for sure I LOVE ORAL SEX!!!
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Holy Cow! This is absolutely fantastic and the audio is even better!! I just love it when you talk dirty in my ear, and this is dirty. Thank you Empress Constance for putting a huge grin on my face. I am so turned on right now……….
could you please send this to Wes ?
thanks !
done butters I know how much you love to please wes
*makes copious notes*
I hope you go back and study those notes well tommie hehehehe
::speechless::
*giggles* I did not know that was even possible NB hehehehehe
It is not an easy feat, to be sure! So far it has been done only two ways: your voice, and putting something else in my mouth that makes it very difficult.
lmao NB I got something to put in your mouth no worries!! hehehehe
Ms Constance, your story about guide to oral sex is amazing!! I love listening to you telling us boys how to please a women. You are an amazing women and I can’t wait for the next lesson. I always seem to know how to please a women but you instructions will help me alot. Can’t wait until your next show on cock radio.
Kurt well thanks for taking the time to read it i am glad you found it amazing!! I find oral sex itself to be amazing and love love love love it! Did I mention I LOVE ORAL SEX!? hehehehehehe Looking forward to seeing you at my next show until then practice your tongue exercises ya never know when it might come in handy 😉
I am sure this would be a useful post for most, but in the words of Wayne and Garth “I’m not worthy!”
hahahah cuckie but I do know you dream of being worthy!! Thanks for the comments
Ms Constance,
I just want to commend you on a great blog/audio. You write and speak in a nice, relaxed manner here, drawing you “students” in while dispensing some helpful hints along the way. I love when you lower your voice as if we are in some kind of sex lab with a sign outside that says “Quiet, please–training in session”. Obviously this was just an overview but there were plenty of things to be gleamed.
Well thank you castaway I am glad you enjoyed it so very much. I totally was into what I was doing and saying so I am not surprised so many have enjoyed it. 🙂
Man, making a pussy wet with your tongue is so awesome. It’s our chance to finally be the one who does the teasing.. When you are going down on her and she’s begging for more stimulation, mmmm, a submissive mans chance to finally seize control with his mouth.
and on the flip side wessypoo having a man under my pussy his face being covered by it and grinding against that hot tongue and lips makes me cum harder then anything!!! Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
@Gummy thank you I am glad you enjoyed it so much!! I just love talking dirty in your ear and driving you wild!!!
I just had to return and say again what a great audio this is. Of course I’m visualizing this happening between the two of us. Even before I started to respond I read you comment about having me under your pussy, covering my face and you grinding against my hot tongue and lips and then me feeling your body tense and then I’m enjoying your orgasm with you as wave after wave of pleasure assaults our senses….Priceless…………
well I am glad you liked the comment about being under me the oral pleasure that I would get would be amazingggggg not to mention awesome for you!! hehehe
I love eating pussy,but I could do without bumping my head on the table while getting back to my chair when the waiter takes our order OW!
hahahahahaha yes it is annoying when you bump your head every time the waiter needs to ask us something. Glad you love oral sex and licking pussy me too me too!!!
Cum to think of it,perhaps I should start staying down there,so as to get the 2 for 1 special *wink wink*.
Helluva way to avoid a concussion!
hahahaha yeah you stay down there and keep going I will take care of dinner
Sushi topped off with the cream of sum yung gui.
Ahhh…can’t beat Asian cuisine.
hahahaha very funny ed!
If it’s gonna make you feel better,we can share.How else are we gonna create snowballs in Florida? DUH!
Ohhh my snow balls in florida? That can only be dirty heheheheheheh I love it!
Thanks for helpful tips, and so timely right before steak and blowjob day. I have to wonder though, did receiving some less than stellar oral sex prompt you to post this to teach some people? lol
Your most welcome but after reading your latest blog post over on the enchantrix empire I do not think you need many tips in this area 🙂 Why did I write this blog? Well so many men talk to me about worshiping my pussy and they all seem to have their own ideas of what would please me. So I thought just a basics of “How to” for oral sex would be fun 🙂 glad you enjoyed it
What can I say, I’ve had great teachers and been well trained. Practice practice practice, it’s a tough job but I’ll suffer through it 🙂
tough job but one you will volunteer for over and over and over again………..hey thank your teachers for me would ya LOL
Empress Constance, I am a firm believer in the adage that it is better to give than to receive. There is something wonderful about using my tongue to please a woman. In one way, I am being totally submissive to her needs, using my mouth only to drive her orgasm, but in another way at the same time, I am the one in control since it is my ministrations that will get her where she wants to be. Unless of course she is pulling my hair or spanking my ass with a crop. Not that I would mind. 🙂
Wow Magnus I am tingling all over after reading your comment on oral sex and pleasing a woman…I like how you see things in one way your submissive pleasing her with your mouth yet in another way your in total controll………..and hehehehe spanking your ass with a crop mmmmmmm dont give me any ideas hehehe
Curtsey Empress Constance
Worshiping a woman’s pussy is a art. As you say in your blog above, “paying attention to the signs she’s giving you”. The masters of “art” all used different brush strokes, they carefully studied their subjects for their paintings and brought each to life and brought out the beauty in each. As the artist begins to cover his canvas, they don’t just throw on paint, instead they loveingly and carefuly brush their art on slowly. Just like worshiping a woman’s pussy… it’s not just suddenly sticking the tongue in..it’s as you say “explore every fold of that pussy” and “some time running your tongue over her clit and then gently suck it between your lips”…..I’m just a novice when it comes to sucking cock…however… there’s so much here from all you lovely ladies…..my mistress says I’m a natural girl..I try to go with what I feel…someday I’ll have to put this to the test…oh… I have sucked a cock.. but it was a long time ago..I think I have it posted on EE…Empress Constance…thank you for posting this..I suppose… I should stop here before I turn this into a novel….Curtsey
Thank you steph for your comment 🙂 I agree it is an art form and you have to pay attention to the signs your partner gives you but this does not just apply to oral sex heck this goes for everything really 🙂 as far as you being a novice at sucking cock well I am sure your mistress is right your a natural and as long as you follow your partners signs you will do just fine 🙂 thanks for sharing sweetie