Are you locked in a chastity device right now?
No, I don’t currently own a device having got rid of the ones I owned I threw them out Just on a whim. I sometimes doubt it I’m submissive enough for chastity so threw them out. Regret it now though
Is most of your chastity play real, or fantasy?
Mostly fantasy though I have dabbled in short term real. Only online, I struggled badly
Empress Constance: why did you struggle badly?
During normal everyday things. I’d feel ashamed and embarrassed about being locked so would unlock and not use device for a while. Its during these lows I got rid of the devices.
When you considered giving orgasm control over to someone did it excite you or frighten you?
Both LOL It excited me as it’s what I think I want and frightens me that I will be discovered or that it restricts my life in other ways. As my relationship with my key holders where online it was limited and not really that real
Do you currently have a keyholder?
No not at the moment
How would you describe your ideal Keyholder?
Someone real lol. Ideally I’d like a female led relationship with chastity. So really I’d look for a dominant, caring girl with a sense of humor. Not sure I could do the online thing again
How many chastity devices have you purchased?
3. The cb6k, cb2k and the bon4
Ever consider complete and permanent chastity with no hope of release?
I’ve never really gotten to that stage where it might be a viable option, so no
Was there a specific point in your life when you suddenly realized that chastity was the way to go and what was that event?
I can’t really pin point it no. Just when looking on internet at bdsm I discovered it. Joined a few forums and got chatting to people. I find that there tends to be less fakes involved in the chastity forums than sites like collar me etc
What is the longest time period you have ever gone between orgasms?
Think about 10 days lol
When you aren’t locked up, do you practice orgasm denial?
sometimes yes but it’s pretty half hearted attempts. Nothing that serious
When you are alone and masturbating, what percentage of the time would you say you think or fantasize about chastity?
Depends on what I’ve seen etc probably at least 50 though
What did it feel like the first time to be locked and realize you can no longer touch your penis whenever you wanted to?
It was exciting and then a bit scary as it was sore and I was worried I would do damage. Think I lasted about 4 hours or something…Wasn’t really sore it just the normal erection pain. That’s the thing I’ve never really felt that. Most of the times I’ve locked for people has been with tags or trust so in reality I could cum if I wanted. Only once I send the key away and I picked the lock to take off.
How does it feel to not know when you will be granted an orgasm?
Well I’ve never really been in a position where I’ve been completely helpless. I’ve always had the plastic lock or the key. So I’ve missed out on that sensation all together
I am really enjoying seeing all the many sides chastity has for each individual person…if you would like to do a chastity interview with me please contact me at Constance@enchantrixempire.com
Look for a post later this week from a special guest blogger!!
I have always dreamed of being put into a permanent chastity to never be able to touch my
clitty again wish i could already but never found a chastity device that is permanent any good ideas of one let me know I dont have a key holder yet i had a cb curve but i slip out of it way to much so i need to trade or something to get something permanent that i wont slip out of .
I will tell you my best advice to find a device that is not only permanent but that will keep your clitty from slipping out is a place called Mature Metal these are custom fit for you so that you can get exactly the right size….they have awesome customer service to handle all your questions or needs and the devices although a bit more than your off the shelf devices are worth every penny spent. Look into them and I sure do hope I helped you find the chastity device that works for you!
I’m the sub who was interviewed, I would just like to say thanks to Empress Constance for her time and giving me the chance to speak about chastity.
I now have a new device which is securely locked on as I type. My plan is to build up my times before seeking a KH to hand over the keys to.
Thank you very much for doing the interview and for the nice comments…..I know you have a new device and I am enjoying your tweets about being locked in chastity!! Great job keep it up or ummm keep it locked hehehehe