This interview was one fantastic insight to the submissive mind of someone who understands and enjoys a bit of chastity play. I enjoyed his answers very much and if your a member of enchantrixempire our social network site you will have seen many of the blogs that fur sissy has written on a wide variety of submissive and dome experiences and thoughts.
Are you locked in a chastity device right now?
No they don’t interest my current mistress much and we haven’t had much of a d/s dynamic for the past 2 years. We tend to reserve it for pegging.
Is most of your chastity play real, or fantasy?
I mainly use them on my own in order to maintain an agitated subspace state. When we use them it’s to deny pleasure during pegging. Prolonged chastity is mainly fantasy but I do it in real time in short term….Not sure if things would go longer if they fit my junk better hehe
Empress Constance: ever think about a custom fit one?
Empress Constance: mature metal makes them custom fit
We have considered that but when it’s uncertain it’s hard to commit 500+ dollars to something
Empress Constance: they are about 300 dollars or so and I can tell you between the product itself and the customer service it is well worth it if you ever get serious about it
Cool. I will keep them in mind
When you considered giving orgasm control over to someone did it excite you or frighten you?
Both excite and frighten. I get excited from the fear of potentially negative outcomes
Empress Constance: such as?
A potential outcome such as her liking me better or being better behaved when chaste so that she decides I’m better off not being let out.
Another negative outcome would be having minor mistakes punished with prolonging release and then being judged so strictly that it is impossible
Do you currently have a keyholder?
I do not have a keyholeder
How would you describe your ideal Keyholder?
My ideal keyholder would be strict
She would appeal to the subs shame and conscience
Make the sub hold an impossibly high standard for himself so that when she asks him point blank if he deserves a release he cannot answer yea honestly
But she would have to be in tune with his submission enough to gauge if/ when depression sets in so that he can have a release to prevent that.
Empress Constance: ahhh a bit of a mind fucktress too
Yea a mindfucktress
How many chastity devices have you purchased?
5 devices
Houdini, cb 2000 3000 6000 and a 6000s cage
Ever consider complete and permanent chastity with no hope of release?
Yes. I scare the shit out of myself when I think about that
Empress Constance: why?
It’s hot but its oxymoronic that it gives me a hard on
Empress Constance: hahahaha well trust me you’re not the only one
If I found the right domme and she demanded it of me I would probably agree to it as long as she promised to milk me regularly. My plumbing backs up something fierce
Was there a specific point in your life when you suddenly realized that chastity was the way to go and what was that event?
The first time long term chastity started to appeal to me was when I found an e book by the author giles english His descriptions of the women drew me in. I read his book and that was the first time I masturbated to a chastity fantasy The idea has always done it for my subspace but I hadn’t really jerked off to it before then
What is the longest time period you have ever gone between orgasms?
With orgasm denial 21 days or so of heavy teasing
When you aren’t locked up, do you practice orgasm denial?
Sometimes If I want to keep my subspace and attentiveness yup
When you are alone and masturbating, what percentage of the time would you say you think or fantasize about chastity?
40-60% of the time. If I’m fantasizing about a cruel domme then always chaste
What did it feel like the first time be locked and realize you can no longer touch your penis whenever you wanted to?
Desperate awareness
I’m not the type that plays with their junk constantly but when locked I start fidgeting with it constantly. Helpless… Desperation… Agitation… Heightened senses… Torment I love it but hate it
How does it feel to not know when you will be granted an orgasm?
I have found there’s ” stages of grief” if that makes any sense
Empress Constance: perfect sense actually
Desperate awareness followed by intense focus to serve perfectly and follow orders Followed by panic and high strung state
Followed by acceptance
Followed by depression/hopelessness
It’s a fun ride
Empress Constance: where did the fun come in at?
Having the privilege of serving a woman who wants cock control
It was there from the start
Empress Constance: ahhhhhhhhh very good answer!
I have found serving to be the most rewarding part of my life
I am really enjoying seeing all the many sides chastity has for each individual person…if you would like to do a chastity interview with me please contact me at Constance@enchantrixempire.com
What an excellent interview, Ms Constance! I have very much enjoyed, and continue to enjoy Fur Sissy’s contributions on EE.
Thank You Ms Claire FurSissy is an excellent addition to our kink community
I totally agree. The sharing of experiences is so valuable and adds such richness.
Another great interview Ms Constance, I’m starting to learn a little bit more about chastity. It’s actually an interesting subject.
Thanks Kurt I love that even though your not into this that your finding it interesting!!
Being locked up is not something that I am interested in but I am enjoying the interviews and all the different perspectives on the subject. Fur Sissy is definitely a fantastic addition to this wonderful community.
forrest I MISS YOU! Thanks for the comment and I am loving that even though so many may not get chastity they are starting to understand more and more just what it is about!
What a great series! This has been one of the best interviews so far. I think Empress Constance is the most expert chastity keyholder I have ever encountered. It takes a fair amount of research and experience to learn the motivations for male chastity, how to do it right and the psychological effects it can have on the wearer and keyholder. She has clearly done her homework. Keep up the great work!
GumShoe thank you very much for all the very nice thingsyou said about me………I have to give credit to gummybear for my love of chastity he opened the door and it was on from there now I think I am just in love with all things chstity and orgasm denial. It is just as much a mental thing as it is a physical and it is amazing doing these interviews! Thanks for following along
This was a fantastic interview! Fursissy is one of the most intelligent, self-aware and articulate people I’ve encountered, and it makes for such an insightful read, both here and in his blogs on EE. Add the fact that the interviewer loves and is so knowledgeable about the topic. I don’t think I could do this, but I love getting this kind of insight.
Kevin thank you very much I agree with what you said about fursissy I know your nto a huge chastity lover but imagine a HUGE cock fucking your wife while yours is locked up…..ohhh talk about turned on!!!
That Fursissy guy sounds crazy. I will keep away from his subspace. His Mistress should keep him locked in chastity for 453 days. Fur you know I am kidding…loved the interview…always love to get your perspective. Thanks Ms. Constance for these interviews.
LOL matty be careful YOUR mistress may decide to do just what you think fur sissy should have done hehehehehehe
Thank you, everyone. The interview really was a lot of fun. Chastity was something that I wasn’t “into” when I entered the lifestyle… but it somehow wormed its way into my fantasies.
I had a good time chatting with you about this and I just love how your mind works chastity or otherwise your a very good and interesting addition to our sites!