This is a chastity interview with one of Ms Claire’s boys and I just love how his partner and Ms Claire are going to work together in the future
Are you locked in a chastity device right now?
No – was in for two occasions – once for 3 weeks and then a second period of 6 weeks. I had started third period last month and that lasted about a week before that stopped. I am about to go back into some form of chastity, but that will be more short term periods rather than long term.
Is most of your chastity play real, or fantasy?
Has been real up to this point and likely will be as well going forward.
When you considered giving orgasm control over to someone did it excite you or frighten you?
Both – I had not ever been denied before or had gone more than a few days without orgasm, so unsure of what it would be like, but also excited as this was a new adventure and seemed to have a sensual aspect.
Do you currently have a keyholder?
My partner is assuming this going forward and she will be working in some type of coordination with Mistress Claire, who was in control for the two longer periods I had done chastity previously..
How would you describe your ideal Keyholder?
A combination of stern and playful. They need to be able to set limits and rules, but also have element of teasing/denial that makes the wearer both ache knowing they cannot have what they crave at the moment and also give them something to look forward to. I think, too, having someone who understands your limits and respects them, but also knows when and how to push those limits. For me, without this pushing aspect, I would not have been open to long term chastity experience and would have missed out on a lot.
How many chastity devices have you purchased?
Just one – a cb6000
Ever consider complete and permanent chastity with no hope of release?
No. That may be for some people, but definitely not me. I enjoy sex far too much to lose that!
Was there a specific point in your life when you suddenly realized that chastity was the way to go and what was that event?
I had read many things on the Enchantrix Empire site and developed a curiosity on this. I decided to give it a try with Mistress Claire after exchanging several emails. After the first week of being locked up, in which I thought I’d never make it through, something inside just clicked. It brought out some submissive tendencies for me and the loss of control was freeing in many ways. The rest of my world and life is one where I’m in charge and in control, so this type of experience was real eye opener. It freed me up to explore new things in the D/S and fetish spectrum. Being locked up was humbling and a physical reminder that I was not in control and that I need to serve mistress, that my own needs were not important.
What is the longest time period you have ever gone between orgasms?
6 weeks was the longest
When you aren’t locked up, do you practice orgasm denial?
Not consistently, but at times, yes. There were times when I was not locked, but kept from orgasm in order to please Mistress. This is also something that I am going to be experimenting with my partner in the days ahead as part of some discipline training that we are undertaking with the assistance of Mistress Claire.
When you are alone and masturbating, what percentage of the time would you say you think or fantasize about chastity?
About ½. It is strange that not being in it does make you wish for that control and in some ways, feel guilty for not being locked up.
What did it feel like the first time be locked and realize you can no longer touch your penis whenever you wanted to?
It was scary no doubt. The physical sensation I felt of my cock/balls hurting, itching, and trying to sleep at night was really rough those first few days. I found myself getting aroused at any little thing and then having realty set in as I found out how much it hurt on those occasions. As I noted above, it reminded me that I was not in charge, that even touching my penis was not a decision that I had control over.
How does it feel to not know when you will be granted an orgasm?
It drove me up a wall at first and anticipating that next orgasm was all I could think about, but as I got more comfortable with the chastity device, it was not so bad and seemed more natural that someone else should make that decision. It also does excite me in a way and hits on submissive and humiliation aspects, knowing that someone else controls when I will be able to cum next. Lastly, I have found that not knowing the next time increases my desire to please that person as much as possible.
If you would like to do a chastity interview with me please send me an e-mail constance@enchantrixempire.com
My hat is off for Bradley, since I respect his discipline. I share similar feelings. In my case, I enjoy short term chastity for about 5 days to a week. This is followed by guided masturbation, which can last for several hours. I am into long term orgasm denial; however, I just love the pleasure of stroking my cock, where I bring myself close to the edge without ejaculating. For me, the chastity part of the “cycle” helps to develop one form of discipline, while stroking to the edge and being denied an orgasm enhances another form of discipline. Being into female domination, I recognize that need to practice discipline, which need the right combination of strictness and sensuousness.
My hat or umm panties go off to bradley too his commitment to Ms Claire and his partner his willingness to serve is awesome!!!
Thanks Mistress Constance!