Every Wednesday I post your questions and my answers/advice and although I nearly forgot to post this ty  ( you know who you are) for reminding me here they are!! If you would like to send in a question use my Ask Mistress tab right here on my blog.

 

Dear Mistress:
My wife was raised to believe that a woman’s only roles in life are giving birth to and raising a family and serving their husband. She gets uncomfortable when I do things for her or help around the house, she sees it as her failing and me having to step in to fix her mess, no matter what I say. Do you have any advice on how I can show her that women aren’t inferior to men and that her wants and needs are just as important as mine? At this point I’ll try anything.

I have had this asked of me before and I am not really sure how to change a life time of conditioning such as her feeling she is inferior to men. All I can suggest is treat her like a queen and remind her daily what a queen she is and how she deserves to be treated nice and have things done for her. If she does not like it than you have to live with it and if it is YOUR need to be submissive to her and serve her do just that she doesn’t need to know you bringing her tea in bed makes you feel subbie or dropping to your knees and rubbing her feet is a sign of your submission.
Dear Mistress:
You’ve mentioned a sexual bucket list a couple of times in your answers. Can you tell us what the wildest and tamest things are on it?

I want to fuck Ms. Kaylee on the hood of a Camaro, and I want to eat out Ms. Hunter at the top of the empire state building. Those would be the wildest and the tame let’s see I dunno maybe spank wes on the beach?

Dear Mistress:
I think I would make a horrible cocksucker because I seem to have an oversensitive gag reflex. I sometimes gag myself just brushing my teeth. Is there anything that can be done to overcome the gag reflex or is my situation hopeless? 🙂

I think perhaps practice might help you with your over sensitive gag reflex use something small don’t shove to back of your throat and do it several times a day.

Dear Mistress:
I took your advice from a few weeks ago and purchased a hollow strapon so that my wife can see how a larger penis would please her more and ,while she admits that it is pleasant to feel it deeper inside, I’m afraid my lack of skill didn’t show her its true value. We’ve settled on a compromise where the only sexual activity between us is me performing oral sex on her and she’ll use toys when she feels like being penetrated. I still feel like she’s limiting herself for my sake, but at least she isn’t tolerating my penis inside her anymore.

Well it seems to me that you need to work on your skills you need to get better at fucking and being with a woman buy a blow up doll download some porn and get to work! It is also great that at least now she wont bother indulging your tiny dick inside of her any more.

Dear Mistress:
Since there are alpha males and sub males, does this mean there are alpha females and sub females? How would you tell them apart?

Sure there is for instance I am a alpha female and the first question on this post his wife would be a sub female. You can tell by how they carry themselves and how confident they are .Try this walk up to a woman and say you sure have a pretty mouth it would look great on my cock..if she giggles blushes and doesn’t say anything and drops to her knees she is probably sub, if she slaps you upside your head and says you would need a dick in the first place for me to suck it…than she is probably alpha

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