I wrote a blog about how spanking is not a punishment it is a treat and that got others to ask me what do I consider a punishment? Well that answer is not one size fits all but I will attempt to break it down for you
Orgasm Denial
This one is a no brainer donβt follow my directions or rules and I will deny your orgasm and make you wait longer than you normally would to cum. For some this might be a week of denial for others a month it just depends on each individual person.
cbt
There is nothing that will bring a man to his knees quicker than a swift ball busting session. Yes this is for those men who are not only rude and disobedient but who only learn lessons through a bit of pain. I do NOT do this to just anyone who messes up this group of men have it coming to them and leave me no choice but to inflict some cbt.
I will ignore you
Yes this is the harshest of my punishments and I know you are thinking wait ball busting is not as harsh as this?? Constance has lost her mind!
Hear me out…..there are many men who depend on daily contact with me and I am happy to give it to them, however if after given a chance or two to obey and do what I wish they choose not to do so I cut them off. This means no mail replies from me, no messengers contact and no social media interaction, and I will only allow them to call if they plan on begging me to speak to them and correct whatever they did wrong to get ignored.
These are just a few of my punishments with the last being not one you want to experience because after having had me in your life daily you never want to experience your days without me.
Makes note to stay off the “naughty list”
smart cuckie very smart
Love the orgasm denial, love light cbt, can’t survive without my Queen Constance…. always obey!!
good boy you know exactly how bad it would be without me
I would love for You to encourage m long-term orgasm denial for my Queen – so I could strengthen my bond with her! I wish I could be vulnerable around her!
awwwwwwwww it can happen and I am happy to encourage your long term denial for sure
for your cbt activities id buy you shoes, mma type gloves and a target to place over my balls.
agonising blue balls hurt so much Empress Constance. especially after a kick or punch π
ohh my buying me what I need to inflict some cbt I dig it
I think being ignored is something that bothers human beings, especially if it is done by someone we know and have interacted with in the past. Humans like to be acknowledged. I remember a “Twilight Zone” episode, and a man was sentenced to 1 year of being “invisible” because of the way he treated people. He had a mark placed on his head which indicated to people that he was not to be spoken to or acknowledged. By the end of his sentence he realized how horrible it was.
I think so too FS and that is why I said it was my harshest of punishments reserved for those who just don’t get how lucky they are
Being ignored by you would be cruel and inhumane treatment! LOL So I think I’ll try to stay good. π
that’s the point be good and it shall never happen hehehehe
I find it very interesting Ms Constance that so many people keyed in on the Mistress will ignore you part of your blog post. Sometimes in fetish play someone acts a brat in order to get attention and then something like a spanking is a reward, rather than an actual punishment. CBT sure is or can be super fun for a cock and balls pain slut and a way to express submission to Mistress. Orgasm denial and chastity …. we both know that is amazing! But, to ignore someone? WOW, your many fans would be so sad! After all, it’s FUN just being around the smart Femdom Ms Constance …. and I feel the SAME WAY! hugs and more!
I found it interesting too Ms Olivia but I also knew it would make many be like what the fuck she cant do that NOOOOOOOO I will behave hehehehe That is why I said it is the cruelest of all my punishments cause aint no sunshine when Im goneeeeeeeeee hehehehe
Ms. Constance ~ to me there really is only one real punishment here and that is losing you – even temporary. There are those that like their orgasms denied and others love a nice black stiletto to the balls but to lose their Mistress they couldn’t bear it. It’s like losing the North Star – without it, they are lost. It’s the ultimate. A fate worse than any other. I’m sure anyone reading this who has weighed the pros and cons of a possible misdeed will think twice knowing the price. This should be a warning to all.
awww Kaymarie thank you for seeing just hwo harsh it would be if I took away me from them thankfully I have only had to do this for very few and not for long stretches but it is the ultimate in punishment that’s for sure
Dear Mistress Constance,
In addition to orgasm denial, I am into CBT. This means that by balls, which are filled with cum, do get spanked from time to time. My in-person mistresses tie me up and then, using a wooden spoon, a ruler, or a fly swatter, they administer a reasonably hard spanking to my testicles. This is NOT done as a punishment, because the spanking may cause a temporary painful stinging sensation. Ouch! After about 5 to 10 minutes, however, that painful sensation turns into a longer lasting pleasurable sensation. π This results in my being highly sexually excited, and, because of this, I am more willing to please my mistresses. π
I have called in several of the LDW mistresses, which involved sessions where part of the time involved spanking my cum-filled balls. No doubt, I had to take a wooden spoon or ruler and spank my own testicles. That was a little difficult; however, I did succeed in getting that same effect, while on the phone. π
In both cases, this was less about punishment, and more about the sensual and sexual excitement and my willingness, as a submissive male, to please my mistresses. π
Thank you for another very insightful post!
cum filled balls thank you for this amazing comment! I love how you are into many things and that you are not against a wooden spoon smacking against those cum filled balls and it is nice to see you achieved on the phone what you enjoy in real time