Happy Hump day everyone! Here is my weekly sexy questions post with my answers and or advice and opinions on the questions that all of you followers have sent in. If you would like to submit a question please feel free to use the Ask Mistress tab right here on my blog.
Dear Mistress:
How is cuckolding different from infidelity?
Cuckolding is done with both partners consent and infidelity is done without consent. Typically a cuckold relationship is brought about by one or both partners interest in it. Infidelity is done without the knowledge of your partner
Dear Mistress:
Is it common to be unsatisfied with your lovers? I’m asking because my husband and I recently starting a cuckold relationship and the two lovers I’ve had so far weren’t as talented as I’d hoped. This is especially problematic as the core of my husband’s fetish is watching his wife get satisfied by a better man and there’s no point in doing it if I can’t find one.
Not for me because I demand to be pleased by my lovers…….Now in your situation it does seem pointless to cuckold your husband sleeping with other men if you are not being pleased. With that said what is not pleasing you? What can you do to ensure you are pleased do you give direction? Are you screening the guys well enough explaining what you want need and like?
Dear Mistress:
Do you ever think about or miss former clients?
All the time! I have very special bonds with my long term clients and become a part of their days and lives and enjoy them in mine. I understand life takes us all in different directions and although I fully support my former clients in moving on for any reason I still miss them.
Dear Mistress:
What do you think former callers should do if they wanted to keep up an email correspondence with you but they’re real life partner would rather they didn’t?
I don’t suggest they do NOT keep it up if their real life partner does not want them too…this will appear as disrespect for their partners….think long and hard… is contacting me worth losing your relationship over?
Dear Mistress:
Hi Constance, I listened to the CEI audio from Milovana and it worked phenomenally. I love eating cum… but what would it take to get me to want to guzzle it? I get horny thinking about it.
First of all thanks for checking it out and following up here on my blog. I am thrilled it worked and you loved eating your cum and as far as guzzling it perhaps a bit of motivation like a cum cheerleader so to speak. Also the hotter it gets to eat your cum the more you want to guzzle it!
Dear Mistress:
Do you think men with small endowments are naturally submissive? Do you think they masturbate more and get less sex than average or well-endowed guys? Lastly, when do girls first begin to think about size? My sense is that it seems to become more important to girls as they become more experienced?
In my personal experience most men I meet with smaller dicks (below average) are more submissive but there is always exceptions to that. I think they probably do get less sex and therefore masturbate more but again I am sure some small dicked men out there get sex as much as they want. I can’t speak for everyone but I thought of size and that I loved big cock after my first sexual experience at a younger age. I would also like to say I am sure as women age and they become more sure and experienced that it would be natural to then want big cock more so when they were younger.
Ms. Constance, I was especially intrigued by the question about women wanting big cocks. I have to say, the first guy I was ever with was a well-endowed Black guy. After him, I was spoiled. I think some women are more into size because of the way it feels. There is a feeling of fullness and friction, that a small cock can never duplicate.
That is an interesting response to the last question, Ms. Constance. In my experience, I agree! I find that men with small cocks have been socialized to feel inferior and submissive, and many have eroticized their shortcomings as a way to cope with their lack of perceived manhood. I also agree with you that cock size becomes more important as women gain sexual experience. While cute little sayings like, “It’s not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean” make little-dicked men feel good, I think we all know the size of the boat is very, very important. No one wants a row boat.
Ms Marlene worded it very well.
Thank you for the insight. I have been self analysing my cuck fetish for several years now yet somehow your explanation had not occurred to me. I have for the most part simply put it down the the adrenalin rush and evidently avoided the deeper psychoanalysis