As many of you know I have joined the virtual world and being in there from time to time I always run across someone who has one idea of what they think a dominant woman is or behaves like and I always end up explaining who I am and how I look at domination….so great blog post right?

Submissive to me

First of all you cant just meet me and then decide to be submissive to me…sure for fantasy this is fine but if you want the real deal it does not happen that fast and anyone who demands you to be submissive to them in the first 5 minutes is a bit well delusional. However don’t confuse being respectful for being submissive…..you should always be respectful.

Domination means

I have to yell at you….threaten you….treat you poorly….or just simply use and abuse you at my whim…………this is NEVER the case with someone who is truly in control. I want you to be submissive to me because I inspire it of you. I want you to give me control because you crave me and my control. I will never insist on it I will never demand it…if I don’t inspire it than so be it.

I cant have fun or be silly

I have said this like a million times being a femdom Mistress is a small part of what makes me who I am. I am at heart a fun loving silly ass woman who enjoys having a good time. If you are from the school of this makes me less dominant than  you are the one missing out. I will never change I will always be who I am and how I am. Those who submit to me benefit from this in many ways.

Can I be demanding

HELL YES I can but I wont be demanding of someone I don’t know or have taken the time to know…..if you come to me giving up control I will take it and run with it and in those cases I can be very demanding.

domination with ms constance