So you are a submissive guy and you enjoy giving up control to a woman in charge such as myself. I love that I truly do in fact I thrive on having that control but there is one thing to being submissive and another to be mindless and mush….I will explain more
Submissive guy does not mean no brain
So just because you are a submissive it does not mean I expect you to brainless and only do what I want to do. The real truth is I enjoy a submissive guy who has a brain who can carry a conversation and give his likes and dislikes. I want to hear what you like to explore when being dominated  the standard answer of “whatever you like Mistress” does not work with me. I want you to have thoughts and opinions and I want you to share them.
Submissive but afraid of being disrespectful
So I know that you expressing your opinion with a Mistress may come off as disrespectful to some….well it does NOT to me. When you come to me I will be asking you what you enjoy and I expect you to answer. I may or may not enjoy what you like but I will let you know that. I never just play along for the sake of playing along especially if I am not into it. Just like I don’t expect you to play along just because it is something I like but you do not. The key is to always be respectful when discussing it, don’t be rude short or snippy with me.
Not like others
If you know anything about me by now you know I don’t fit the “Mistress Mold” I tend to do things my way in a different way and I will never demand of you something I don’t feel you enjoy or want. I will never disrespect you unless you ask me to disrespect you. I believe in any relationship D/s or vanilla that respect goes both ways and it is how you build trust in a D/s relationship. So don’t be a mindless anything you want subbie be a submissive guy who knows what he enjoys and wants to explore and share it.
Sexy and beautiful photo, Constance! ???
thanks joe!
Its really hard to look into those eyes and not turn into a mound of slush. But i agree. Rather be on the same page than wondering if you so freaky you want me to hook up jumper cables and sing lady gaga tunes as you see if you can shock the cum from my balls…….mmmmmm that gives me an idea….
gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa not the jumper cables hahahahaha
Yes Mistress. If that is what will make you happy Mistress.
LOL
hahah wellspanked
Great post. I always think of this subject as akin to Goldilocks and the Three Bears. Not enough independent thinking and expression, not good as you wrote. Too much? Well we both know what can happen. So what is just right? It all depends on the individual mistress and pet I suppose. But it is important to find the balance if it’s going to be a successful relationshop.
so very very true all about finding the balance that works for you and your Mistress
We know how our relationship has evolved over these years. I know that it exist because of the mad respect I have for your work ethic, creativity and the way you care about the people in your life. Sure I treasure those moments that you direct and dictate all that exsist in my sexual life and even as well as you know me at this point, you never shut me down for expressing what I feel. But boy the best part is when you drop a sexy surprise out of left field. Love when I never see it coming!
I love when ya never see it coming too hahahaha and yes respect is so important
While I may have a brain….and hopefully i use it serve you better…it is difficult for me sometimes not to simply want to shut it off and mindlessly obey and worship you Goddess….Here’s praying i find the balance you seek 🙂