So I woke up this morning thinking how much I love to be a cock control Mistress and how many guys come to me for it. Than I thought I wonder what it is that makes men crave it? So I am asking all of you what makes you crave CockControl?
When did you discover your need for cock control
Well the subtitle kinda says it all. When did you discover your need for a woman to take control of your cock? Did you discover it by accident? was it something that was always a part of you? Or were you introduced to it by a woman who loves controlling dicks?
CockControl what does it mean to you
I am sure there are many types of guys who love giving up control of their orgasms. What about giving up control turns you on? Do you enjoy chastity cock control? Or mental cock control? Do you just do it to please your Mistress? Are you the type of guy who just likes being told when to cum and when not to?
Is it all about the orgasms
So for your needs and your kinks is it all about orgasm control? Or is it a bit of a mind fuck or submissive trip to give up control of your cock? Or do you just simply dig it and you don’t know what CockControl is what you crave. I know I always say don’t over think you kink, and not to question why and such but in this case I am curious.
Share your CockControl craving with me
This is where I ask you my readers to share. I want to know what it is about a woman controlling your dick and what it does to you. I want to know what it is that makes it hot for you. Of course I want to control that dick as well so don’t hesitate to reach out and give up control to me.
As a chronic masturbater i have always know that i was submissive, but i didn’t get into actual cock control until i stumbled across ldw. After reading every word that the cock control site had to offer i knew i needed my cock controlled. One thing lead to another and here i am under Your control and loving every part of it. But it got me thinking about the woes we have had of finding the right chastity device and how mature metals was the way to go. So i took the plunge and ordered my Queen’s Keep device today. Hopefully by the new year You will have total and complete control of “Your” cock. What makes me want to have my cock controlled? You my Queen! It makes you happy which makes me happy!
Mmm new year new locked up cock of MINEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE I love it and I love controlling that cock and every single orgasm mmm mmm good
I think giving you control allows me to fully surrender and submit to my Goddess. To know deep inside that I am at my happiest, my best and in my place focusing on serving you and pleasing you …. instead of even thinking about myself. So it makes sense to allow you 100% control of my pleasure. I feel deep down that for me….. I need to surrender completely to you and I am thrilled you have accepted control .
I love that you have given me full control I cant imagine you not giving me that and to think back to how we started how far you have come and I am pleased
You are asking for a lot, aren’t you? Lol. For starters, I think wanting to be controlled was always in me, although I didn’t know it, because I remember having certain thoughts that now I can see were wanting to be controlled that date back decades. What started to bring it out was stumbling across for the first time a sex publication in the late 80s where I saw all kinds of phone sex and domination ads, and realizing how excited I was when I made that first call – shaking, shivering, sweating – and hard as a rock!
You know that for me it’s all about the mental control – being delayed, denied, ruined, or allowed to cum on instructions, but without being locked up. As to why, I’m not sure I know all the answers. I know that in the rest of my life, I’m not submissive, I’m a type A, I’m in control, and could be described as an alpha male. But sexually, finding the most fulfillment and excitement has been to give up all that and be controlled and guided. It’s a special kind – I don’t want to be humiliated, hurt, or put down – but rather I want my mistress to have control and lead me. Something about having her tell me when to stroke, how to stroke, if and when I can cum, enhances my excitement to new levels.
A big part of it is a need to please her. I’m at my happiest when I’m aching and throbbing, letting her know how horny and excited I am. I’m also at my happiest when I’m fulfilling assignments that are naughty and kinky on the way to earning my orgasm. I LOVE making her happy that way. But it’s not just to please her. It couldn’t be. The excitement and fulfillment it generates in me is wonderful, and when I do cum, the emotional and physical fulfillment is the best ever. So I do it for my own physical and emotional enjoyment too.
Those are some of the reasons. I’m not 100% sure why it all works, but I guess the important thing is it does. Thanks for asking; I’m enjoying reading the other responses too.
these are awesome well thought out answers thank you so much for sharing them and touching on the last part I am happy it all works even if we may not know the what where and why of it all I love it
Ms. Constance, I think men give up control because they really don’t have any.They are well aware tat they cannot control their urges and need a woman to do it for them.Men love to please also, so having to jump through hoops to win an orgasm is exciting .
I think that it is very closely tied to cockteasing Miss Constance. *squirm*
From as far back as I can remember, women have had influence over my cock, making it stiffen and swell, even if just on TV. It just seems like a natural progression for one, or more of them, to want to take complete control over it!
N.B. – I have to inform you that this is one of a series of Mistress blog comments I’m having to make, in order to earn a release.